Why There's Nothing Wrong With a Man Hitting a Woman

[RetroDreamerXD]

Let me just start off by saying, it's not okay for anyone to lay hands on anyone! Point blank period.

But hey ladies, you deserve to get hit when you hit a guy. When you put your hands on a man, you open the door for him to hit you back.

A well known fact, guys are naturally stronger than girls. With that info, do you really wanna punch your boyfriend because he made you mad and you think it won't hurt him? Well just because he's a dude, doesn't mean he doesn't have feelings...or feeling in his body for that matter. Dudes are still flesh and bone just like us. Realize that.

Think before you act. If you don't think about your actions before you act on them, how can you expect him to think about his actions before he act on them. It's possible for you both to be in the heat of passion. You could be pissed, furious, just plain angry and blinded by fury so you hit him. You feeling the way you feel is no excuse. Be honest, you don't know exactly how he'll react. For all you know, that one slap could send him over the edge. He may be calm about it and just call the cops or he could slap you back. BUT YOU DON'T KNOW! So after you hit him, you best hope he just call the cops because you just assaulted him.

'Real men don't hit women.' Well guess what...REAL WOMEN DON'T HIT MEN. 'Nuff said about that.

Basically what I'm saying is, don't hit on people who you know could kick your behind. In fact, just EVERYONE, KEEP YOUR HANDS TO YOURSELVES. Avoid the nasty confrontation. Whether you're just playing around or dead serious. Think before you act because you don't know how someone will respond.

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[LilWeezey]

I agree.
I agree wholeheartedly. A man should not tolerate physical violence brought upon him by some scumbags woman

[QuestionMan]

That title was very misleading, I thought you were going to be advocating for domestic abuse.

[FreeLunch]

I've only experienced this once. A woman punched me right in the face. Not a slap, not a backhand swing, a full on punch to the face. I asked her to leave my apartment, she locked herself in my room. I called the police, they removed her.

Fast forward three years, I met an old friend of hers. She's in trial, for stabbing her current ex-boyfriend about 30 times. The guy survived, by the way. How you survive being stabbed 30 time, I don't know.

I can take a punch from a woman and do nothing about it. A SINGLE punch. After that, it's bye-bye. Get out of my life and never show yourself again. And for men, it's right there the end, at the first punch. Either I die, or he dies. A punch hurts, and it's not fun. I'm not just going to lie there and take it.

NEVER tolerate any type of physical violence. There is absolutely no justification for it, and it shows deep mental problems in the person crossing that line.

[MargaritaPeach]

Good for you!

[samhradh_leannan]

There is something VERY wrong with a man hitting a woman. It's just that the exact same things are wrong with a woman hitting a man.

[SomeGuy37]

I completely disagree!! Even if a woman hits a man, he should have the restraint, and know he is typically stronger, and could seriously hurt her!!
I WOULD NEVER, and have NEVER, Hit a woman!! If you resort to physical violence, against someone you claim to love, you are a hypocrite, at best, and just an ABUSER, either way!!
Generally, men are stronger, and if so, he should restrain her, rather than hit her! He needs to be the 'bigger man' and take an aberrant strike, and not retaliate the same way, defusing the escalation.
Even a simple slap, across the face, cannot be forgotten, and every time you argue, and raise voices, after that first strike, she will be afraid of another!! Even if you don't intend it, the 'damage' is done!!
Is it 'Fair'? Is it easy to do, in the heat of the argument? NO, but a REAL MAN, would, and can control his responses!!

[BubbleBoy69]

Your argument could also apply to when a bigger male attacks a smaller male.

[SomeGuy37]

@BubbleBoy69 But that was not the question. What you suggest is a different interaction, unless you are lovers?

[Poppykate]

Amen! Men do need to realise that they are the stronger sex, and not just hit back with full force because she gave him a playful tap.

[BubbleBoy69]

No it's not. You equate women to weaker and therefore men should put restraint. Your argument could extend over to a much stronger man putting restraint on not hurting a weaker man he got into an altercation with.

[Mesonfielde]

@Poppykate "Playful tap" lol. no one hits you back if you do a "playful tap", they hit back if you slap or punch with a fist

[Panay]

@Mesonfielde can't guys just not hit at full strength then? Just because they COULD hurt a woman with their punch does t mean they have to

[Mesonfielde]

@Panay Honestly, I think if you're hitting someone with enough force to inflict pain then you're an uncivilized asshat. That's my general stance on this, and this is regardless of your chromosomes.

