Breast Size Affecting Women's Confidence

The Breast Size Obsession

So I've been seeing a lot of question on here about "Do guys like women with 32A/32B cups or whatever, and other questions about like "Are my breast to small" and whatnot. I've seen a lot of it on here about women letting there breast size effect them or there worth or whatnot. And I know I can't make it stop but I really wish women would feel more happy about the body they're in.

Breast Size Affecting Women's Confidence

I understand where other people are coming from, they might feel like they're breast won't ever grow or they may feel left out that there friends get asked out more than they do. My thing is why does breast size have to matter? If a guys likes you for you and for your personality then that's all that should matter.

There is No Such Thing as the "Perfect" Size

Some breast are big and some are small, and some people are flat chested but that doesn't mean you just beat yourself up and just sit there and pout. Breast size shouldn't be the thing you use to attractive men or guys.

Breast Size Affecting Women's Confidence

The way you attract men is by being yourself and loving the body you are in. I think there is no "perfect cup size." A's, B's, C's, who cares we all have them. Why can't we as women just be happy and love the body that were in. Sometimes I wish mine were bigger but I just work with what God gave me. I think women that let their breast size determine there worth have a low self-esteem and low confidence.

You Are Beautiful

Love your body, who cares if they aren't big at least you have some, some people don't have any. I would like to say that whoever is reading this that you are all beautiful, you don't need breast implants or something to boost your self-esteem to make guys like you. Love the body you're in, tell yourself that your beautiful, be yourself, of course. That's the best thing a person can be.

I hope this sums up the title of myTake, I wish I could help you all that are maybe insecure or whatnot. I guess the best thing I can do is just give advice. Don't ever let someone tell you that your not pretty or your breasts are not big enough. Who cares, as long as you are yourself and you love yourself and have a bright personality then that's all that should matter.

Breast Size Affecting Women's Confidence

Know Your Worth

Those of you that may wish you breasts were bigger you don't want them trust me, you'll end up having back pain like me when I get older. Be happy and thankful with what you have, and another thing never get implants please, they aren't good for your health and they have some side effects. Know your worth and love your body, you are beautiful.

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  • Eh, the thing about helping girls with small boobs feel better is that it's usually done at the expense of bigger boob girls.
    I myself don't really like that. "Don't worry, your small boobs are fine, theirs will sag while you're still perky."

    I also think people are really harsh on women who get implants. If you say you're considering it, everyone calls you fake, insecure, superficial, shallow you're basically a monster.

    I have small boobs and I want a boob job. I don't really have trouble getting guys (nor girls) to ask me out, so it's not for others. Even so, people try to convince me out of it. But, the decision is up to me. It's for me cuz apparently no one will want me anymore and that everyone rather small tits than fake tits. Oh well. If the next guy I'm with has a problem with my fake boobs, then he can leave.

    Also, a lot of gaggers say small boobs are better, but I don't think I've ever heard anyone IRL say that. Usually small boobs are like "accepted" while bigger ones are truly desired in a woman.
    "Don't worry, you have a pretty face. Big boobs are only a plus". So what? That means the guy is settling if he's choosing a girl with small boobs? If big boobs are plus, does that mean small boobs are a minus? That's what it sounds like. The thing is, people still make it seem like the guy HAS to accept them cuz he likes you, but if given the choice, he'd want them bigger. It's hard to feel confident when you're with someone for that reason cuz then it feels like he secretly wishes they were bigger, but he "liked" you so much he'd settle. Everyone wants to feel truly desired and wanted, and when you have the least desired parts (by conventional standards at least) it's hard to do so. This is why I don't like dating, I feel ridiculously insecure.

    Yea, we all have our insecurities and it's easier said than done to tell others to just be more confident. So if the way I choose to do that is with breast implants, then why judge my boobs yet again?

    • This is beautiful, do you mind if I quote you?

