Why does it take a long(er) time for a woman to reach orgasm?

Generally, it takes a longer time for the gals to reach orgasm. Most guys can reach orgasm very quickly if they want to and it is easier for most gals to learn how to get us to come very fast. Why do you girls take a longer time to reach orgasm? Is there some special technique for us guys to learn besides direct stim to your clit. How do you gals masturbate so that you come very quickly when you want to?


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  • It's rather complex, involving neurology, anatomy and brain structure. But the female orgasm is tied into more parts of the brain than the male orgasm. There are more things that have to go right, and more potential for things to go wrong with the female orgasm.

    Imagine the male orgasm is microwave popcorn: fast, easy, difficult to mess it up.

    But the female orgasm is like making bread from scratch. More ingredients, longer preparation time, more potential for error .. but the results are a bit more impressive than microwave popcorn.

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      What is your recipe for making great "bread" as quick as possible but no mistakes.

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      Monster is also correct: a guy can not reproduce without an orgasm, while a woman can get pregnant whether she has a climax or not. from on evolutionary perspective, the female orgasm is not necessary.

      for me, there is no quick way. I really wish there were, sometimes...

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      Typo repair: make that, "a guy CAN reproduce without an orgasm..."