Black with a small butt?

[Anonymous]

I'm a black girl and there are two things that are expected of us: to be able to dance, and to have a big butt. I can't really dance but that can be easily fixed. Unfortunately I do not have a big butt, I have huge t*ts for my size but I don't know if this is enough. I recently read a question that said guys preferred a big butt and small boobs. Although my butt is small, it is nice. The few guys I have been with love it and have made a point to complement me on it, but it doesn't change the fact that it's small. Is it worth getting my butt altered by plastic surgery?

[Simple-Simonette]

I swear to having a small butt will not hurt your chances of being in a meaningful relationship. Plastic surgery would be a waste of time and money. If a man were to dump you because your butt isn't big enough, he would not be worth hanging onto at all.

You're not missing opportunities to have great relationships with men because your butt is too small. You don't have to be physically perfect to snag a man and different men have different preferences as well.

Please, it would be cheaper and healthier to just learn to accept and love yourself exactly the way you are.

Good luck.

[Simple-Simonette]

To answer your update: no.

[missnicole]

Save this link...whenever you think about having plastic surgery on your butt, watch it and you'll realize your way better off without it link

Anyway, we're not expected to do or be anything.. I can't dance to save my life. I just have fun and anyone who doesn't like it has this thing in their neck that allows them to look the other way...LoL Don't worry about it...besides, there are plenty of women who don't have a big butt.

[snickerzbar]

omg girl I am the EXACT SAME WAY hahahha & no, I don't think its worth the money and time. God gave you that type of body, it was meant to be that way and its not bad at all. It took me a while to except the absence of an ass hahah but all the while you are a beautiful girl and besides, I personally think huge boobs & huge ass on top of that is a little too much.

[snickerzbar]

And o yeah.....your kind of young! 16 is way to young to be thinking about plastic surgery even if it's socially ok. Love your body hun :^)

[Asker]

I would never do it this young, that's insane. And I wouldn't make it huge, just slightly larger.

[Fitzcarraldo]

Don't get plastic surgery.

And also, don't get in the habit of thinking that you need to change your body to please guys. You should exercise and eat well, but that's to improve your health and live a better life ... not to impress boys.

Plus, you're young enough that your body will probably fill out a bit more by your early 20s. So your butt might get a little bigger all on its own as you mature.

[macdadymo9]

No. Don't bother with it. It's not that big of a deal to change your body to keep up with a stereotype. Just let things naturally go. People compliment what you have. So work with it, Besides, big boobs SHOULD be enough. Don't let people fool you into thinking that "Oh..You need to follow the typical type black girl." No. Be who you are made to be. Not what people tell you to be.

[Asker]

Thanks, that was really helpful (:

[macdadymo9]

Not a problem :)

[sxiijenny]

Mama trust me, don't get no plastic surgery, just be who you are, show the world your goodies...

and trust me, I know a lots of guy who loves a girl with big boobs, you said you have a small butt, be serious girl at least you got one.Let me tell you my butt is bigger than my boobs and sometimes I just want big boobs, but I learn how to live with them, and I'm happy, so you should feel the same way :)

[Asker]

Thanks (:

[derekmarks15]

if you like your body then keep it the way it is send some pics if you don't mind I'm 16 e-mail at [e-mail] I'll return the favor