Small Boobs: How Small is TOO Small?

The title is pretty self-explanatory. So, I have small boobs, and I am VERY insecure about it. I know confidence can be attractive and make up for the lack of a chest and all, but I'm struggling to have any. I was reading comments from guys on this site that said small boobs are attractive, which was great until I realized what they thought small boobs were. Some were commenting about how B cups were small, some even said C. It made me a little depressed. My boobs are small. Actually, small is an understatement. They aren't even an A cup. We're talking AA here. I can't fit pretty much any bras in a store and it took me a year to find even one that fit, I only own one. SO SUPER SMALL. I'm trying to be more confident in myself, but I really can't do it because of this. It's not even like I'm skinny to go with it. I'm an average size. There's nothing wrong with that, it's just that I feel like I look really out of proportion. It just sucks. So I guess what I'm trying to ask is: are small boobs a dealbreaker? like would guys not even consider dating me because of that? Because from what I've seen it really seems like it. (oh and also: I just lost a lot of weight, so they used to be decent. forgot to mention that. I went from 140 lbs to 115. and I kinda don't wanna gain back all that weight just for b cups again. I wasn't exactly confident back then either. so I'm finally ok with the rest of my body, but honestly, I have the worst boobs.. I can't win here)
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Most Helpful Girls

  • I'm between an A or barely a B cup so I kinda consider myself in the flatlands as well! For me it's just accepting that's what my genetics gave me, probably won't get much bigger with pregnancy either, my Mom didn't. Watching her rock a pair of A cups, which don't sag a bit in her forties makes me feel a little better about it though. She managed to snag my Dad, who even if he wasn't my Dad I'd still say he's a pretty handsome guy. Her smallish breasts didn't seem to bother him.

    I've already seen girls my own age at the gym with C and bigger cup sizes, who are already showing the effects of gravity, just wait a few more years and a. Pregnancy or two. They'll have to wear a bra to keep them out of their morning cereal bowl! Those are also some of the girls that can't stand to sleep without a bra. Not us! Sometimes I think guys like smaller girls because we're different, were sexy not because we have huge boobs, were just sexy!! (My guy would agree with that statement 110% maybe more!! He's also a pretty hot guy who had lots of girls chasing him; he chose little flat chested me though!!)

    Look at some of the most memorable Hollywood stars old and young. Audrey Hepburn Keira Knightly, Goldie Hawn and Kate Hudson, the list could go on and on all of these ladies are or were considered to be sexy, they all have A cups or less!

    Take a look at your profile picture, you're cute, if a guy thinks different because you have small boobs then he must have a hole in his head! Don't worry, you'll find a guy who thinks you're the sexiest, hottest chick he's ever seen. You'll be nervous the first time he sees your breasts, if he loves you it's not going to matter at all!

  • Who gives a shit about how small your boobs are, show people what great of a person you are. You are beautiful, don't let ANYONE make you feel that you are not.
    There are women who have had breast cancer and have had to have their breasts removed, they were more than likely left with nothing, but they are still absolutely loved!
    Boobs will never define a woman for her beauty, she shall define her own beauty!

    If a guy can't love you because you don't have massive boobs, you don't need him.
    You'll find the right guy, and he's not going to give one fuck.

    If any guy (or girl) EVER tries to harass you and make fun of you for your size, tell them you don't need big breasts to be beautiful.

    Just remember that.

  • This is a bit beside the point, but if your boobs are as tiny as you claim, why would you need a bra in the first place?

    As for your question, I don't think you need to worry too much over boob size. Think about the long run, bigger boobs will sag more over time and tend to cause back pains.

    Guys don't care that much about boob size as they do about your face and body weight, when it comes to sexual attraction.

    • I probably wouldn't need a bra, but I've never really thought to not wear one. Just something I've always done I guess. & thank you! I must be meeting the wrong guys.

    • You most definitely are. You should be more worried, if a guy rejects you for personality reasons, because that would mean you might have to work on being less or more X. If he rejects you, because your boobs aren't up to his standards, you don't really want to be with a guy like that anyway.

    • I hope you meet the right guy that loves everything about you. I prefer small boobs they are hot and attractive. Hope it helps :)

Most Helpful Guys

  • I am a guy that loves small boobs, I hate big boobs. Whenever I think of big boobs, I see obese women who are in fat acceptance skinny shaming beautiful women with small boobs. I honestly do not even get hard/turned on when I see a girl with big boobs, it's actually a turn off. I find them ugly and majority of the time girls who have big boobs aren't my type. Small boobs on the other hand, get me rock hard and so horny. I find them cute and majority of the time girls with smaller boobs are active (they excercise, play sports, or are on the skinny side) all of which I find attractive. Nothing beats pinning down a skinny girl with small boobs wrapping my arms around her body and going in missionary style. If you have small boobs , don't be insecure as there are many other guys like me that Love small boobs. It's just because of the media and social media and celebrities like Kim Kardashian that makes girls think guys only like big boobs and they are the only desirable but that is not true at all.

