man me and you are in the same boat. Was down on bourbon when the saints won the super bowl (hint hint where I'm from). lol. But went to the club with some friends and we were drunk. go figure. and I left and they disappeared. well the club was cool and was relaxing and meet some cool people up there (dancers, bartenders, customers like me, waitresses, owner) all nice people.
Same situation man she came over and we got to talking told some jokes made her laugh which made me feel pretty confident. Very attractive women and we talked for about 5 minutes. and same thing I had a great private dance too. And she told me a lot about her life (where she was from, went to college, showed me pictures of her mom, etc.) well I am a college kid myself not rolling with the benji's. And at the end of the night she gave me $50 for a cab ride and to meet somewhere so we could hangout. Well my buddy from earlier that night had my keys so I couldn't get a ride down there so I called another taxi to come get me and by the time I got back to the club she left.
Was pretty disappointed in myself. I don't want her to feel like I "stood her up" or anything like that. She was a cool girl 24 years old, not to mention I'm 20, and very funny and entergetic. I am going back down there this weekend for mardi gras, I want to see her again and see if she would like to hangout outside of the club, but don't want to come on to her and make her think I'm a stalker because I am back in their place two weekends back to back.
Overall a cool, sweet, attractive girl had a blast and it just seemed like she liked me and I wasn't thought of as some "normal customer" type of guy. I don't know of many girls that give guys 50 bucks for a cab ride and everything.
So man don't get to upset you aren't the only one out there that this has happened to. Keep your head up. And keep me posted and tell me what happens if you don't mind.
I guess she might really like you, but I'd have a hard time taking any of her actions at face value. She makes her living by getting men to give her money. It'd be hard not to think she doesn't have other motivations here.
lord if it was a waitress would you think she was just doing it to get extra tips? eh no ! just because she's a stripper doesn't mean that she plays with men ! what have you got to lose by texting her ? ask her out on a date or think of something fun to do/hang out if the money issue comes up you'll know she's not genuine ..
Go to the club, get her number again, and have a normal date. This is your chance to find out if she's legit. Also get your mind out of the gutter for a second, it's unlikely she's a call girl and wants money for that. Even if her job is a stripper, that doesn't mean she's a hooker. Personally I think you waited far to long and I have no idea how you could mess up her number. If I liked a girl regardless of where I met her I would have gone back the next day or so if the number wasn't correct.