[Panay]

@Mesonfielde yeah if agree with that, just as long as there are no double standards

[cherrymarina]

@SomeGuy37 Yep, a real man does not hit a woman. Those who do are abusers.

[Mesonfielde]

@cherrymarina The fuck is a "real man" and "real woman" seriously, to be a man you have to have a penis and be over the age of 21, and to be a woman you have to have ovaries and be over the age of 21 - exhibiting (or not) violent behavior has nothing to do with your sex, it has to do with whether you're capable of functioning as a civilized human being in society Obviously if you feel the inclination to hit and slap people, then you have the maturity of a 4 year old.

[cherrymarina]

@Mesonfielde I don't have to explain what a real man is. Not every man is an honorable man. There are many shitty males out there, yes they have a penis but I do not consider them real men because they are pussies and they degrade women out of fear. A REAL man is not afraid of a woman to go through these lengths to abuse her.

[Mesonfielde]

@cherrymarina The question here also takes context into consideration, which is that the male would not inflict physical harm by default, but the female does, and so he retaliates to make her stop. The real abuse in that scenario is done by the female, and she is prevented from continuing that by making her see the error of her ways.

[RetroDreamerXD]

@Poppykate @SomeGuy37 A girl shouldn't put her hands on a guy first. She doesn't know how he'll react. We can't blame the dude for acting out when she had the discretion to decide if she A) wants to hit him or B) leave him be. She knows the possibilities and consequences of her actions. Her getting hit could be the result of an involuntary act or could be on purpose. Either way, she risks it when she hits a guy.

[SomeGuy37]

@cherrymarina Amen!! Thank you for supporting the TRUTH!!

[SomeGuy37]

Whatever the thought process, I think it is irrational for either gender to think that physical abuse is a legitimate response to ANYTHING!! I don't condone any kind of violence, like face slapping by either gender, but I am saying, that if I am a respectable man, in a relationship, with someone that I care for, I would NEVER, EVER, 'Hit her back' if she struck me. Yes, we would discuss it, later, when she is not in the mindset (drunk, conflicted, whatever!!) and we would decide, if we can stay together, if it is something that she might do, again. I don't know what another person is thinking, and feeling!! sometimes people make mistakes, and regret them, later. I accept that, and can forgive an unusual 'event' because of some extraordinary circumstances! If it becomes a trend, I won't tolerate it, and I will leave!

[Screamsgutter]

If she's hitting you, I have a hard time believing she cares about you. Why do you coddle women to the point of basically acting like there should be a natural and everyday acceptance for adult women to be incapable of controlling their emotions to the point where they feel they can/have to strike out with physical violence, whether it's a slap or a thrown toaster? Because they're upset? What kind of an idiot would accept and actually want to be in any kind of relationship with a woman if this was the reality? Oh, you apparently.

[theceejmachine]

Abuse of any kind, regardless of gender, is wrong. But I'm sorry... a man who hits a woman is no man at all.

[RetroDreamerXD]

Vice versa.

[Mesonfielde]

But is a woman who hits a man a woman?

[theceejmachine]

@Mesonfielde I admit that women can be abusers too. I'm not denying that. But I have yet to meet a woman who can be as physically overpowering as the opposite sex.

[Screamsgutter]

You don't have to admit anything. We all know women aren't the least bit innocent in this. The worst things to come along for abusive women are the commonality of commercial and especially residential security cameras and cellphones that record video.

[Azara]

People should not hit period unless in defense. And it's not a given a guy will be stronger depends on the people. I can throw my cousin across the room and I'm 95 pounds and he's 180.

Anyhow just don't hit. More men hit other men than women hit men. No one makes posts against men hitting each other. Why is that? Is it bc I deep down people are ok with hitting. Just bc two people are men doesn't mean they are the same size.

Just don't hit. Period.

[Screamsgutter]

He's letting you throw him around.

[lumos]

In my opinion, there's no point in hitting someone back unless you're actually doing it for self-defense.
Hitting someone back just because they hit you is childish and petty. Regardless if you're male or female. If you aren't in a dangerous situation and you can just leave, then do that. Hitting someone back out of revenge is something kids do in kindergarten.
"But she hit me first!!!"
That's no excuse to hit someone either, just like feeling mad is no excuse to hit someone. Unless, like I said, you're purely doing it out of self-defense (which doesn't seem to be what you're advertising here, you're just condoning hitting someone back because they hit you first).
Also, nice fucking clickbait title.