    • @poppunk go ahead :) And thank you ^_^

Most Helpful Guy

  • From a guys perspective. It doesn't really matter. I like the personality and their eyes. Yeah Yeah Make fun of me :) But seriously if a guy likes you for your body then you shouldn't date him. You will never have a successful relationship and you are only going to get hurt. Also you have to love yourself first. Sure it's greedy, but if all you do is make other people happy how will you love your own life? Who cares whether you are fat, skinny, big breasted or not. Somebody likes you for who you are. So find that person!!! Personally I will never date someone who I don't first like on the inside.

    Stay Positive,
    Nickbrick

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  • It's like my boyfriend says, breasts are breasts and they are pleasant to look at. He absolutely loves my breasts for how they are. I often joke with him and tell him how I love his man breasts for how small they are too. I use to not be comfortable with my body, especially my breasts. But, after taking classes like human development and anatomy, I grew to be more content with who I am physically. Also, as a fantasy nudist artist, I've gotten to learn how to love curves of all kinds. Big breasts, flat-chested with a severe case of ass, teardrop thighs, chiseled abs, etc., everyone has beauty. It's just how we carry ourselves and how much we can learn to ourselves. The eternal light that comes from within can never fade once you've embraced who you are.

  • Well put. Could not have said it better myself.

  • not all guys, but some guys may say that large boobs are better, but the truth is boobs have absoloustly nothing to do with sex. A flat chested woman could throw herself sexually at a guy and the guy would not turn her down becasue of her boobs. The thing that makes her a woman is not her boobs, its her pussy, vagina, reproductive organs.

    Even a girl with an ugly face won't get turned down if she threw herself at a horney guy. There are many guys who have had sex with an ugly girl yet are embarassed to admit it.

    A guy is gonna want to be in a relationship with/marry and stay married to a woman that can have sex with and great communication with. Not a woman that he can only look at. Vagina is the number one thing on a guys checklist, then personality is number two. So pretty much a woman has to have a pussy and be willing to use it (maybe not right away, for some its after marriage), and then she has to be fun to be around.

    If a guy saw a woman in a wheel chair who has very attractive physical features as well as huge boobs, yet her lower body is missing do to an accdent or birth defect, however she has prosthetic legs and hips to make her look normal, he still won't even bother to get to know her becasue he is gonna know that her pussy doenst work.

    Naturally people are going to notice large boobs well because they are large, just like you will notice a large ass or a large pimple on someones face or a huge gigantic large obese man. Large things just make people look at them becasue they stand out. Its just the way things are.

    When i was a teenager i used to be insecure about my small boobs until i got older and realized that mature men would love to and enjoyed dating me.

    I am a B cup and my fiance loves me for me. Not for my body

    • Amazing how unbelievably ridiculous this comment is. Enough with the generalizations & painting guys as only caring about pussy. It's beyond insulting.

    • well if personality came first youde do your guy friend. y'all have so much in common.

  • I would argue that it isn't alone women with small breast that have a stab at their confidence. While I can understand the physical insecurity for small breasted women, there is a emotional insecurity for larger breasted women because they are constantly praised for their bodies. As someone who physically matured at a younger age, D cup by 8th grade... I can tell you I gained a lot of unwanted attention because of my body. People sexually harassing me, only dating me to gain "bragging rights" & the unwanted attention from people close to me which resulted in sexual abuse. The emtional trauma that women endure based on their bodies is harsh... & I would say that women and men need to raise their boys and girls to respect one another and the discussion of ones body and opposite sex should be all about the value of each individual and self worth!

    Just a thought. Good take. 👍👍

    • Isn't only ****

  • I'm a 38D and wouldn't trade them in for the world. Now they irritate the fire out of me when I try to play golf sometimes, and finding the right bra is difficult at best. But honestly I love the attention I get from them, especially when I wear a tight sweater or a plunging neck line. During sex my man spends a lot of time and energy on them, which is wonderful for the rest of the session!

