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Can tight vaginal muscles damage a penis during female orgasm?

I've been with my first boyfriend for a year now. Since I don't have an experience with other guys, I'd like to ask your opinion here. Please feel free to give me an adivce. My boyfriend is always extremely worried that I'm too tight and will cause damage to his down there LOL. I have really good control over my vaginal muscles, but usually during orgasm they squeeze down on him and it freaks him out. He says it's too tight and at times painful for him. My question is, can this damage him? and also, How can I stop my bodies automatic reaction to an orgasm that causes these muscles to "engage"?
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  • I seriously doubt that he has anything to worry about, as you can squeeze a penis pretty darned hard without injuring it. I'm pretty big, and I've slept with some very tight girls, so the combination could sometimes feel very tight during their orgasms. However, I have never sustained injury.

    I suppose it's possible (but unlikely) that he has some sort of a condition that would cause him to experience pain at that point, but I can't imagine what it would be. He could also just be a wuss who doesn't know how good he has it to be with a woman that has your level of vaginal control, lol.

    I doubt there's anything you can do to decrease your muscular contractions during orgasm, nor would you probably want to. I imagine that you have some pretty intense and satisfying orgasms as a result of those well developed muscles. If they were weaker, your orgasms may he diminished, as well.

    I'm just curious; does he contain of pain if you (assuming you do) give him a hand job? A hand wrapped around a penis, squeezing it, would be similar to the contractions of a vagina, but a hand can squeeze considerably harder, as well. If that causes him pain (don't squeeze as HARD as you can, though), there may actually be a problem that needs to be addressed by a doctor.

    • Yes once he complained when I gave him a hand job :( ... hmm Thank you for your opinion

    • Hmm, with that being the case, he honestly might want to go get checked out. He could seriously have some form of developmental or physical issue affecting him, because neither of those should cause any sort of pain. I hope everything turns out alright, whatever the problem may be.

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  • Nah it'd be very unlikely... it can be uncomfortable, i've experienced discomfort once from it. Although in saying that I had phimosis so I couldn't tell 100% if it was because she was tight during contractions or just the fact it aggravated my phimosis.

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  • Are you thinking they'll clamp down like a jaw? They're not that strong.

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  • You know what, tell your boyfriend not to worry, I'm willing to test out if your vagina will hurt my penis. Boyfriend, please step aside, Plato to the rescue!

  • I have had it not so much damage me, but after several days in a row of extended penetration (30+ minutes at a time), I started to de-sensitize a bit. Just taking a break is all it took to be back to normal.

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  • Still less scary than a vagina dentata.

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  • I doubt that it is damaging him. He just may have a sensitive unit. If it isn't coming out black and blue, he is OK.
    I have had some tight pussies, and have enjoyed when they clamped down on me during orgasm. He just may have to pull out momentarily while you cum. You probably cannot stop the contractions, as that is your bodys reaction to your orgasm. I wish my current Gf had your "muscles"

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  • I'm pretty sure the vagina was designed for that purpose, you aren't to kill it like a python squeeze.

  • Wow.. I wish I was your boyfriend. lol

  • There is no danger, if your muscles are strong, congratulations, keep them in good shape and tell your bf he has nothing to worry about :)

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    • you're welcome :)

  • he's got a pencil dick or something? nerve damage lol c'mon now.. tell the fella to man up and take it, it feels great.

  • Hahaha it's not made from steel 😂😂

  • Theoretically i guess so. But i've never herad of that happening.

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