Is this normal? How do I find the male g-spot?

Ok so we all know the thing with masturbation, you explore your body, you get used to how you feel, what you like and explore new avenues. But here's the kicker... You see for years I've known about the female g-spot, and soon after that I learned about the MALE g-spot, the prostate. Well today, after years of knowing about it, I bought some tight rubber gloves (also came in handy while doing the dishes in scalding hot water) I put some baseline on my middle finger and well... Went cave diving XD It was an experience I won't lie, a strange new thing to try with myself, however if anything it killed my arousal and I just turned off the p*rn. How do I find my male g-spot? and should I keep at it? To the girls, do you consider it weird or unnatural for a guy to be trying this?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • So, did you ever find it? Me and my bf started experimenting about 2 years ago, and he could never get into a comfortable enough position to use his finger himself. I would recommend getting a small toy. He absolutely loves the orgasm when he is getting oral sex plus got spot stimulation but in the beginning when I thought it would be fun, it took more than a few times for both of us to be comfortable doing it. (you have to be aroused already and relaxed) the g spot almost feels like a button about the size of your fingertip, I would suggest, if you have an open sexual relationship to ask your partner to try it on you. And don't just shove a finger in. Lots of lube, no long nails, rub around the outside and work your finger slowly in and out until you feel comfortable putting it all the way in. Good luck 😊

  • ahahahahahahah NO NO IT IS NOT WEIRD AT ALL (im not being sarcastic) explore your sexuality its your body anyway and like the ocean must people don't explore it so dive deep into yourself, be confident in your findings because you do only live once

  • No its not weird for guys to want to find out what it feels like but according to my gay friends it doesn't feel good.

    • I've read while researching it that the sensation is more akin to 10 orgasms at once.

Most Helpful Guys

  • After you have your finger fully inserted, curl your finger towards your belly (the same motion used to signal someone to come to you). That should work, but I'm not sure you could get your finger deep enough and get the right angle at the same time.

  • Just my opinion but that spot is considered gay to touch even by a girl. Homosexual men use it in gay sex.

    • It is just another part of the body that can be a source of pleasure, no different from any other part of the body.

    • lesbians also use dildos, gay guys also use fleshlights, I don't consider any part of the body to be gay or not. It's only gay if I asked another man to fuck me or finger me, I don't consider it gay to do it to myself.

    • @ asker and jano, you two are correct

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  • I've never heard of a guy doing it to himself, but girls do it to guys all the time.

  • Hey, I'm one for knowing your body, so go ahead. Why were you turned off though?

    • don't think I did it right, not to mention it's an entirely new thing for me, so there is an aspect of apprehension about it.

    • Just relax and get in your hands and knees

  • Da tip of da head at da high end