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How do women feel about a penis piercing?

So I've had this idea for a while that I'm going to get a prince albert piercing - a ring or stud through the 'hole' of the penis, and out the base - for a number of reasons: 1) I think it would increase my sexual confidence, as it would be something only I (and my partners) would know about. A secret weapon if you will. 2) I am average in size, and have heard that this type of piercing can help stimulate a woman to orgasm very effectively. 3) I gotta be a little out there/ different. Have any women had experience with a guy with this piercing? How did it feel? Guys that have it: what have you found the greatest benefits / draw backs to it are?
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  • I have had a PA for 5 years now. I have a captive ball ring, small gauge size. I thought about it for over a year prior to getting it done, and I was in a perfectly rational state of mind during the actual piercing.

    With proper aftercare during the healing process, infection is not a big concern. I personally have never had an infection, nor have I ever had any problems with snagging or the CBR coming undone. A Prince Albert doesn't alter the shape of the penis significantly enough to hurt during penetration, provided that your partner is highly aroused. A bottle of lube can not replace genuine desire, so foreplay is important.

    As far as benefits and drawbacks go, the greatest benefit (aside from increased sensitivity in your head) is purely aesthetic. In some positions, the ring can rub the G Spot, but constant thrusting without sufficient lubrication can cause uncomfortable friction issues. That is a problem with or without a piercing, of course, but a PA can exacerbate the problem until you and your partner have gotten used to what angles work best for you. The biggest drawback is completely nonsexual; once you put an additional hole in your urethra, you will drip while you urinate. I have heard that some men enjoy the sensation of getting pierced (the pain triggers a massive rush of endorphins), but I personally screamed in the worst pain I can remember.

    I have personally never been rejected by a partner simply because of my PA. However, several of my partners have expressed nervousness at the sight of the ring and more than one night has been cut short due to the aforementioned friction issue. The ring will not increase your confidence, it won't make you a better lover, and it is ridiculously unlikely to bring any woman to orgasm. About a third of my partners have only been able to feel it in certain positions, about a third have been very aware of it (and enjoyed it thoroughly), and about a third didn't enjoy the sensation. My partners are usually very close friends or girlfriends, not one night stands, and of the girls that did not initially enjoy the sensation, most of them eventually found positions in which they loved the stimulation. Unfortunately, some of my partners never enjoyed the feeling, but they were in a very significant minority.

    While I can understand the fears voiced by the women in response to your question, they are largely unfounded. Cleaning my PA is quick and easy, I just lather with some antibiotic soap every time I take a shower and twist the ring back and forth in place. The ring won't come undone without a pair of needle nose pliers or something similar. I have had a leash attached to the ring and pulled forcefully without there being any change whatsoever in the ring. As far as healing time goes, my PA healed up fully in under six weeks. But for maximum erotic potential, I would suggest a tongue piercing instead of a PA. It can improve cunnilingus, and it's less likely to scar if you remove it later.

  • well, since the overwhelming opinion here seems to be negative, I feel I need to submit my response. I wanted to get this piercing done because I think it is sexy and hot. When I decided to get it done I had already been married for several years, and my wife, while skeptical, was supportive. Since then, we've both been pretty satisfied, with her only request being that I don't stretch to jumbo sizes. The other request, if there is one, is that I sometimes take out the piercing. She sometimes feels entry with a ring in is too painful, and I don't particularly enjoy wearing a curved barbell, although now that I'm up to 4g (where I plan on staying) I may reconsider. However, yesterday for example, I warmed her up considerably, and applied some lubricant, and she said that sex with the large ring in was not uncomfortable or painful beyond the initial penetration, which I took slowly, and ended quickly. I'm not sure my wife finds the piercing very sexy, nor does it "enhance" her sexual experience; however, she supports me in my desired body modification (to a certain extent) and does not mind my PA piercing, even at a substantial gauge. Obviously, her opinion cannot serve as a guide to the opinion of other women, but you should know that even women for whom there is no specific appeal regarding the PA, that an open mind may mean that your desired body modification will present no specific obstacles. She did say, during the act of fellatio, that the hole felt weird, and weirded her out some, but not much else was said, and the act was completed. Once the piercing has healed (at least 4-6 weeks) you can take the retaining jewelry out for short periods of time (at least 20-30 minutes) and at later stages of healing and gauge, for hours, potentially, to satisfy any requests for a lack of jewelry during sex.
    tl:dr - a prince albert shouldn't really make or break a relationship. You shouldn't definitely have a conversation with your significant other first, but assure him or her that as soon as the piercing heals, (in about a month) that sex with and without jewelry on your penis is possible, and that the piercing can safely be reversed if either or both of you are unsatisfied with it.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I have had sex many times with a guy with not one but two piercings, and I can honestly tell you that although his penis isn't the largest on the planet, he still manages to give me incredible sensations in bed!

