8 Reasons NEVER To Watch Porn AGAIN

8 Reasons NEVER To Watch Porn AGAIN

1) Wakefulness

The fatigue you feel after a good fap can become problematic if you can't stop even when you've got something you need to be "up" for. The pros of being able to fall asleep pale in comparison to be in better control of your sleepiness.

2) Control

Guys and girls who watch porn frequently are pretty easy to spot. They tend to want sex period rather than want sex with a particular person. They tend to objectify more greatly and while they seem to have a greater capacity for instantaneous horniness and willingness to engage in sexual discussion they have a reduced ability to talk about anything else with the sex they're attracted to with any real degree of interest.

3) Clarity

Getting off porn often produces a sensation of clarity. thing that were frustratingly confusing and stressful suddenly arrange themselves in perfect order in your mind's eye. This is probably the least believable gift since you still have some clarity when your brain's on porn, but give it a chance and you'll remember how much you saw before...

4) Free Time

Doesn't seem like it adds up but porn watchers tend to watch it once a day for around an hour. That's not including finding those really specific videos and also the cooldown period afterward when you're feeling the high of the orgasm (sometimes this period can be skipped.) When you just don't have that activity in your life you may find yourself with more free time than you know what to do with.

5) Non-neediness

When you're talking to someone that's attractive to you it can often feeling like you desperatly need to seduce them. You see them the same way as a porn model but that you can actually talk to. This creates a harshly unequal interest level which causes extremely disgusting need.

6) More arousal

The dirty secret of too much porn is becoming more and more obvious to the general populace. Porn can cause temporary erectile dyfunction during actual sex. The girl feels offended that you can't get it up for her and you're embarrased and don't feel like a man. Drugs wouldn't work since the problem is you're more interested in pixels and watching sex than having it. If you watch porn a lot chances are you are ironically not getting the random boners you used to get before you started watching

7) Connectedness

When you watch porn a lot you eventually become highly attracted to the fake. The real is vanilla and perhaps even scary and less fun. When you only have sex or masterbate without porn to real people/situations you relearn how to crave connection with others rather than having a big fantasy come true.

8 ) Sensation

The biggest of all. Porn desensitizes you to everything else except porn itself if you watch too much. Some workaholics actually figure out a way to use this to their advantage (see: the wolf of wall street) because once you've orgasmed you're so desensitized to anything that even boredom doesn't stop you from engaging in marathon stretches of work. When you turn your brain off porn you regain the sensations of everything else which goes back to that feeling of waking up.

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Most Helpful Guy

  • Yeah, porn addiction is bad. I didn't know I had it until my girlfriend got mad at me because we had sensational sex when we cosplayed, but I couldn't keep steel longer than five minutes when we were being spontaneous. No matter the position or how dirty she talked ( a favored kink), it wasn't happening.
    The worst part to the addiction is the cure. You have to complete ABSTAIN from porn. There is no "weening" off porn. You have to quit cold turkey. And take the proper precautions so that you don't have access to porn.
    I needed an extreme for that last one. Meaning I had to hand over the password to my parental controls on my laptop to my girlfriend. I also had to start wearing mittens to bed with zip ties around the wrists. (Oh yeah. I was f!%$#ked up in the worst way.) BUT I did get into a routine again, instead of falling asleep by way of orgasm OR hours long porn marathon exhaustion. I started brushing my teeth & using the bathroom before bed. I had to; ever try to take a leak with mittens on? That meant I couldn't drink anything sweet before bed, which meant I wouldn't be hyped up on sugar. It also meant my acne had nearly cleared up, or that it wasn't so bad. Then my energy began to return. I started dressing better. I didn't sneer at attractive women anymore or assume they were dressing sexy to purely frustrate me. I began to notice my girlfriend's appearance and what a great person she was. Also (six months later) women began to notice me. It became a lot easier to talk to women when you weren't thinking how she'd look on her knees in front of you.
    The only downside to quitting porn was that with the attention I was getting from other women, I downgraded my girlfriend to weekends and 2 a. m. booty calls. Yeah she was a bit on the pudgy side and would gain weight every other month or so. When I tried to mention it to her that maybe she should keep closer tabs, she tried to guilt trip me. So (sighs regrettably) I moved her to 2nd string. My "star shaft-stroker" now is nice small waist, thick-bottomed, 5'6" 128lb. brown-skinned, brunette volleyball player outta Southlake, Tx; she's signed to a six-month full respect deal, to include being my daytime/movie/dinner date girlfriend. So yeah. There's that.

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  • I don't necessarily agree. These things can most definitely be said for porn addiction 100%, but simply watching porn at all? This goes a bit too far. Maybe if you reworded it some, like "8 Reasons to be Conscious of How Much Porn You Watch" and then stressed that because of these eight things, porn addiction is bad.

