How old is too old to be a virgin? I'm a guy who is 21 years old, still a virgin, but done other stuff

I am a 21 year old guy, still a virgin, however I have gone to third base, oral sex, whatever, that is the most I have done, but I have not gone all the way, no penetration yet. Anyway, is 21 too old for a guy to still be a virgin? How old is too old to be a virgin? when should a person be rid of their virginity?
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the one thing that I do like about being a virgin is that I don't have any kids yet, because a lot of people have kids unexpectedly, they have accidental/unplanned pregnancies.
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Anyway, so how old is too old to be a virgin? should I lose it before I am 25 or 30?
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Well?..., how old is too old to still be a virgin? Do most girls find a guy who is still a virgin in his early 20's a turn-off?
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WELL?...
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Overall, is 21 too old or not?
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Should I go see an escort or go to a hooker?
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Should I feel ashamed for being a virgin at 21?
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I'm almost 22, should I be worried? should I try to lose it before I am 25?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • No, no, no, and no. Your still young and there's plenty of time for that. The way your saying it, the loss of your virginity is like a personal trophy. When the time comes, it'll come. I'm 22, virgin, and have done NOTHING. and I have a girlfriend. Don't rush into these things, they have a huge amount of responsibility behind them, and there's always time.

    Hope this helped :)

  • If you feel it is too old, then it's too old. For me I lost it at 23 and I was definitely too old.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I don't think I's a bad thing. I was 20 and the guy I was with was 21 and he was a virgin. wasn't an issue at all.

    but it depends if you are talking to a girl that wants a relationship with you or one that's only interested in sex..

    Teenage sex in my mind is overrated anyways.

    • How old is too old to be a virgin? should I lose it before I am 25?

  • There can be only to young to be non virgin. Personally, I think, people til marriage should have sex. And when is right time for marriage? Maybe after college. So 21 and virgin nothing special. I know a lots of virgins much more older.

    • Really? you know people who are stil virgins of both genders that are 21 and older?

    • Yes I know and not one.

    • How old is the oldest virgin you know?

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  • Some girls might think its cute.

    Some will think it won't be great cause your inexperienced.

    But I'm pretty sure any girl would love to know their your first.

    • But do you think 21 is too old?

    • Nopee. 22 and then your too old.

    • Nonesense. 32 isn to old.

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  • When they are ready, there is no right or wrong age to lose it. 21 is defo not too old!

    • Really? do you know people who lost their virginity at age 21 or older?

    • I know people over that age that are still virgins-both men and women. There is no age that is too old.

  • Well I'm 19 myself and I haven't done anything and I mean anything. I've barely even kissed and I'm fine with that. Its all about what you want when your ready

  • I don't think you are too old to be a virgin.

    • Well sometimes I feel it is too old because most people are sexual veterans by the time they reach 21, most people lose it when they are 16 or 17.

    • Well that's them. You are you. I am still a virgin and I am 18. My best friend is 19 and she is also a virgin. There is noting wrong with not being a "sexual veteran." That term just disgusts me anyways. Just be you and loose it when you feel comfortable.

    • Well that's good, I'm glad I'm not alone.