    the piercings he has go in under the rim of his bellend and come out the top but not through the urethra. they are paralell in the top of his penis as if you were him looking down at it.

    these piercings can stimulate the anterior and posterior walls of the vagina (depending on what position you chose) and send extremely pleasurable shock waves all up your body. the sex was NOT the same when we had sex without the piercings.

    it's not that I'd never have sex now with anyone other than someone with a **** piercing, because it can be amazing with or without, I was just giving my view having tried the same person (?) with and without :)

    i don't find it insulting in anyway, I mean, it does hardly anything for him! it's bloody painful to get and the only reason you would seriously want to get it is to improve your sexual pleasure giving skills.

    the piercings don't harbour bacteria unless you don't wash. only slightly more attention needs to be paid to the piercing than would in a normal bathing session and would take about 30seconds longer.

    hope this helps

    • I used oragel on the area right before getting mine done. Less pain than 18 gauge ear lobe piercings. Not even the slightest twitch just slight pressure then on to the healing process. If I find any questions about the healing process while I scroll through this I will answer it there!

  • I personally don't think I would like my man to have one. One because it does take a long time to heal after you have gotten it done. Which I don't know if you already have a partner or not. But you would have to wait either way. And second because even though it's different. I personally don't think it represents the right kind of different, I think it's kind of promiscuous if you will, BUT. Your right I have heard from some girls that it does help stimulate a little bit more, but you have to be careful sometimes going to fast or too deep cause hurt. Hope that helps

    • HI I'm 54yrs old and I decided to get my penis done one week later I was having sex with my partner it was tender at first but great one month later I can not only go deeper but the sex is so intense it great for the both of us plus I have two studs across my penis as well to add to the pleasure ok. get out of the square and live life to the fullish ok u have nothing to lose and all the fun u can handle.

    • Takes 4-6 weeks. Only have to avoid sex for the first week then use a condoms during sex until fully healed. It treated properly (which 99% of all men will) it will heal on the shorter end of that time frame if softly cleaned every morning and night and soaked for 5-20 minutes in salt water when needed (trust me he will know) have had mine for 8 years now currently at a bar thickness of 6mm and never once had any regret

  • One simple answer: go with what god gave you!

    • I suppose I could argue God made piercings and generally punching holes into the body okay since surely he would have banished such things right? Maybe wiped out an entire culture with a flood or sent his angels to blow up a city to prove a point... Doesn't seem like he ever bothered with the people doing piercings. GO FOR IT DUDE! What an abstract answer as the "most helpful"...

    • I got three cock piercings a p. a , a piercing through the rim of my cock and piercing through were my foreskin was. all three rub the inside of a girl's pussy and do something for me to

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  • It would be like a secret weapon. One that will kill your relationship.

    Piercing it = ouch. It getting infected (probably inevitable in that location and with potential friction) = ouch. It snagging on something (don't kid yourself, even studs can snag) = ouch. Trying to get it into her when it sticks out and deviates from the normal shape of the penis = ouch (for both of you). This just seems like a really, really BAD idea. And one that just isn't hot any way you look at it. I think you should forget it, and if you really, really, really can't give up wanting to have a "sexual" piercing, go get a stud through your tongue. It can add a little something to oral and there are actually women who might find it attractive.