  • I have 36DDs, and I do love them, I won't lie. Sometimes I grab my boobs just because I can lol ;) I would hate to be smaller. But, at the same time, there are disadvatages. Like you said, back pain. Another is finding clothes that fit properly. And finally, they will get saggy haha. They kinda are now already :P All you girls with small boobs will be perky for a long while, while your larger breasted friends are already losing to gravity!

  • take it from a woman who has been large breasted since my pre-teens... they are not all they are cracked up to be. they get in the way, they start sagging early on, there are no cute bras unless you give an arm a leg and your first born child... be glad if you have a smaller size... its a blessing!

  • Your body should not be the end-all be-all of who you are as a person, how you should act, or how you should feel about yourself. Sure your body is a part of you, but it's up to you whether or not you let small things like that get to you and affect the way you are as a person.

    Sure, we might not all have the bodies we want, but we sure as heck should make sure we are the healthiest we can be (nutrition and exercise) before complaining about ourselves. I guarantee you there are many people out there that envy you for something you may find irrelevant, as you do to other people as well.

    Personally, my experience with breasts was not great. It went well until my boob size rocketed in the middle of high school. Lots of times they are annoying and really not worth the hassle. But at the end of the day, it takes courage to look in the mirror and accept myself for who I am. Take pride and confidence in your bodies ladies, and treat it well, because it's the only one you're going to get. Love it, and it will love you right back. :)

  • Confidence is key here. I use to be very insecure about my breast size in high school ( I was a 32B) but once I graduated I had another growth spurt and now a size 32D. I am finally so very comfortable with my body and myself! it is amazing!

  • I am Chinese. I know back home and in Korea small chested girls are having Hooters put on. I think this is an excellent way to send the message, "I am a stupid Barbie."

    I am an A-cup and I never wear a bra. I wear shirts that look very respectable, but... men can look down. Some are the material that disappears in backlight.

    I have taken men from Miss Hooter left and right. How?
    I am smart, I am funny, I know how to promise, tease, build and talk to a man's desire to be The Prince.

    Barbie knows how to stick out her chest and make that outline in darker lipstick so she has the come fuck me mouth. She is like the guys on website who think they are their cocks.

    Smart men like small boobs.

    Girls wearing padded bras, bras in general, unless you have those make a Gurnesy Green with Envy Hooters, and need support, braless is always the way to go.
    I have 11 men who surround me. One husband and 10 bodyguards. I sleep with all of them. I also have 2 children, refuse DNA testing because they have 11 fathers.
    Trust me when I tell you, smart men and the better men like small boobs.

  • I have little boobs, I'm hardly even a B cup. But my boyfriend says he loves how they're so round and perky and little. He likes that he can fit almost all of my boobie into his mouth lol. Some men like big boobs. Some like small. Some are just like, "Hey, a woman! I like those."
    So really, I've come to realize that there's someone out there who thinks your body is sexy no matter what shape you are. Stay clean, stay healthy, and stay cutely groomed and men will love you for it anyway.

    • @MrsMack10 - Damn, it's like you read my mind! Now what the heck am I to say?

  • Figure my 2 cents can help.
    I really love a nice pair of boobs. But what is a nice pair? The true answer, it depends on its owner. A nice pair suits the owner! A petite girl can look omgamazing with A or B, and a more curvy and filled out woman can look best with C or D.
    Furthermore the texture matters. Are they firm or soft? Perky or round and full? That matters too, you know, and again it depends on how the rest of the girl is.

    So to conclude, great boobs are the ones that suits you and your body. You can be dead drop gorgeous with a's, or d's. What matters is that they suits you.

  • Yeah I could stab somebody with my AAs.
    I was terror stricken in middle school because I wasn't developing there and most of the other girls were.
    Now that'i'm 19, I love my tiny titties.
    I have a nice proportion body with a smile that can kill.
    Do I wish I had at least a little cleavage: yes I do.
    Am I going to do anything about is cosmetically, NO!
    Guys are hot for me and really don't care that I'm essentially boobless.
    :))

    • Hey you look amazing! Dont feel insecure about your boobs Some guys prefer smaller ones ;)

    • Thx! In middle and HS I would not shower after gym class because I was embarrassed. To be honest the only people that made me feel insecure were other girls. A guy has never said anything to me hurtful about that. Good! I have always liked guy way better anyway. :))

  • I have larger breasts, I used to hate them a lot more covered up so much well that was mostly because of bullying my self image took a huge hit but now I'm a little more confidant not very but I'm getting there.