    • You just copy pasted this comment from another post

  • As a guy, I don't really care about the boobs. I would much prefer a cute (face wise) and smart girl, over one with large boobs, now that I think of it, I'm not really into big boobs. Normal and small are my thing I guess, there must be more than just me out there... Honestly, if a guy isn't going to like you for that, then he's not worth you, you deserve someone who likes you for who you are, everyone does.

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  • Yeah for me it doesn't matter about boobs either. I'm just echoing now, but you look really pretty in your picture, and I'm sure you have a great personality. There will be a guy for you out there, and like others have said, if he doesn't want you because of your boobs, then wave him goodbye, because a guy like that (IMO) is a complete dick.

  • You will grow and you will regret making this post.i hav larger nipples and i made a huve deal about it. I look into porns centered around large areolas and find love with my body. Im not suggesting you should buy p*rn or get viruses from trying to find it. Just think of a way that would help you feel normaler than you do. (Besides surgery) like for me, seeing women in the p*rn indurestry helped me because these women were famous for those nipples, why hate mine
    Good luck, realize you are normal and you have to love yourself. And not everyone is going to like them but those people are shallow and probably have a small penis or a hairy butt to make up for their hatred.

  • There's no such thing as having *too* small boobs. Either they're small, or they're not. Saying that they're *too* small implies that there's something wrong with having small boobs. Nothing is wrong with it, it's not something you can control. And if a guy really rejects you just because of your boobs, is that really a guy you'd want to be it?

    • you'd want to be with*

    • yes they is too small boobs i got them and they annoying as heck. to darm sore boobs. I wear a sport bra since none other bra don't fit me. I am on the petite size. so yeas very small boobs are real.

    • @CoolKatie I think you misunderstood my point. There's nothing wrong with having small boobs, hence boobs cannot be "too" small.

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  • Same here, i'm A Cup lol, and i had no problems whit guys...

    • Nice

  • I think AAA or AA are fine. They really just aren't important enough to change my thinking someone is physically attractive, and if you have the self-discipline to lose weight, you ought to focus on the volitional good and effort you have undergone to lose that weight, rather than characteristics of yourself that you can't change at all.

  • Yes I tend to like girls with a B or C cup. Even bigger can be nice too. I don't think this is a big deal though. You sound like you have a lot going for you. You have a nice face and you're only 115 pounds.

  • I think AA is too small if you are 16 or older.

  • I am good for nipples on pecs. Sure, I prefer bigger but I also would prefer Junior had a bit more reach. If I can play with and suck your nipples on pecs, I am content.

  • Ahhhh. I get called names, and huge list of other stuff by many guys... The list goes on. I wear beginners' bra. Sometimes even those cups don't fit me properly. When I've put on weight, I have a B cup. When I lose weight, they shrink and my bra goes loose T_T Plus I don't have the curves. I am too thin.

    It took a very long time for me to grow my self-esteem back. I still struggle with it sometimes. Sometimes I just don't bother about it these days...

    Looking at your photo, you are very very pretty.
    I am sure there'll be a nice guy who will like you, for what you are. :)

  • A couple of things... and they're both good!

    1. You're a very attractive girl, very pretty and a great smile
    2. I guarantee there are many guys out there who will love you body and small boobs. Not like you despite that fact, but love you BECAUSE they love your body!

  • I would be with a girl regardless of breast size n if she was insecure cause of breast size then there is breast enlargement pills on ebay n I hear it actually works... I know a girl to whom did this...

  • I could care less about boobs to be honest.

    Things I look for in a girl:

    1) Attractive face
    2) Intelligence
    3) personality
    4) Ass

  • No such thing as too small for me. It's only a bit weird when they are too big.

  • I don't know what to say about this overwhelming brutal truth,
    But you must wait for the right guy, who just give important to you and the love, yes even I like boobs like other guys but if I love 😍 a girl with tiny boobs then I won't consider her boobs in love, if she love me truly, care for me then I have other things to appreciate like her rosy beautiful lips, her hypnotising eyes, and yes I would start loving her tiny boobs as well, yep I know there are a lot of issues likned with it due to society and friends, but I'll give a shit to them for my love. But lol I'll keep on teasing her the whole life just to convince her with lots of love, conviction and kisses 😘 and ll ve lots of fun together. I know she'll be very funny,
    I hope you'll get one soon :-)

  • to make it big !! try to get ur milk out for while then stop it will get big but the milk will anoy u like it want to push out

    my source is my teacher and yea she's weird! lol.. by the way am into boobs.. it make women... indescribable

    • how do you try to get the milk out?

    • am a guy my friend... i would advice u to ask a married women.. note: there is pumps or sex... as i know but still ask married women am not a women

  • Face + skinny > boobs. You're like an 8/10. You'll be fine.

  • I like small boobs even if there next to flat I don't care. You should be proud of your chest

  • I'm 14, and I'm not even a size either, and my doctor said that I'm done growing, so I feel your pain.

    • Really? What do you mean you are not even size?

  • If you are happy with them then that is all that matters. If you are not happy there are solutions but personally speaking I think fake boobs look worse than small boobs.

  • Too small breasts do not exist. Each size has its own beauty.

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