[PhoenixItalian]

how many times do you let someone hit you before you hit them back?

[lumos]

@PhoenixItalian it's not about times, it's about whether I can escape or not.

[PhoenixItalian]

So you've never been in a fight?

[lumos]

@PhoenixItalian not a real one, no.

[PhoenixItalian]

Sometimes someone grabs a knife and fatally stabs you, she's already crazy for attacking you, to assume she won't do anything like that is dumb.

[lumos]

@PhoenixItalian like I said I'll fight back if I can't escape, i. e. if someone grabs me or if I'm in a room or something. I'm not a dumbass. But escaping should always be a priority over punching yourself for self-defense.

[lumos]

@PhoenixItalian punching yourself lmao :D I meant punching the attacker.

[PhoenixItalian]

I don't run from things, people will learn not to hit me

[vishna]

What do you feel about violent play fighting in which the woman 'punches' the guy in the throat because he was tickling her ribs to hard and she felt trapped? Did he have a right to be mad?

[RetroDreamerXD]

She took it to a whole new level. She could've yelled something like stop I'm serious.

[vishna]

What if she did but it all happened so fast, the words, the feeling of desperation, the punch?

[RetroDreamerXD]

Well what happened has happened. It's now in his discretion of how he'll react. He could hit back involuntarily (subconscious reflex) or do nothing or apologize or cry, etc etc.

[vishna]

He got mad but didn't hit back. I think he was too shocked and mad to hit back, if that makes sense. Our little tisks happen bc of play fighting and over stepped boundaries, but VERY rarely. Once though, he was slapping my arm in the kitchen and I got mad because I felt like I didn't give him clear signs I wanted to play that hard (though we were goofing off) Haha, guess the teacher's were right about horse playing.

[RetroDreamerXD]

Yeah lol all hands are best kept to themselves. But as long as you guys didn't get seriously hurt. :)

[Mesonfielde]

Heh, you can kill someone by hitting them in the throat. No apologies undo that one.

[vishna]

@Mesonfielde Lol, I didn't go Hulk on anyone. But yes, it was wrong.

[RJGraveyTrain]

Hallelujah!!

[Mistnigqa808]

This is the best take I've read.

#EqualRightsMeansEqualLefts

[Mistnigqa808]

and I dont see any reason why I'd take shit from somebody physically inferior to me (when it comes to this sort of thing) LOL.

[Geministar16]

I agree!

[cheapshotbob]

this is a great a thread , it makes a lot of sense but i still would not hit a girl its just not done.

[Takada]

Great take! Women should not be able to hit men with impunity. If a woman hits a man because she didn't like what he had to say, then she should get hit back. Also, we should not demonize men who hit a woman after she hit him. People are quick to rush to defend women. But when men get hit, nobody does anything. In fact, when a man gets hit by a woman and he hits back, people jump him and start beating the shit out of him. What kind of bs is that?

[Hopefuldreamer8]

I agree with this 100%. No one should be hitting anyone, but if a girl hits a guy, she should be prepared to get hit back. I can't stand girls who think they can hit guys just because they are female. I think in a relationship, once a girl shows a guy that she can be violent, he should really think about whether or not he should stay with her. I know that if I were with a guy and he hit me, I'd end it. No one should stay in abusive relationships. I've never understood why a guy stays with a girl just because she is hot.

[realerthanreal]

Most men who hit women out of retaliation aren't so quick to hit a guy out of retaliation though. Most women with an ounce of sanity aren't going around hitting men first. And men have been mistreating women this includes hitting them, since the beginning of time. They don't need a supposed reason. All of this is bullshit.

[RetroDreamerXD]

No lady. Your comment is bullshit. Re-read my take. Think about what I said. Juggle the words in your mind. Based on your comment you're saying "It's ok to hit on guys even if he might hit you back." The reality is, a dude is stronger than a girl, she should think about the consequences of hitting him before she does it.

[realerthanreal]

I never said it's ok for women to hit men, I said most smart women aren't doing so. This is an old argument weak men use to justify hitting women. If a bigger guy hits them, they aren't hitting them back and they KNOW that, but if a woman who clearly isn't the same strength as you are (as most aren't) hits you, why not just walk away? And like I said, men don't need a reason to hit a woman. They have been doing it anyway since forever as someone else said, to show authority. They are just using this argument now because of feminism.

