How can I make my man horny?

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Ok well I get really horny and fast and I want it but he never does how do I get him horny I mean I want to be thrown down on the floor bed couch car you name it and he won't do anything I've teased him. And nothing ill by sexy underwear. Nothing. Ill kiss him bite him do everything he likes and nothing. And then when he does give it to me, he won't go down on me or do anything to me apart from having me give him a Bj. What can I do to make him want me and get him really wanting me

Method · Accepted Answer

well, maybe you do average or low bj? Try this next time:

1. First you need to get him turned on - be more aggressive, grab his stuff, slowly massage his balls through his pants, it's important that you act as seductive as possible - the more you're turned on - the more he'll be turned on. Pull his pants down slowly and act as naughty as possible - this is a great turn on.

2. Grab his hand and lick on his fingers slowly before you give him head - just put his middle finger slowly into your mouth and suck on it, up and down, slide it slowly and moan - you have to moan a lot so he feels like a king.

3. As you're licking one finger, slowly start stroking his shaft (penis) with your other hand, you have to be on your knees and he should be standing, look him in the eyes - this way you can see his reactions. You need to love giving him head if you want him to really enjoy it.

4. Most girls make the mistake of being too soft - don't do that, grab his penis tightly and stroke it hard, as you're twisting his shaft with one hand slowly start sucking on the head (the tip) of his penis, curl your tongue around it, twist it in circles, then point it upwards and slowly lick it while you're watching him.

5. Say something like "mmmmm I love it" then smile, smiling is very important - it conveys that you love it. Keep on stroking and sucking harder.

6. Start talking dirty to him, put your hands around his balls and tickle them gently - make sure you are gentle 'cause his balls are very sensitive, as you're tickling, keep on stroking and sucking.

7. Once you see that he's getting closer start stroking harder - and don't even think about slowing down. Scream at him, tell him you want it - tell him where you want it (swallowing will make him go crazy just as you want it) - then as he starts to come, you have 2 options - you can hold his penis or he can hold it - I suggest you let him hold it and squeeze it out.

8. Then hold his penis and stroke it slowly, just as if you were trying to squeeze every last drop out of him into your mouth, give it a few more finishing licks.

9. Then smile at him, open your mouth and show him what you've got in your mouth, smile, then swallow all of it - then look up at him again and open your mouth to show him it's gone. If you REALLY want to learn how to give a blow job then you have to read Jack's Blowjob Lessons ---->
10. Smile again, believe me he'll love you for it.

Good luck

Just-A-Random-Guy · Accepted Answer

Kiss his neck gently, kiss his arms gently, gently touch his thighs, stick a finger in his. - wait - do everything except the last thing. :) If all else fails, you can talk to him about it and if he's a good guy, he'll understand and "help". But what do I know, I'm Just A Random Guy. Enjoy your night.

awholenewsetofrules · Accepted Answer

I might be way off base here but I think this is just a bad sign. It's always possible he is on medication that affects his libido or that he's not a very sexual person but in my experience I have almost never had to try to make a man horny. I may have to do things to initiate things so he knows I'm up for it, but actually making him horny is always a non-issue. If I was in your situation my immediate instinct would be to think there must be some reason why he doesn't want me. Either he's not into me anymore, he's cheating, he's gay, or something. I would ask him (not when you are trying, at a neutral time) flat out why he doesn't seem to be that into sex with you. Maybe he just has some weird fetish or fantasy and if you can get him to tell you about it and you are ok with it, then you can do that and you both get what you want. But my gut tells me this is a bad sign and the fact that he won't do anything to please you is not good either. Sorry.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

'I know what you're going through, I feel like my fiance' has lost interest in sex as well..I have even confronted him about it he says nothing's wrong and that he does want me but when we go to bed at night and I want it he says he's just tired. I think we are making ourselves too readily available to them maybe if we were to play hard to get or act uninterested maybe  they would want us the way we want them. Sorry your going through this I know it makes you feel really hurt and unwanted that's the way I feel anyway, hope things get better for you sweetie.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Try flirting with him a little then stop. Next time he see you, do the same thing, but don't try and have sex with him. Just do things like kiss his neck or bit his ear, but then stop. In other words tease him, but don't follow though on trying to have sex with him. Eventually he will be so horny, he'll want to throw you down and have wild sex! Good luck!

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Hmmm. Sounds to me that he interested. Or he's not attracted to you in that way.

Try to gain his attention

Speak sexy,

Persue forplay.

Guys like when you kiss/nibble their ear, also rub between their testicles and anus, makes them go wild.

Otherwise id suggest finding a new boyfriend.

Superstrength79 · Answer

Well it may be silly, but have you told him that you want for him to randomly come grab you when he is horny? Maybe he thinks you'll be upset if he does that.

take-warning · Answer

Dam girl sounds like he lost interest because I've been in his position b4 where I don't like the girl no more and I don't wanna go threw sex  for 3 to 5 hours and get tired lol so I just get head it sucks but I'd say move on and get a new guy.

hamo20 · Answer

yes join the club I no how you feel

t-2007r · Answer

I'm a man and have to be honest with you. Judging from what I just read, your man is not sexually attracted to you anymore. He could be tired of having sex with you and or could be having sex with someone else. That is how us men are. Know I don't know how your body is built but that could be a big factor as well.  Trust me, if it was a brand new woman that was very attractive then he would be having endless sex with her.

swayingroses · Answer

Maybe you should tease by not making yourself there all the time. By that I mean sending him naughty msgs when he won't expect them and when he can't have you then he is going to have to go after you. Making someone wait always makes them want you more. Give him ideas of what you would do to him. Etc in your msgs

Craven67 · Answer

No bra, no panties, or skirt with panties on and legs spread open slightly. Does it every time

Anonymous · Answer

Just move your hand very slowly up and down his inner thigh and talk about anything but sex. Once and a while barely touch his penis (by 'accident') to see if it's hard and say, "Oops, sorry." but keep doing it. If he doesn't get hard say, "Gotta go." and start to leave. If he doesn't stop you, say don't you want it? If he says, "Not right now, say, "Why not?" and find out what the reality is. Is he man enough for you or not? Let me know what happens, so I can give you my honest man's opinion. If he's not right for you the sooner you know the truth, the better!

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