    • porn is addictive

    • Lots of things are addictive. Does that mean we should stay away from all of those things? Some might say yes, but I don't think so. I watch porn, drink alcohol, vape with nicotine, take pain killers, and have sex. I could become addicted to all of these things, but I'm not because I use them and engage in them responsibly. And I will continue to do so with my life left undamaged because of it. It's all up to the individual, just because someone managed to let it take over their life that doesn't mean nobody should enjoy it.

    • lol someone's not ready to give up her gangbang videos

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  • Not to mention how often porn is actually rape... you never know who or what is behind the camera

  • Bullshit

  • ... but I LIKE porn :/

    lol but I don't watch it often anyway. good take tho

    • lol i'm sure everyone does. A lot of people have gotten addicted so i thought i'd shoot this out there since there are a lot of costs if you find yourself doing it daily.

    • hehe you'd SHOOT it out ;) XD

    • lol i miss being sixteen for moments like this

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  • If I've watched porn almost every day for the past 2 or 3 years, is it possible that I can stop watching for two weeks and then feel a desire to watch it again?

    • you'll always feel some desire probably. but your willpower and interest in other things like real sex will be much more dominant

  • So you're saying, fapfest = adderall for studyfests.

  • Porn addictions are so bad and can tear people apart

    • yes!!!

  • Meh, I never liked porns anyway

  • There are many more reasons, I couldn't agree more, down with porn! Although I still watch sometimes I try to get away from it as much as possible.

  • The reasons are all out there. People know why you shouldn't watch porn. But they don't how they should quit it.

  • I agree with you, but I think all this has to do with porn addiction as opposed to just the casual person who watches porn sometimes. Sure I guess porn can develop into an addiction, but I also feel everybody is different.

    It's like alcohol. Some people can drink more than others and not get drunk and/or not get addicted to it. Others if they have one they gotta have two and if they have two they gotta have three and... you get the point.

  • totally agree... you should do more sex and less masturbation..
    believe me sex is better.

    • good sex is for sure

  • I watch a lot of porn. Now in real sex, I am having problems with the connectedness :/
    I think I am addicted to the fake. Yikes I'm doomed

    • Can you stop watching it?

    • @Artist10 yes. I am trying :)

  • Like all compulsive behavior, I suspect compulsive porn watching is more often a symptom of underlying problems than a cause. ("Addiction" isn't the word wanted here---nobody ever got sick for want of porn to fap to.)

    Yes, I enjoy watching porn. There are far more damaging ways of achieving an altered state of consciousness. I enjoy being a dumb horny animal for half an hour and forgetting my responsibilities in favour of thoughts of tits and asses and fucking, and how hot the girl on the screen looks and sounds. I can return to my senses any time by letting myself orgasm. No other drug gives me that option.

    And I still adore sex with my partner, whose very real beauty puts the hottest actress to shame (for my money anyway).

  • longest I ever went without porn or masturbation was two weeks. after this the horniness was literally unbearable, and the pent up butterflies, it felt like I was gonna die. I tried this several times actually, I never really saw the benefits of it and don't see how some people are asexual (more girls than men, it seems) and can go for *months* without masturbating or having sex, and then just be like, "meh, sex isn't a big deal".

    • ok, 'it felt like I was gonna die' is an exaggeration. I mean, it's not like the worst thing in the world to happen to you. but it *feels* uncomfortable and agitated, like when you need to go to the bathroom quite badly but someone's in there and you have to wait.

    • I have never had sex. I am not asexual. i just don't lust after anyone

    • @azanun huh?

  • I'll support this, personally I kind of view it like a drug almost, as I've seen people get addicted to it almost as easily as some fall to drug addiction.

  • Good article, Im glad to see someone post about how not so great porn is. Because in all reality, its not all that and it does have its negatives. Im not a fan of porn, mainly because its not even close to the real thing, an erotic novel might be closer tho even tho I dont read them.

  • There's only ONE good reason: porn is a bad show and leads to wrong expectations.
    Thus only your reason 7 and maybe 8 would apply. The rest is just your feeling or beliefs.

  • The subject of this post seems to be closer to "don't masturbate" rather than "don't watch porn". Since most of the points concentrate around equating watching porn to compulsively fapping, so here's my retort:
    Yes, not having a hand down your pants all the time is good, compulsive masturbation is nothing to joke about. Well, maybe a little, remember this guy?

    cdn.collider.com/.../Michael-Ornstein-02.jpg

    On the other hand, If you don't have a steady partner and you're not getting a release - backed up sperm, involuntary discharges, and all around on-the-edge behavior are rather unpleasant to deal with too. So there's that.

    • I think we should think about how often one masturbates without any porn. My assumption is that most guys never masturbate without porn on, and I think that is a problem...

  • I watched porn once, but stopped it in the middle of the video.
    It's just not right in my head to watch other people do it. The people in the video are all someone's child.

    • lol yeah... it's nicer to put a penis inside their bodies and then never call again

    • I guess you have your reasons, some people are very open with their sexuality and others enjoy being filmed. However porn is so fake, its boring.

    • @Artist10 that's a part of the reasons why I don't watch it anymore

  • I don't watch porn or see the need to do it. I fap to my vivid thoughts more.

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