Like if I masturbate hard enough, or fast enough? Or does an actual penis HAVE to pop my cherry, I don't want the embarrassment of bleeding my first... Show More
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If you mean "tearing your hymen", yes, you can. The hymen is just a rather fine/fragile rim of tissue (membrane) at the entrance of the vagina.
If you mean "losing your virginity", for that you will absolutely need a mans' penis.
Not all girls bleed the first time they have sex. If they bleed it's often only a stain, no hemorrhage like your period. Lots of virgin girls don't have much left of their hymen at their puberty, due to a "tom boy youth": jumping, horse riding, gym (or just by using tampons)
My wife just spotted a bit. She was 20 then.