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Is Porn Really Ruining People? Let's Discuss

Is Porn Really Ruining People? Let's Discuss

Hi. This is my first myTake to GaG and thought I'd break the ice by sharing some thoughts on sexuality and the state of the social climate towards sex in general. It's not difficult to see the influence of porn in different aspects of life. Did you ever see a popular female video game character with small breasts or not "attractive" in some way? They're video games for christ sake ..so why the big, floppy unrealistic breasts all of a sudden?

Porn influence is everywhere (Television, Fashion, Music, Art), and the danger of that is desensitization. In other words, what was sexy, attractive and engaging becomes boring and uninteresting over time, This is the reason why porn is increasingly beyond realistic and rather unattractive: vomit, slapping, bondage, pissing, incest role playing, and on and on are replacing what you and I would consider 'normal' sex. People look for the next best thing because the thing that turned them on last summer is now boring and ineffective due to repeated continuous exposure.

Sex used to be a thing people looked forward to. Now sex is about competition - who is better? who has the biggest cock? Who has the tightest pussy? It's emphasized in almost every magazine to being "creative" or better in the bedroom, spicing things up with new hand movements and ways to drive your partner into a whimsical sex frenzy. Hell, now ass is apparently the new vagina! (thanks Cosmo magazine - thumbs up on that).

Is Porn Really Ruining People? Let's Discuss

If you look at mainstream film and comedy, the facial, comeshot or anal joke is more prevalent today than ever before and is seemingly widely accepted as "normal" . The reason is these unrealistic and forced porn aspects in society directly come from the porn industry. And why wouldn't the porn industry be an influence on society? The billions of dollars that production companies bring in from their products which cater to a young market, thereby in turn make those viewers think that what they're seeing is how people react and interact with one another in the bedroom.

The porn industry brings in almost as much money as Hollywood itself and is practically untouchable. It is a powerhouse that will always be there. Unmoving and unflinching from it's current monetary position in the business world. Do you see porn ever going out of style? That would mean people as a whole would lose interest in sex all together, which will never happen. While sex itself is normal and healthy, porn takes what is normal and healthy and makes it into a monopolized sleaze fest by telling young men and women that what they're seeing is "normal".

Ladies, how many times have you been fucked by the plumber, or pizza delivery guy or any number of shoehorned opportunity positions which would seemingly be easy for a guy to exploit for easy sex? probably not very high on the to-do list I would imagine. Porn tells men that women are easy. just dangle your cock over an all-meat multi cheese pizza pie and BAM! Instant invitation for a two handed, enthusiastic wet blowjob! AND THAT of course leads to him and his buddies (who are just conveniently waiting in the pizza-mobile) for some double anal gangbang creampie action!

If you think that sounds fucking ridiculous and unrealistic, you're right.

Is Porn Really Ruining People? Let's Discuss

What's not unrealistic is the fact that a 14 year old knows what a gangbang creampie orgy is. And this should unsettle you. Imagine being that age and exposed to seeing a woman being brutally penetrated, crying, make-up running, face swollen from tears and slaps, body blotched with pink finger indentations from rough hands all over her, and hair stringy, slicked back and caked with spit, piss and semen.... this is something that a young kid can readily access on the good ol' web, and ALL before they understand the concept of good amazing sex within the context of trust, respect, and the warmth of a healthy relationship. Not so sexy now is it?

In closing, the desensitization will do a number on millions of men due to being "brainwashed" and hardwired to only become sexually aroused WHEN watching porn and not from the comfort and warmth of a real woman. It's already happening - the rate of erectile dysfunction is out of control and most cases can be attributed to watching porn. This is clearly a male problem since most of the buyers and viewers of porn are male statistically speaking. This feeds into the food and drug administration, who are more than glad to throw a box of Cialis or Viagra your way if you're having problems (most male porn stars use these drugs to keep the illusion that they're actually turned on and NOT just doing a day to day "job").

Everyone is rubbing each others back as the smut monopoly becomes richer and richer and these large money conglomerates don't show much concern about the problems they're helping create. As porn becomes more like "fast food" and technology advances leaps and bounds into the hyper virtual environment - Society will be a strange phenomena within 30 years when people (most of which who do not look like porn stars) stop interacting with each other because of being hungrily tapped into a more-real-than-real interactive sex world they can't have in person.