    • Have you even had sex with someone with one? probably not so don't talk shit about something that you have never tried

    • @Jackles I've had mine since I was 16(24 now) was married for 4 years and been with multiple partners since and never had an issue. One thing I will say though. Slowly find a gauge that is most comfortable for you, for me I found a 2 gauge to be the only size that does not get tender after vigorous multiple uses in a row. Oh and be sure to be considerate to your lady and yourself. Buy expensive high high quality jewelery to ensure that it does not unscrew and that it is internally threaded so if it does the main bar still attached for the following 2-5 thrusts has no exposed edges. I'd say about 90% of the girls I've been with have been apprehensive but ended up thourally enjoyed it because of my dedication to jewelery quality and safety

    • They only get infected if not cleand. i have 3 a p. a. Hafada and one where near the rim of my penis where my circumcision scar is. in the 10 years i have been pierced i have never had a piercing infection

  • One of the ladies posts I will have to sadly take the opposite route from...even know it was quite stimulating to read. lol.

    Realize every woman is different. I have heard horror stories about it...but then there are great success stories sometimes. It is possible to make it extremely uncomfortable for the woman to the point she doesn't care to have sex anymore with "that".

    It depends on the woman, your way of having sex (harder or softer), etc.

    I agree with some...stick with what God gave you..there are alternative ways at to making sex better then putting metal through your penis that could* work for some* women.

    Hope this helps

    -zing

  • I personally would be worried it would come undone and rip me up inside. I have seen penis piercing before and it honestly was a turn off for me. But I guess it would all depend on you and your woman, how you feel about it.

    • Wow. I thought I would get a much different response. Thanks all of you for the insight. I'm sure my unit would thank you all if it could!

  • Meh, do what you want. Not my dick.

  • Im a guy who just got a apadravya about 4 months ago. It healed in 3 but I'm a pretty quick healer. When it was healing I cared for it like I was instructed by my piercer. It was very sensitive for the first week but after that I didn't notice much pain at all during the day. Occasionally during the night I would roll over and pinch it between my legs and the bed. Now that its fully healed I don't feel any discomfort from it at all. I've been with two women since now and both enjoyed my new addition. I have had sex with both of them before it was pierced and both have agreed that it added pleasure to the experience. Now for those ladies who are worried that it would come apart in you or hurt you. 1. Most jewelry for that area has screw on heads and they don't come undone very easily of you put it on correctly. 2. The jewelry comes in many different sizes and styles. I own 4mm 5mm and 10mm sets of balls for the ends of my barbells. Also one set of half sphere 4mm balls. I mostly wear the half sphere or 4mm balls. Also if your wearing a condom like you should be doing, it will keep the jewelry from rubbing against the vaginal as much. I hope this helps clear up some things and helps someone out.

    • Alright bro. Straight up, now! How bad did it hurt. Like a normal piercing or is it the fact it's your duck just makes it seem like it would be awful? Be honest. No tough guy stuff needed here. Haha

    • @TryingtoLearn1588 in my opinion the majority of them are quite painless (as far as piercings go) can not speak for a full apadravya though since that's the one I've never had done

    • @David92 I had AP done about 5 years ago and I can honestly say piercing my nipple drunk at a party with a safety pin hurt a lot more a good piercer makes all the difference

  • I LOVE IT!! My ex had one and honestly it was the best thing he could've done. It just hit the right spots to put you in a state of bliss. It took him about 5 months to heal before we could have sex. We never had a problem with it snagging or tearing me up inside or anything else people have been saying. I say get it done

  • Yeah I've been with a guy with a penis piercing and no girls don't like it! We don't find it sexy or more confidential! We find it insulting a f***ing stupid! DON'T DO IT

    • Oh, didn't realize you were the spokes person for all women. I find your presence insulting and your opinions very fucking stupid. That said I would highly recommend the OP try it out and avoid narrow minded idiots like this fine specimen. If you decide you don't like it, take it out. It's that simple.

  • I have 3 penis piercings. The main being my prince albert i had that stretched to guage 2 then a hafada piercing between my cock shaft and scrotum. And finaly a piercing in in the skin under my penis glands what a uncircumcised guy would call a foreskin piercing.. best way to show off penis piercings my girlfriend decided was for me to have all my pubes removed... the female piercer used tattoo numbing cream on all my piercings i have had my cock pierced 10 years now. the only issue i have is explaining to airport securtity the metal that shows on the body scanner is my penis piercings

  • I had a p. a before i went to prison, Yes it really did hurt.. Mine went through the urethra, and out under the bellend on the right side.. The worst th

