When you begin to give oral sex, it's important to start slowly. Women like it when a man takes the time to appreciate her and her body. Use your tongue to lick her vagina from its entrance up to the clitoris. Remember to chill out and relax; enjoy yourself and don't get tense. Move your tongue freely from her inner lips to her outer labia on one side. Once you've done that, draw her lips into your mouth and massage them with your tongue. And move on to the other side afterward. Remember to continuously return to her clitoris since most women achieve orgasm through clitoral stimulation.
It would be a great pleasure if you would insert your tongue in instead of your penis.
While you're French kissing her clitoris, use your finger to rub it at the same time.
Be careful not to lose sight of what you're doing because the vagina is a very sensitive area.
You gotta start with the actions before sex. Try to stimulate all her senses- maybe lighting a scented candle, silk bed sheets, walk into the room wearing some sexy boxers or boxers briefs, massage her shoulders, soft kisses behind her neck & whisper something sexy in her ears. Once you got all the senses stimulated, its smooth sailing from then on.
Another way to is ask her straight up, what her fantasies are. Both suggestions will guarantee an unforgettable experience.
Each person is a world. You must discover it. There are the 64 kama sutra positions, and the erogenous zones, but the way you mix it must be different for each. You must test what turn her on, make other touches to associate that turn ons and having Pavlovian associations, sex is on the brain, and some touch mind different from each person, complicity is necessary to give her pleasure. It is not only mechanical. But you must learn to recognize what works, and what does not, for each one, and what works for almost everyone. Nothing works if it is monotonous, it is as music you must change and combine sounds and kind to make it a pleasure.
The best way to pleasure a girl is to remember that sex for a woman is in her head and not between her legs. You're just another mouth and penis and maybe you might do it a little differently or longer than previous lovers, but it's the moment that she will remember.
There are only two answers to this one: Homework and Experience. Once you experience different things, you'll start to learn about the female body and then you'll start learning what pleasures her. Remember to take your time, enjoy the special time with her and experiment to see what she likes and dislikes. I'll tell you this though: She doesn't like that good old routine. You know, the strip, lay down, oral sex, sex, sleep, routine. Make it interesting for her. It makes things exciting.
Guy to guy on this one, for the first part about the oral thing with girls, you have to kinda throw hints out there. All girls are different some like when guys go down on them and some don't. Depending on if you know the girl a lot or not. If you do know he just ask her what she likes better or what she would have rather be done to her. But if you don't know her as well test the field out a little bit. See how she reacts to certain things. Your never going to be perfect at first. And the whole sex thing that's hit or miss. Some girls like different things than others so you may get one that likes what your doing or you may get one that likes things different.