Food for thought. Thanks for taking the time to read this. Cheers

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  • Awesome take. Having been struggling with my fiancee's porn addiction (he's only 22.. ) for the last year (he was hiding it from me for over 3 years, lying for the entire time we've been together, he also does not want to tell me how early he started..), porn is outrageous to me and how socially accepted it is to be watching it. It ruins relationships, happiness, confidence. It is prostitution being filmed, that is all! Would most of those people have the guts to go to the brothel and ask to watch a prostitute masturbating or a guy and her having sex? Of course not. Porn is too easily accessible and free - that is the problem!

    It's a quick release that is so damn addictive. Long term it brings nothing good. If only people could realise that..

    The consequences of his porn addiction broke our relationship. It's never going to be the same. It hurt me so much as well in many ways.. It would be another great subject for MyTake - I might actually do it. It's such a broad subject that I consider writing a book or at least an e-book about it. The more resources, the better.

    To sum it up - it's great to see a young man who actually understands how harmful porn is and is not a typical "lad" - keep it up and spread awareness and good word, thank you!

    • You broke up with a guy just for watching porn (something nearly every guy and many girls do) or he broke up with you? Hope you didn't make him wait till marriage as well?

    • @sedrftvgyhujik What are you on about? BROKEN relationship does not mean we broke up. Stop talking garbage - you don't know the whole story. Lies hurt more than the actions themselves. Before you express your opinion next time and start being judgmental without knowing the whole picture, maybe use your brain and ask more insightful questions.

    • @sedrftvgyhujik "Hope you didn't make him wait till marriage as well?" What's with the intended 'insult'? How immature are you?

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  • Porn ruins relationships. It also ruins a guy libido and can give young men ED. It happened to me. It ruined my last relationship and I hurt her badly. I didn't realize how much I had hurt her until it was too late.

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  • In my opinion, Interracial pornography is the most dangerous and misleading porn out there, and it seems to be increasingly prominent. It usually comes with the side caveat of the girls in these scenes cuckolding & humiliating White men by ridiculing them for ever believing their inferior White dicks could ever satisfy them— which is even more disturbing. Interracial porn has already created a troubling real world effect because I've talked online with young teenage girls who are virgins, who have been convinced by pornography that White men are totally inadequate & incapable lovers. So they've reached the conclusion that their first time should be with a black guy since they are physically superior to White guys in bed, thus ensuring a better experience. I've literally encountered young girls using the internet to find single black boys they have no current romantic connection, or familiarity in any way, just because there aren't any in their hometowns or communities. They've said they aren't really even physically attracted to them, but porn has brainwash them into believing they are the better lovers. IR porn is so absurd to a sexually experienced adult by comparison— a scenario where all black men have ridiculously large penises that, in reality, women actually consider unattractive because they're so mutated & disproportionate to the rest of their bodies. Where the white girls must always say throughout the scene that the black penis is superior (despite closer inspection revealing how uncomfortable these girls actually are in the scene with vaginal dryness and their faces grimacing in pain). Where the black men are all thugs basically raping these women with the women allegedly enjoying it. Where they force their inferior White boyfriends/husbands to watch them get pummeled by black men— all the while the White girl is ridiculing & humiliating their White men for not having a gigantic penis, and for being foolish enough to believe he could ever sexually satisfy a woman. The scenario is so preposterous to the experienced adults, but to the impressionable young teen out there it is downright unhealthy and misleading. Yet it seems to be increasing in prominence in pornography, which is very troubling in my opinion since it now appears to actually be influencing young people & virgins. IR is degrading to all parties involved— the black men are rapist thugs; the white girls shallow, cruel sluts; the white men naive, inferior lovers.

  • I agree with almost everything

    ". Do you see porn ever going out of style?" well no, but I think it's a little misleading. It might not go out of style, but the issue is not porn itself it's that it's so easily acessible. It used to be, if you wanted to buy ponr you had to go to a magazine store. Pick up a magazine, go to the counter, watch cashier silently judge you and possibly ask you for id. Then pay for it. These days you have to do none of that and it def can regulated to be less accessible, hence changing the appitetie people have for it

    • Why are so many girls against porn as a whole? It's the visual and auditory aspect you don't get when your single. Sure its not perfect and a lot of it is rough but it's a lot better than your future partner being entirely clue less and trying to stick in your ear or something or later realising there gay and a lot of it is targeted at men because women are watching so much less.