  • I have 5 piercings in the head of my penis an apadravia an ampallang and 3 dydos let me clear up some of the bullshit I'm reading hear the piercings do increase sexual stimulation for both partners and the piercing will not come apart inside the vagina we have sex at least once a week and outta 5 barbells I've never had one do any such thing and as for it getting infected... If you shower once a day and clean them you'll never have an issue non iodized sea salt soaks in the beginning really help a lot for irritation and inflammation be sure to clean the dry crusted build up off the jewelry several times a day with a wet napkin as it needs to be able to move freely and it really sucks if the barbell is forced through with the crust attached to the post other then that I'm very happy with my decision hope this helps

  • Actually three of my boyfriends had them and were all stretched beyond a "2g". This is probably an old post but somewhere you may read this and decide for it. It is quite amazing. Maybe that's just me. I loved them Prince Albert with the dolphin piercing as well. It was a very good idea and as long as you're partner isn't dry as hell, you're good to go. 💋

  • Fuck YES! I'll never fuck another dick without a piercing! It's true that the first 5-6 months is a little rough after getting it but the reward for a woman is totally worth it! If I ever lose my man I'd put a add on craigslist for pierced penises ONLY. NO JOKE!

    • Thanks for your Aswer. What are then the best piercing for a penis to stimulate the woman. im study to get a penis piercing

    • @alexian I've had multiples and from my experience the prince Albert is the only one you can go all night with without any penile pain or discomfort. It's the only one I have left and never getting rid of it

  • I have 4 piercing (apadravya, ampllang, 2 fernums) currently and have had a prince Albert in the past. Had all of them for about 20 years.

    Partially, I originally got them to kill my sex drive (something I still wish I could do - if anyone has any tips let me know).

    Can't say I have had a lot of partners in 20 years, but they have ranged from liking them, being hurt or minorly cut to having to take 3 out (ampllang could stay) when we had sex

  • I’m currently dating a guy with a penis piercing. For me it’s a little different though. Don’t get me wrong the sex is A-MAZ-ING! Lol. However, after I’ve come countless times and sex is over, my vagina is swollen. We’ve been together for over 3 years and I hardly ever had this issue. I’m not sure if it’s because of all the kegals and how tight I am around the ring or what. Sex usually lasts about 30 mins or less. Needless to say I can barely get through round 2 with all the discomfort.

  • Can girls cum faster with a Christiana/clit piercings or guys with prince Albert/Jacob ladder piercing.

  • Dude... just make sure you use a penis health creme that contains Vitamins E and A afterward. It will help protect your penis skin from infection and also from drying out. I used one and didn't have any problems at all after the piercing. Actually, I still use the creme because my girl loves what it does to my penis skin. "Incredibly smooth and soft" is how she likes to describe it. Hope this helps and good luck.

  • I do not have one and do not condemn anyone who chooses to do it. However, it is my belief that one would benefit more from simply learning how to properly manipulate your ladies' clitoris both manually and orally. A simple fetish for performing oral sex and obsession with pleasing my partner, has gotten me more "wows" from ladies than anything else i can imagine. . Also, putting your woman on a pedestal, loving her, adoring her, worshipping her seems to be more of a turn on for my wife. Don't get me wrong, your cock is important but i think there are other less invasive ways to get your lady off. Having said that, if both you and your partner are into it, go for it. Personally, i cannot imagine going without sex for 5 months while it heals. Lastly, if lasting a long time is a problem, there are condemns you can buy that help you "love her a long time". I am an average looking guy and knew I needed something extra. Lots of oral sex, adoring my lady, making sure that she gets off two to three times before I do and making sure to last as long as she wants have all paid off for me.

  • Doesn't a Prince Albert type piercing make it almost impossible to pee straight? Plus I would have to think that having metal at the end of your penis would really hurt her if you were going at it hard.

  • Huh well, some girls like that stuff sometimes. It all depends on the girl.

  • I have a prince albert. I got it when I was 21, it didn't heal for weeks and even then it was very sensitive afterwards however, it increases your stimulation, her stimulation - I haven't once heard a woman complain about it and it adds a little bling. It's not a germ magnet just remember to take care of it properly, In 3 years of sex I have never had the piercing get lost or cause problems. If your serious about it then do it, you only live once so why not.

    • For real, how bad did it hurt? Seriously. Im considering, getting a piercing. I've always wanted one, I don't know why? Just have. I love getting tattoos, i have them everywhere in painful places but i love the pain of a tattoo. But what is the pain of a piercing like?

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