By all means use some lube. Try inserting your fingers or a sex toy to get use to something inside you. Take it real slow and get each other to orgasm first with your fingers or tongues.
Don't worry. The first time is nothing to remember. It can take some practice. Make sure his penis, or condom is good and lubed too.
if you want to, but i see no reason why he could not fit. If you are wet enough and he allows for you body to adjust to his size, there should be no issues
That's normal. For me it took a few tries before he could get it in. Don't worry if it doesn't happen right away.
Really?
Yep. So don't worry about it. It'll take time but the more you try the easier it will get each time. Also I don't know what position you're doing but you on too is mich much much easier. That's the position that did it for is
We tried me on top and him on top. I clearly wasn't wet enough.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!If you were way too tight for it to fit at all, maybe you weren't aroused enough, or maybe you guys should try the vagina first?
Definitely start the fingers. Be able to use 2 of them.
Dont haste so much , its okay
You will get it next time , just try getting wet next time or use a lube
Yea, make sure you can manage second time, and don't let it go to a 3rd time "youre not able to have sex"
What do you mean by that last bit?
I mean that if you are going to have sex and you don't get it in first time, it's okay, second time, it will also be okay, third time, he will still respect it ofc if he can't get it in, but it will anoy him and possibly not being intrested in trying a forth time, it's better to make sure you can handle it the second time by inserting something. Start with something small then something bigger later, or just 1 finger, 2 finger etc
Maybe someone is trying to tell you to stay a virgin.
You for real? HE couldn't break your hymen on his own? ? ? WOWWWW....Maybe you need a man who knows what the fck he is actually doing? it's not rocket science! JS...
Fingering helps a lot. I broke my hymen by fingering myself, I was always so scared but with time it worked and now fingering or sticking toys in my pussy feels amazing. can't wait till a real dick
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