    • @sedrftvgyhujik It's that porn defines what people see as normal. What is seen as the normal kind of sex and it's not normality that appeal to women. If you look at standard all vanilla porn it will usually go as follows. She goes down on him, maybe he goes down on her but not necessarily, He plays with her chest and then they have in various positions. And there's very little in between. And that is what men do at home, because that's all they know, that's how they think sex works. But it's not and that kind of mechanic routine not that pleasurable to many women. I mean I'm sure it's alright but not that great, not really satisfying. I'm not sure how to put in words really so let me use someone elses words

    • "Many women are reporting, complaining actually, that men raised on watching porn have lost sexual skills with women," Wolf says. "They don't do that touch, they don't take their time, they don't do the things that arouse the autonomic nervous system in women."" So that's one aspect of it. The other is that it makes unnatural acts the norm. Basically everything that isn't vaginal sex is not "natural", it doesn't serve reproduction. A more old fashioned term is deviant. Porn makes acts that inherently deviant the norm and a lot of them are also not necessarily pleasurable to most women, yet we are expect to do them. If a girl doesn't give oral I'm sure most would break up with her. And a lot even if she doesn't do deep throat or anal. Do you realize how insane that is? Men will break up with a woman because she isn't enjoying chocking on your dick.

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  • I think its like everything else we indulge in. Im moderation it is good. to much can be bad. Desensitization will cause you to look for more hard core stuff.. that i think is proven. SO self control is huge. It can be irritating when with a partner who has a obsessive tendency to porn. They expect this odd way of sexual contact. that is ridiculous mind you. then you are just annoyed.
    Subs and Doms, i think are born not created. Our personalities are there from the time we are born to the time we die. Its just if you decide to bring that personality to the bed room or not would be the issue. And not that big of one. Being able to be who you are and fulfill a fantasy should be enjoyed.
    But yes. to much porn causes problems with E. D. and lack of sex drive and can even cause people to not find others sexually attractive any longer. And would rather masturbate then have sex.

    • You summed it up perfectly. Thanks for your thoughts!

    • what is E D?

  • I have no issue with a bit of softcover porn here and there to help a person out while they're masturbating. But I do have a huge issue with violent porn like what you described, and it seems there is so much out there that people are always chasing something more and more intense and there is no fucking way that doesn't influence their lives and that scares me.

    • Exactly, that is the thing that most people who enjoy porn don't understand - you can't enjoy the same type of thing over and over again, especially if there is no sense of taste, smell or feeling - why would anyone want to rob them selves of those important keys of pleasure? Those are the very elements that make sex in general logically appealing. Looking at the same pictures or videos forces you to up the anti and shock your reward system into being "turned on" again because the old stuff just doesn't cut it. You're forced into looking for something else to get off on. Good points!

    • I can't stand the hardcore violent porn. The chocking, hard spanking, gagging, etc, is a huge turn off for me, and I feel is demeaning to the stars that are forced to do it for money, and women in general.

  • Can't deny.

  • What a pile.

    First off, most of the big breasted females in video games come from Japanese games. They certainly do not care about your western sensibilities. Beyond that, you have things like Lara Croft's coding error in the 90's to a pretty fit, athletic body of today's versions. Most women have pretty normal bodies in any games I've played or you have the ability to adjust their dimensions.

    The vast majority of the porn being produced is still just two people fucking like normal. Sure, there are more extreme sub genres and whatnot, but they are dwarfed by the normal stuff. Not all of us want to watch weird stuff even if we've been watching porn for 20 years.

    What the media throws at us has very little to do with actual reality. You seem to be very confused. Porn is fantasy. Everyone capable of rational thought fully understands this.

    I highly doubt the porn industry brings in as much as you think it does in this day and age. Do you even know people that actually spend money on porn? I would have to assume the vast majority of porn consumers pirate their porn on torrents and tube sites for free.

    Again, porn is a FANTASY. Porn is not telling men that women are easy. That is asinine. If anything, most men full well know that women aren't that easy and thus, they stick to their porn. Porn has no expectations. You don't have to be good looking or have a high paying job to watch porn.

    A 14 year old knowing what a gangbang orgy is has NOTHING to do with porn and has everything to do with poor parenting combined with easy access to the internet. They can look up people getting murdered, too. It's almost as if having a massive, ever-increasing database of videos, articles and pictures would inevitably lead to people being able to see things they probably shouldn't.

