Is it weird I can't turn myself on?

[Anonymous]

I'm still a virgin and I'm planning to be until marriage. But that's not the point, is it weird or normal that I'm not able to turn myself on for anything? Like everything just feels uncomfortable if not, odd. I don't know what to do.

[MusicLover2]

I don't know exactly about the level of normalcy, but I do know you're not alone! I experience the same thing! I've read online that it could be a mental thing, to try reading/watching erotica/porn, coming up with your own fantasies, listening to sexier songs, trying sex toys (specifically vibrators). I've tried all that and got nada. But maybe some will work for you?

They also say practice makes perfect, but I don't know if I've invested quite enough time for that to be proved true or false just yet, since I'm also relatively new to the whole masturbation thing.

Well, good luck, and at least know you're not alone!

[Socal1]

My first instinct is yes. But I'm a guy, and it's never in the history of men been a problem for any man, ever. Girls operate differently anyhow. God knows we have hard enough time figuring out what turns you on. And then each one of you is different on top of that.

Maybe you just don't have a good imagination. Nothin' like the real thing. You're gonna need some females to chime in on this one.

[Annymous8]

Have you tried watching p*rn?