Am I squirting? I am sure it is not pee, it's not lube, and it's not coming from the vagina. But it is not a lot of it either. So what is this?

I have been having awesome orgasms on my own (no partner). How can I tell if I am squirting? I've read it feels like going pee. But with my awesome solo orgasms I don't feel like I need to go pee. Just before I cum, there is an unusual sensation almost like pain but more like a tickle, and not at all like the urge to go pee. I have discovered if I just let myself feel that sensation for a second, then I get to experience the most amazing orgasm ever. But it doesn't feel like an urge to go pee at all. I am usually quite wet by the end of an orgasm; it is usually this way even if it's only a vaginal one. I hardly ever use lube, so I had been assuming it was from the vagina. When I was married I never used condoms so by the end it was difficult to differenciate where the fluids came from. Now that I am single and enjoying my body alone, I was still thinking it was vaginal fluid. But last weekend when I was masturbating while wearing a cup (for mother nature's monthly visit) and after one of those fantastic orgasms, I was soaking wet. The fluid couldn't have come out of the vagina, because the cup would have cought that. And I know I didn't pee myself (because it didn't feel like I was going pee). It didn't feel like I was "shooting" anything out of myself either like men do. And the amount was not significant like male ejaculate eithet. And I actually tasted it; it didn't taste like anything but a very gentle fruity taste. So the question is how do I know if the fluid is actually squirt? Thanks!!
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  • You can do a few experiments:
    1) Before masturbating, empty your balder of all urine into a glass container. Then masturbate over a glass bowl to collect all the fluid while wearing a menstrual cup to reduce collection of vaginal orgasm fluids. Compare the two fluid samples for colour, smell, and texture, and you'll have your answer.
    2) Get yourself a waterproof Hero3 camera, and see if you can capture some HD, high frame rate footage of your urethra close-up (spread-lip) when you orgasm. Squirt is produced by the Skene's gland, a. k. a the paraurethral gland or female prostate. It is genuine prostatic tissue surrounding the female urethra, and produces fluid similar to the male prostate which produces 2/3 the volume of semen. The squirt may exit via the urethra or via small ducts near to the urethra.
    en.wikipedia.org/.../File:Skenes_gland.jpg
    I have never seen footage of glands squirting fluid, so if you can capture footage of this, I think that the video would be highly saleable. :-)
    P. S. I'm also happy to volunteer to help you run these experiments. :-D

    • That would be quite a task! Thanks Liliana

  • The biggest thing I have noticed to look for is one the taste as you said it was fruity I always described it as almost like sugar water and two the color. It should almost be a little cloudy. Not yellow but more of a white cloudy. The skene's gland which is what you put pressure on when you are having some alone time, will leak out through your urethra. If you really want to have fun with it just before you orgasm squeeze you pelvic muscles like you're trying to stop from going the bathroom. Then when it starts push out and watch the show. Just have towels ready. Haha. Enjoy

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  • The urge to pee is different from the urge to squirt, as you put it so correctly and well. Your body's signals will tell you whether you'll squirt or pee. I don't squirt every time, but I know very well when I'm going to. I don't know about you, but I can hold back a pee, but can never hold back a squirt; when it has to happen, it happens.

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  • It certainly sounds like you have squirted, There is speculation where this comes from, but probably from a gland near the end of the urethra.Some girls do squirt pee, as my friends girl does on occasion if she has a good cum.If you really need to know more, have a friend watch or help you get off and observe.
    If you need someone I volunteer.

    • Too funny the volunteer thing. Thank you though!

  • No expert, but I tasted my SOs squirt and it was bland, tasteless, no real ordour. So , just to be through, asked to pee a bit. As I thought. Smelled like, taste, smell pee. So squirt is ordour less.

  • i think ill need to examine your vagina closely to know if you truly squirted

  • It's definitely a female ejaculation.
    www.texaspartypages.com/...leejaculationebook2.pdf

    • this is awesome!! thank you!

  • I jacked off so hard to this post

  • I have had that twice with two different girlfriends and neither smelt like pee, very sexy though

  • When I used to have sex with my wife I'd feel her vagina tense up and when she squirted it and my dick was inside her it felt like a water gun spraying against me.
    If I finger her I don't know why but every time I pulled my finger out she squirted and it all came out like pulling a cork out of a upside down bottle:)

    • Also the colour was clear not yellow that's how you can tell.

    • depending on your diet, your pee can be quite clear

    • Well yea obviously but she asked how can you tell and I said squirt liquid is clear.