How long would you wait for oral sex? girls, when do you give it?

[Anonymous]

Guys: How long is acceptable to wait for oral sex from a girl before writing her off? Girls: How many weeks/months into dating do you usually do it? Do you have to be in an exclusive relationship?

[sadnddepressed]

Well I'm not speaking for all the guys out there but there is no time limit. I don't know where you got te idea that there is one. Normally we do like Oral before sex but it is not necessary, most of the women I dated do in the second or third date. if you are dating and it is getting serious there is no writing you off for not giving oral, if your not comfortable don't give it. THERE IS NO TIME LIMIT

[Eze12345]

sexual stuff isn't to important, I'd give it maximum 1 year before writing her off. I only date when its real, not this game crap

[scnbabe89]

I guess I would wait like a month or 2 into the relationship but if I was drunk and not in a relationship with the guy then I would probably do it also.