  • I am really insecure about my breasts because as I've been overweight all of my life (I'm 18) and been around 300lbs or under, my breasts have become KIND of saggy, and far apart, and my areolas are kind of big, but not MASSIVLY big like how black women's areolas' are. I'm just very insecure and ashamed of my breasts. Maybe if I weren't so fat, they'd be in better shape and condition. Now I never want to go without a bra because they just sag and one ends up in Italy and the other in Africa. I hate it.

  • I had this sort of awkward time after starting birth control because it made my breasts bigger and I was kind of sad because I liked my Acups I thought they were cute and I was used to them then in barely three months I suddenly have B cups and it doesn't sound like much of a change but it was. They grew fast and it hurt and bras are damn expensive!! so be careful what you wish for. I had fully accepted my breasts and I had to learn to love them again/still am.

    • What birth control were you on

    • I was going to go on birth control to try to gain weight, and try to make my breasts grow more, I'm a C cup but there fine. My mom told me it isn't a good idea health risks and stuff like that. So I'll just let it be, hopefully they'll grow in the future or something. I feel like they stopped or I have breast cancer or something.

    • I pay 50-70 dollars for bras. And with driving 50 miles to a special store. I wouldn't be complaining... and im 34hh. I do ANYTHING to be able to shop in a mall!

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  • I am a b cup and have a man, and never wanted more

  • My humble opinion begins with a gal's desire to create shapes/curves on her body, which is more abstract and personal than a quantitative bottom line "A" through "DD"/whatever.
    That said, guys might prefer a predefined letter assignment to guaranty ample play pillows will be available in bed.
    The confidence a woman gets come vicariously, I believe, from all sorts of sources, be they academia, sports, humor & yes, of course men's complements on her appearance and BODY kudos.
    Some parts of the world seem to think that ample breasted women are more mature but perhaps the connection is not such a direct cause-effect. I feel IF some are more mature, it's from the vicarious experiences brought them by guys attracted to their breasts = they have more scenarios to deal with than some gal ignored and perhaps "less mature" (experienced) as a result.

  • I don't really look at it as a factor of confidence, necessarily. If so, I believe it to be the minority of girls that feel that way. I don't think it's because we feel that way on our own, but because we're made to feel that way. My boobs grew in when I was in 4th grade, and I got picked on constantly, they punched me in the chest, slapped them, so I felt self conscious. Then I got older, and it became normal, but I got picked on for them being too small. Then I got a little older, around 14, and I got picked on for them being too big. If it's anything, it's not girls looking at their bodies the wrong way, it's other people making them feel a certain way about their bodies. Now I'm older and I've gotten over it, and yeah I complain about bra prices or back pain or strapless dresses, but I'm happy because I'm mature enough to know that the problem isn't me, it's whoever decided they wanted to pick on me.

  • I have little boobs and many people say they wish they had mine because they could get away with no bra and they're not troublesome or get in the way at all. My boyfriend says they're a perfect size and my bum certainly makes up for them. It's a case of wanting what you can't/don't have. Women with big boobs often want little ones and vice versa. We're just a greedy species. Some women have uneven breasts, no breasts or really messed up ones so I'm happy with mine because of their size, shape and how they're so symmetrical. It's how I remind myself how lucky I am when I feel ugly; people have facial disfigurements/growths would love to have my face because it's normal. If I can't get something I want, I remind myself that I'm rich because I have good food always available, a bed, family and a roof over my head. Millions of people don't have that comfort.

    You need to learn the difference between their, there and they're, but other than that, this is a good idea for an article.

    • yes we dont see the worse side only what is missing.

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