    The vast majority of men would prefer the real deal to porn. Some guys just don't have what it takes to attract women. Men are going to masturbate regardless of the existence of porn as a visual aid. Removing porn accomplishes nothing. Men have sexual desires and needs and not all men are going to be capable of getting women, so substitutions are needed.

    This is the reality we live in now. The internet in general while doing a million positive things for society, still has the nasty side effect of causing us all to lose some of our social skills and with each generation living more and more "online" we all forget how to interact with people, so porn will always remain a functional business.

    • This is like saying vibrators should be banned because men can't live up to the expectations of just how well those toys can stimulate a clit. Who cares. People want to cum. Let them do so however they want.

    • It's actually been shown that this

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      Kills sex life in relationship. hitachi wand causes women to lose disinterest in sex with their boyfriend because it gets them off WAAAAAYYYYYY better than he ever could. In addition, it's been found that the more a woman uses this the less likely she is to achieve orgasm via sexual intercourse.

    • @BubbleBoy69 that is hilarious that you point this out. They market that thing as a "personal massager" and 45-50+ Models on the shopping network demonstrate it's usage on their necks, backs and pretty much everywhere with the exception of the obvious places lol! Too funny

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  • i agree that porn creates issues in people's sexual capability, views on relationships and views on what is normal in sex. for many porn skews what people assume are the norms and that can certainly create problems

    however i don't blame the industry. in a country and world dominated by capitalism it only makes sense that they mass produce whatever sells the most. sure it would be great if they'd take steps to help address issues and they have to an extent; however, other issues require intervention from local, state and federal government and of course individuals can be responsible and informed consumers

    the cigarette industry didn't choose to put warning labels on their products
    the alcohol industry didn't choose the age restrictions on alcohol purchasing
    the illicit drug industry doesn't decide that they won't sell certain products to certain people

    ... most of us hate the idea of government regulation but if we really have issues with porn it is up to government and the consumers who vote into office the government officials to step up and address things that need to be addressed

    • Good point about capitalism and taking blame away from the industry. Either way, government should start looking at regulations and restrictions on porn.

    • @Phenix457 i would not be opposed to more regulation and restrictions enforced by the government in the porn industry. i think the amount of harm it can create to the general public and those involved in the industry (as it often preys on those who are insecure or from low socioeconomic situations) could be viewed as a public safety/health issue

    • I've never heard of that, but viewing it as a public health issue gives the government legal ground to act. Well, on top of all of the cases of "distributing pornographic material to minors" because they don't do a good enough job at making sure under 18's can't get in because that's a lot of their business.

  • I think porn has both good and bad sides. I love to watch a nice bit of girl on girl occasionally when I masturbate if my SO is away for work but that is the thing, it is occasional and usually only once a week at most.

    I can see how people can get addicted to it and then after a while they become desensitised to it so they need something a bit more hardcore to get turned on and so begins the downward spiral. They start off watching a girl masturbate but a few months later can only get satisfied seeing some granny get butt fucked with a foot long rubber dildo or some other over the top sexual act.

    By the end of that spiral they could find themselves in bed with the most amazing member of the opposite sex but because they have become so addicted to porn and only get turned on by some seriously kinky weird stuff they are completely unable to perform in a normal situation.

    Does that make sense?

    • Thanks for the granny visual. I really needed that lol But serious, that is exactly it, it's the escalation part that gets people in a pattern of looking for something more intense because the normal shit they do doesn't do anything for them. Good points!

  • Thier have been a lot of people in fraternities or on teames who have gang raped members because they saw in in porn specifically gay porn.
    I saw a few studiea that say more younger men are getting erectile dysfunction and shooting blanks , they also have much lower testosterone than men who consume very little or no porn and they say its because of porn. I dont remember the name of the study but yea. it also rewires the brain as well.
    Its a huge problem among males.

    • You're totally right. Porn caters to a person's reward system. The mind craves attention and affection and if people can't find it with another person then they turn to themselves and porn. By cheating the reward system, it becomes lazy and you (as you mentioned) become lazy to want the real thing because you know you can get off by yourself. This also creates neural pathways or routes and short cuts in the brain to becoming accustomed to these "quick fixes". Life is stressful - school, jobs, relationships and friends and everything between complicate life that much more. So it's easy for one to want an easy way out of stress and unfortunately, porn is the answer for many - they just don't realize the side effects. Great points! Thanks

    • Porn makes women a sex object for guys...

