How do you squirt?
My boyfriend loves squirters and I want to figure out how I can do it for him to turn him on. Any pointers?
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WOW! I just responded this on another question..
All right... I like this.. There's no better thing than finding someone who wants to learn something new.
1st: You must had done pee before you do this. Since your squirt will come from you urethra which is the passage that your pee comes from. So, you must drink lots of water during the day to clean your system up. You don't want to scare your boyfriend if it comes out smelling like pee. He may not do it again.
2nd: You must be very wet and aroused. Be very horny the first time so it won't bother you. Just like your 1st vaginal intercourse and anal for the 1st time.
3rd: You must use a curved dildo or someone else's fingers.
4th: You have to push up against your vagina wall behind your stomach.
1. Lay down on the edge of your bed, open wide.
2. Have your mate stand in front of you. With one hand, making the "spiderman hand" when he's shooting his web, entering you and the other hand pressing a bit firm on your stomach, way below your belly-buttom / top of your vagina wall. So, your stomach will be between both of his hands.
3. He is going to enter you all the way in with his 2 middle fingers. To be clear, middle and ring fingers only. The pinky and index fingers he will leave them out hitting your butt.
4. He will then go up and down in you, not in and out, fast and hard. It will be uncomfortable at first but that is the way to stimulate your "g" spot and get you to ejaculate.
5. He has to push your "g" spot with "inside hand" up against his other hand on top of your stomach, FAST AND HARD". If you are wet and horny and well-concentrated. You will squirt. You can instruct him of where you feel the most pleasure so he can concentrate in that area. He could bent/fold slightly his fingers.
Hope this wasn't too long. Let me know how it goes.
What Guys Said 9
Well, in the link i will give, it clearly shows how to massage a G-Spot effectively (on a plastic vagina). Check it out. (Only, its created for males, but still you can get an idea of what to do.)
He has good taste.
though not all girl can squirt.
You do so by massaging the g spot. you'll get a feeling of having to pee but work through it and then your about to come push on the g spot and rub and the same time (keep a constant pressure.)
-What a g-spot?-
This is an erogenous zone which when stimulated can lead to high levels of sexual arousal and powerful orgasms.
To find the female g-spot:
Get into position. Lie on your back and place a pillow under your head and a towel under your buttocks. Bend your knees and spread your legs until you are able to reach your vagina easily.
Apply oil or lubricant. Pour a small amount of oil or lubricant around your vagina and clitoris. Lightly massage the oil into your genital area. Spend a bit of time arousing yourself to make it easier to find your G spot. Next Place your palm face down on your vulva and insert a finger inside your vagina bending it forward and pressing upward. It's important to use firm pressure when trying to locate your G spot. It's about 2 inches in on the what would be considered the ceiling of the vagina. It will feel much different from the rest of the vagina. This area is usually only about 1 inch in diameter. When you stimulate your G spot it will produce a very strong sensation.
You need to let go. My Girlfriend is a HUGE squirter. More like a gusher. From what she tells me it feels like she is going to urinate. That is when you need to let go. Many women hold back at that point thinking they are going to p*ss all over their man. Let him have all you got. Just relax and enjoy.
What Girls Said 5
I am a big squirter. I can do it almost all the time very easily and they are huge. Unfortunately it is very hard to explain how to do it. It takes a combo of different stimulation I believe. Sometimes via my clitoris alone and sometimes with clitoris and g-spot stimulation. I can even do it while having anal sex and rubbing my clitoris. Mine usually accompanies a long series of extreme orgasms and I will often squirt several times in a row (meaning several distinct and separate squirts--NOT pulses). Like many other women here have said, the biggest thing to remember is that you have to relax. It is very helpful, not to mention reassuring, if you pee before doing this. It can happen as much by luck as by skill. You can do it through masturbation of course too. Once you figure it out, you will very quickly learn how to do it all the time--I promise.
Okay...this is kind of hard to explain. I squirt...but it has never, ever been something I have had to intentionally think about really. It just happens, but not all the time. I actually squirt from "mixed stimulation" meaning clitoral and gspot, not necessarily at the same time though. It doesn't ever happen with just one or the other.
It is definitely a feeling like you are going to pee, but you just have to relax and realize that that's not what is going to happen...
It is the same muscles you use when you pee or when you are holding your pee...hence the feeling is the same...
One piece of advice is to go to the bathroom right before you are trying this...and then you will know that what is coming out is really, in fact, not pee...
I don't know what else I can say really...any other specific questions?
g spot massage can getting you to squirt..I am practicing that at the moment. LOL
they say every woman can do it but not all of them will..whatever that means.
check out this:
also check out g spot orgasm in the search option on this page..
hopefully someone who can already do it will come and help out better