[RetroDreamerXD]

I disagree. If a guy hits another guy, there is guaranteed to be a fight no matter how much bigger one is. There are not a lot of pushover guys. Especially when it comes to pride and defense. They might even call in their boys. Everyone reaches their boiling point. Be it man on man or woman on man.

[SweetHomicidalQueen]

All of this, yes. No one should be hitting anyone.

[SomeGuy37]

YES!!! If you are in a relationship, and care for each other, WHY THE FCK WOULD YOU HIT THEM, OR PURPOSELY HURT THAT ONE, THAT YOU CARE FOR, OR LOVE? What happened to our society, when so many, on this thread, defend abusing someone they are dating, loving, or caring about?

[SweetHomicidalQueen]

@SomeGuy37 Abuse towards anyone is never okay, dating them or not.

[lovecuddling]

Stupidest take I've ever read

[lovecuddling]

Most men hit women to just demonstrate their authority

[lovecuddling]

A real man would never hit a women regardless of what she does to him, as we all know women are fragile

[lovecuddling]

They are emotional, they do things in the spur of the moment. Only an idiot can't understand that

[lovecuddling]

Real men never hit women

[RetroDreamerXD]

One of the points I stressed in the take was that women shouldn't hit men because they don't know how they'll react, with that being said hitting her back could be an involuntary action. One too many hits may send him over the edge. WOMEN SHOULDN'T HIT ON MEN.

[Screamsgutter]

Look at the guy's user name. Says it all.

[AndyOh]

Hey, if she hits me out of angor, then all chivalry goes right out the door and I will hit and kick back.
If she can't act like a lady, then I will not act like a gentleman.

[cherrymarina]

A real man does not hit a woman. He has the strength to stop her from hitting him. You hit a woman back you are piece of sht to me. And if you are so eager to get your ass kicked, well good for you :)

[Reerrw]

A man is a man because he's a male. Actions don't change it. Also a 'Real' man doesn't take shit from someone and accept hypocrisy. I'll only accept your opinion if you think women are like childre.

[cherrymarina]

@Reerrw Nope, there are males and there are men. I'll stick to opinion and you can stick to yours.

[Mesonfielde]

>> there are males and there are men Yes, males become "men" when they turn 21

[cherrymarina]

@Mesonfielde I have already replied to you. Not all males become ''men''.

[Mesonfielde]

I do not understand what you are talking about

[actual_dragon_tears]

if you can kick my ass, then why can't i beat the shit out of you

[cherrymarina]

@actual_dragon_tears what a sad excuse of a ''man'' u are. How can a woman kick your ass, u pussy? Beat the shit out of me? Right bitch. I'd have my whole family coming after your ass. Some of us girls have men around who care deeply for us, so u better not pull that shit by on anyone. I don't like your tone of speaking. You must be an abusive c*nt.

[Mesonfielde]

If your fight is fought by your family, then you really have no honor and no self-respect

[cherrymarina]

@Mesonfielde I don't care what women haters like you think about me :) I only care aboutREAL men. My respect is for them and I have enough of them around me to protect me from low life scumbags.

[RetroDreamerXD]

Until you hit one of them.

[arealgirlduh]

@cherrymarina ((this is in response to what you said to actual_dragon_tears, cunt)) no, retard. if someone hits someone, they get hit back. why are you this retarded? you must be sexist if you think females are weak

[didden6]

@arealgirlduh i usually just hug her over her arms its always fun to hug somone how wants to hit you :D and if a women hits you its not gonna hurt that bad unless she is trained or hits the D :)

[Screamsgutter]

@didden6 Yeah, I almost got my nose bitten off trying to 'hug' restrain a woman. Grow up and stop acting disposable in the face of an immature woman.

[Screamsgutter]

No cherry, you're the pussy.

[Mesonfielde]

I agree, if you hit someone, then you can be hit back.

But it's so much easier to just stay civil instead. Shame that many people aren't intelligent enough to comprehend this.

[thewanderingme]

whoa! I'm agreeing with mesofielde on something again. (: a whole my take on why a guy deserves to defend himself was unnecessary.

[RetroDreamerXD]

@thewanderingme are you being sarcastic lol because some females actually believe that guys will never retaliate or can.

[NightmareNeal]

Good take! People keep saying men shouldn't hit women because they are typically stronger. That's idiotic. She shouldn't hit the guy because she knows his strength. Why pick a fight with someone stronger than you? On top of that, what if the woman is stronger than the man? If you can throw hands, you can take hands! Point blank

[RetroDreamerXD]

Exactly.