  • I read this and can't help but wonder are you not getting laid enough? Seriously though, while I agree over indulging in porn or anything for that matter is unhealthy. I don't think the porn industry is damaging. Some of that shit is strange and bizarre but there are some fantasies that regular couple role play in the bed room. How is that any different from the plummer or pizza man role play. It's an innocent fantasy. But yes in some cases with incest and rape porn they can take it to far. But if people indulge in that then my question is what is wrong with those people who are watching it? I can't say that porn turns people into rapist but rather has given an outlet for sickos to rub one out to their fantasy.

    • Role playing is absolutely fine dude. But what happens when you get tired of toggling through 4 or 5 different roles that both you and your girl aren't into anymore? Do you search for something else that stimulates both you and her? You would have to, correct? When you've sampled everything and none of that interests you anymore, what do you do then? This is desensitization. It forces you into something other than what you're used to being stimulated by. Realistically, having a chick dress up every other night as a nun or a maid would be boring for most people - which is why a lot are doing shit that is on the extreme level: BDSM, rape play, anal, fisting, orgies, gangbangs - because 'vanilla' sex is boring to them. Thank porn for that. PS I'm in my second round of college man, at a big school with lots of women lol no need to worry about me ;) cheers

    • Naw some of that existed long before porn. Like I said porn is nothing more than an outlet to fulfill fantasies inside your head that you wouldn't otherwise be able to in the real world. At most the only thing I can blame porn for is the social dating problem we have in today's society. Because sex is readily available on the internet it doesn't make sense for some guys to go out there and find real women. So it creates these socially awkward people today. But as far as the sex getting boring in the bedroom you can't blame that on porn. That is on the person themselves.

  • Nope not at all.

    As a matter of fact I would argue that pornography has made certain traditions more acceptable, such as BDSM which is now enjoyed by many couples around the world. Even foot fetishism... a long time ago such a fetish was considered an abomination. Nowadays foot fetishists can enjoy healthy relationships with non-fetishists possibly due to acceptance for alternative sex.

    Online dating is what's ruining people... if you want my opinion. Guys are considered disposable to girls who use online dating apps. And now you have a field of bitter males who have stopped caring about the feelings of girls, etc. Then girls push back losing respect for guys and the cycle continues...

  • I beat my meat everyday, and to be honest porn isn't harming someone!

    You: "Porn stop harming people"

    Porn: * fap fap fap!

    See porn isn't harming people!

    People are harming themselves!

    • You're single - let's talk after a year of the same routine after you finally have a girlfriend

    • @nirala_na what does being single have to deal with porn being harmful to people! I'm single because I want to focus on my priorities and goals! Nothing to do with porn!

    • @nirala_na In all honesty, when he says "porn is on tv, ads, and movies" I laughed because a person that believes in the illuminati said this on YouTube! And he even said Porn is evil! Porn is simply just their to showcase sexual performances by these adult actors! Not their fault if a nitwit buys the DVDs! Unlike them I look up free porn!

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  • I would like to add just one small thing from the video game perspective:

    Having covered that industry for a good 15 years and being a gamer myself, the stereotypical "brainless big boobs" female character is essentially dead. If it isn't dead, it's dying. Lara Croft's makeover was dramatic, for example, and just about every major female character I've seen in the last few years has been plenty realistic. They're fit and healthy, of course (couldn't be doing what they're doing if they weren't) but they're still correctly proportioned.

    Evie in Assassin's Creed Syndicate, Madison in Heavy Rain, Ciri in The Witcher 3: Wild Hunt, Chloe in Life is Strange, etc, etc, etc. Look them up. Most Western developers are keen on making very realistic and identifiable female characters in their games these days, even if some of the Japanese devs are still stuck on the stereotypes (Bayonetta, Dead or Alive, etc). They're even starting to catch up to the times, however.

    Just wanted to make this clarification because the strides that medium has taken in the realm of female portrayal in the past 6 or 7 years shouldn't be ignored.

