Why I'm Pro-Birth, Pro-Life, and Pro-Choice

So everyones talking about abortions and as this is an opinion site, I feel like giving my opinion. So this is not really in response to anything here, but more a conversation my friend and I had.

Why I'm Pro-Birth, Pro-Life, and Pro-Choice

How I'm Pro-Birth

So many people say "I'm pro-life", but when the baby is born, you say, "Fuck all government help for the parents.". Therefor, you are not pro-life anymore. You are just pro-birth. You care for the child being born, not what happens to him or her, how they're raised, what happens to them basically. You don't really care if the kid is getting a good education, or one in general. You don't really care if they're being fed, clothed, in a safe home. You just care that they were born. Period. Therefor, if you care about them being born but not what happens after they leave the hospital, you are pro-birth and not pro-life. But to make sense, I am pro-birth. If the parent(s) chose to have the baby, so be it. Congratulations and good luck.

Why I'm Pro-Birth, Pro-Life, and Pro-Choice

How I'm also Pro-Life

For those of you who have a heart and care about what happens after the birthing, you qualify as pro-life. I am also pro-life. I care highly about what happens after the birthing, and wish nothing but good luck. I grew up in a pretty bad city, shady neighborhood, bad school. Girls getting raped, kidnapped, pregnant before their 14th birthday, boys getting the same. Kids joining gangs, shootings happening so frequently we couldn't even use the playground during recess anymore because it was a safety threat. It was bad. No child should have to go through that shit. Every child should be in a safe area, safe city, safe home. Safe lifestyle, be able to go in the playground and have skinned knees the only thing to cry about. Not learn about 'stranger danger' since pre-school and know it's a real thing and have to be extremely cautious before they can tie their damn shoes. That's not a life for a child.

So I am always hoping whatever president we have doesn't cancel benefits that can at least make sure the kids parents aren't forced to live in incredibly sub-standard housing in the ghetto, which is full of nothing but threats. If the parents need the benefits, don't cancel them and then whine about the poor. Some families, like mines, need these benefits. Without them, we'd probably be homeless. At least they pay for the rent and just enough food to keep us fed.

But to summarize, I really wish nothing but the best for any child entering the world. It's a harsh place, but a good childhood can at least make it a little better or easier.

Why I'm Pro-Birth, Pro-Life, and Pro-Choice

How I'm also Pro-Choice

And finally, Pro-Choice. Now many people say Pro-Life vs. Pro-Choice, which are you? I am both. Now many ask how the hell I can possibly be both. Well it's quite simple. I'm Pro-Life because if the parent(s) choose to have a child, I wish nothing but the best of luck and hope said kid(s) have a happy childhood. I am Pro-Choice because I know nothing regarding the people involved, so why the hell can I make a decision based on my personal opinion?

Like I don't know the following: How she got pregnant, why, did they use protection, if it was consensual (aka rape or not), financial situation, housing situation, highest education achieved, age, mental stability, if they are on any medications, current health, where they live at (not the house, but the area and city), who the dad is, are they capable of helping raise the kid, is it a single mother, does she not know who the dad is, can she support raising the baby all by herself, can family and friends help, if so are they willing to until that child is in college and somewhat able to care for themselves, if not can she even afford to, and so many more.

I know nothing about the parent(s). I know nothing about who is involved. Hell, I don't even know their name! Why should I, someone who couldn't even tell you what color hair these people have, be able to say "well you shouldn't have an abortion"? Maybe it was rape. Maybe it was a legit accident, cause those do happen with protection people! Maybe she was sleeping around and, oops, pregnancy. Do I support abortion as a mode of contraception? Hell no! But if it's in the case of rape, accident, or they literally can't afford to raise a child (trust me, I'm proof of that), then damn. If y'all want an abortion so be it.

It's a very serious decision, like deciding to give birth or give the baby up for adoption. But those two aren't mandated by the government. So why should an abortion? Tell me how easy it is to look your baby in the face after giving birth and giving that child up for adoption. I'd rather they get the abortion and not risk getting attached, then getting attached and attempting to raise a child they're not ready for.


So I know this is long and a bit annoying to some. But these are my legit reasons as to why I'm Pro-Birth, Pro-Life, and Pro-Choice. Comment what you like, so long as you're being respectful the entire time. I hope I had not offended anyone, as that wasn't my intention.

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Most Helpful Guy

  • Funny.

    You know, people can be both responsible enough to not have children until they can provide for them... and to refrain from killing their own children in the womb and selling them for parts.