    • You are right. There are characters in games that are well crafted, both in personality and physicality like Lightning Faron of FF13 and the new Lara Croft polymodel you mentioned. It's clear that developer's are taking note, but there is still a rather unhealthy image portrayal, especially with female characters/AI within extremely popular video games i. e Blizzard's Overwatch (their overly sexual suggestiveness in Starcraft and Warcraft are notable also), or Juliet from Lollipop Chainsaw to rep the sexy cheerleader trope. I used video games to make the point that while porn is on the rise, it's influence (even from the 90's to now) has touched generally all forms of media in that it suggests a woman should look, sound and move suggestively in a certain way. Another example, outside of the indie market, big comic book companies are blatantly saying all women are big breasted, long legged amazons with sexual appetites that put even real men to shame. Great point on video games though!

    • Yes, but we're also forgetting that MEN have been portrayed with the similar overtly sexual and unrealistic stereotype since the beginning of gaming. It's interesting that we gloss over the top-heavy women in games when every single video game hero for about 20 years was always this impossibly muscular, lantern-jawed, Type-A personality womanizer. ;)

    • Yep, I guess large shoulders and pectorals can sell video games too, good point!

  • I can't say that porn ruins people... it's the greed and lust that ruins people. I think porn is pretty horrible, but I came out all right. I started watching BDSM and obscure fetish porn when I was 14. For me, it was a way to cope with being raped. I would imagine that I was that girl, and that it was alright. Somehow it was a good thing. It never solved my problems, and only added more, but I can't say that it ruined me. I turned out straight (which is a shock to myself), and I'm in a great relationship. I will say that it was VERY, VERY hard to quit. I still relapse every now and then.

    • Sorry to hear about your past trauma, no one should go through that kind or any other kind of abuse. It sounds like you got the right kind of people in your corner. Good job and thanks for your input!

    • Keep up the good fight man!

  • I think there's a healthy amount of porn someone can watch and an unhealthy amount. Personally I think porn only ruins those who don't know how to handle all of the subtle hints that come with porn, like huge tits, big cock, lasting for like 5 hours, etc. All of my friends and girlfriends who watch porn regularly say they enjoy it and don't think it's harmful for them.

    • Amount and type in think both matter. I have no issue with a guy watching softcover porn now and again as a visual aid when masturbating. But if he's staying up late instead of coming to bed with me in order to watch some barely legal Asian crying and choking on a dick while being roughly penetrated by another man, I have a big fucking problem with that.

    • I actually agree entirely with you, but it's very easily abusable system especially because many people lack self-control and/or are introduced into porn young enough where they can't determine what a "healthy" amount of porn is.

  • Really good my take could you check out my my take on a similar topic www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a30997-how-to-quit-sex-porn-addiction

  • the only problem with the porn nowadays is it is easily reachable... and all types of it.
    when we were growing up, rape, deep throat, pissing, scat, bdsm type of movies were unreachable mostly, so youngsters watched porn that are mostly vanilla and normal and normalized that sex.
    but the youngsters of today (even some 13 year older boys and girls) can reach any porn site they want through internet... and most of those sites have extreme sex actions. they are not a normal part of a normal sex. but youngsters can watch it and normalize them. this might be a big problem for boys and girls who expect that it is normal sex... boys can ask for it... and girls can feel obliged to do it for it is all around the internet so it is normal right?
    that is kinda off consent though it seems it is.
    i would like those extreme sex styles and perform them knowing they are not normal vanilla sex but with internet and porn industry now, the youngsters can not make that decision.

    • it wasn't unforeseen.

    • @Sabretooth what do u mean

    • This really ties in well with the question I posted the other day about if it's even considered normal anymore to be "vanilla". Interesting discussions in there.

      www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q2087961-is-it-weird-to-not-be-into-any-weird-sexual-shit

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  • Yes, it is ruining people!

  • I love porn. As a single college guy who doesn't have much time or will to date, it allows me to fantasize about having sex and it gets me off (obviously). There's so many things you can look up for what you're into. There's people who are addicted to it, but I do it as a weekly thing that relaxes me and satisfies my need. No girlfriend, no problem lol

  • Welp. You could be right and you could be wrong.

    Thing is, I can see when the actors are acting and that's a pretty huge turnoff. I know the difference between an image or sex doll and a woman. Sadly at my age I know plenty of guys who don't and whose shallow and immature minds may very well be rotting from overexposure.

    I guess the biggest issue I have with this mytake is how the people that need to see it probably won't ever see it.

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