    Being disgusted at generations that have survived on public welfare is not an opposing view to wanting to stop a million children a year from being literally butchered. And as Kermit Gosnell demonstrated, once you remove the value from an unborn infant's life, it's a short step from their to a full on horror shop.

    • It is so ironic. In the USA... A man does not even need to actually impregnate a woman to legally become a father and be held accountable. "If you don't want to be a parent, don't have sex." Women? Hell, they're as responsible as infants. "You don't want to be a parent? Just have the kid sliced apart and his internal organs sold, it's all good!"

    • So your saying it's OK that a 13 year old girl raped by her dad should just suck it up and have a baby? Not every case of abortion is stupid people not bothering to use condoms. Also as long as the fetus hasn't developed brain and central nervous system it would just be like maturating anyway, your killing tons of babies just jerking off or getting your period. Also what about pregnancies that would kill the mother? Oh well abortion is immoral cause I said so you'll just have to die in 8 months boo hoo.

    • @Kalibie Get real. I don't know whether you're sarcastic or truly retarded. For one, if a law was signed that stated abortion was only legal in cases of rape/incest or where the mother would likely die, women and the left in the USA would be screaming bloody murder. For two, you're either ignorant or a dumb shit... it takes an egg and a sperm combined to create a human life. I mean, you went through elementary school, right? Or maybe you learned online? Or a friend told you? Hopefully?

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  • I'm pro-choice because the abortion laws don't stop abortion completely and why should they get rid of abortion. What about the women that were rape or incest? If they got rape or have a server case of tocophopia then why should they keep the baby at the end of the day it's their choice

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  • hey, pro choice equals pro death! playing God has consequences! choose abortion equals death to the unborn BABY ok? so yes choice of life or death! there is no in between here! Ask this unborn baby with its own genes and DNA if abortion means life or death and the mother playing God , Pro choice a PC feel good warm fuzzy word for pro death! only the abortionist banned parenthood those who abortion is birth control making money are and have chose this word of pro choice ok? When will the unborn helpless defenseless silent baby will be given a choice to be murdered or to live? Even animals have more rights protections and sympathy than a unborn human baby!

    • I don't even believe in God so this doesn't apply to me :)

    • It's not born so it's not really alive. You are essentially killing what could have been, similar to masturbation if you think about it. He made some really great points which it seems you didn't receive well so you should really actually read or reread the article. What are we to do with the child that was born a fucking crack baby and abused most of their life because abortions are "wrong"? What do we do about the girl that could possibly die giving birth because she was too young? You can't give an unconscious fetus a choice, but you can give it to the woman carrying that fetus. Sounds pretty fair to me.

  • As of late I couldn't come to any conclusion on which side I stand. My views are pretty simple - abortion should only be available in cases of rape, incest or, of course, when the mother's health is at risk.

    Any other situation could be summerized to ''oops... forgot the pill/ condom broke'' or something like that, which I think is totally not an excuse to kill a kid.

    • Well condom broke can be reasonable, because that does happen. Some people use pill AND condom, and could still get her pregnant. Happened before, it can happen now.

    • No, that is not reasonable. Sex ALWAYS has the chance to end in pregnancy. Always. If you are willing to take that chance, you have to be willing to take responsibility for all the possible outcomes.

    • Well damn.

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  • Just letting you know pro-life is regarding mostly before the baby is born not after.

    But otherwise I agree.

    • As I read, many pro life people admittedly give zero fucks regarding the childs upbringing after he/she is born, so long as the baby is born. That's why I made the difference about pro-life and pro-birth. Many of these "pro-life" people really do not give a damn if the kid even makes it and survives, hence the 'life' in it, but care more as to whether or not the child is actually born. I care greatly as to the baby being born and living a mostly happy/decent, but a hella better than mines. Which is also why I want to wait to have children after I am through with graduate school and hopefully have more than enough money to raise well-rounded adults.

    • Wel that's sad then, the people I know however are the opposite they do care greatly about both the child pre and post birth. Good for you, that is the right move, no use having kids if you can't afford to have them in the first place.

  • I love this take, well said

  • oh, I <3 this mytake so much. you have a lot of common sense.

  • I totally agree with you. I'm against abortion and pro life too, but I am pro choice as well meaning I'm not going to stop them from making that decision, but I may try to persuade them to pursue other options

  • I don't know the terms, all I know is that if the lady don't want a baby, she don't have to have the baby!

  • Thank you I totally agree.