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Does anybody else regret their first time (sex)?

When we got to her room, she told to me take a shower before we start anything. It was probably because I had sweated from all that dancing. I asked her if she wanted to take a shower with me, she said no. So I went to the bathroom to take my shameful shower and before I turn the water on, I get the sudden envy to take a mean shit. Fuck that whole milk I had this morning, I apparently can't handle that too well lol. So I take my shit and then take my shower. And I'm feeling a bit like shit. I go to the room and she's comfortably watching TV. She did not look in the mood. But fuck it, if I never ask, the answer is always no. So I asked her "shall we start?" She removed her shirt and asked me to remove her bra. I could not remove that bra to save my life. She easily removed them with one hand. After that we kissed and she pushed me down on the bed and proceeded to give me a bj. I'm mad at myself for just laying down for five minutes. I could have told her to slow down or speed up. I could have moved to let her suck it from a different position. I could have done some of the interesting positions I've seen. Instead I just laid there with an upset stomach, a sore anus (from prior shitting) and a desensitized penis (from drinking alcohol). I felt like shit. No one should have to take a mean shit and a forced shower on their first time. So what about your first, was it better or worst than mines?
After reading yours, mines was pretty decent.
Vote A
I regret my first. Same page as you.
Vote B
I actually liked my first time.
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I had a worser time than you.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • My first ever time was quite nice actually.
    It was my first boyfriend. We were in his bedroom and we were starting to do things. We had done oral on each other until this point but we were going all the way. He put a condom on and tried to enter me but I was just too tight and almost ripped it. In the end we decided to abandon the condom until he had managed to enter me. When he did, oh my lord. I felt like hips had been moved apart and I was trying to hard not to cry lol. He pulled out of me and asked if I was okay and gave me a minute to recover before putting the condom back on and trying again.

    My first time with my current boyfriend was a different story. We used to work together and I wouldn't do anything while we worked together. The most we did was kiss. Anyway, we were messing around on the sofa, and then he took me to bed. He'd been in love with me for months and we'd been drinking to try and relax. He was so nervous about impressing me and the effect of the alcohol he struggled to get an erection for long and he got frustrated with himself. I told him it didn't matter and we'd try again later. In the morning after sleeping next to each other we tried again with more successful results. It's quite sweet really.

  • My first time was with my current bf and kind of funny, cause haha, we had spent the night/day before together fooling around and stuff and basically he came 4 times, so when we decided to have sex the next night, he had trouble keeping his erection (not a problem anymore now, no matter how many times we do it hurray!). He was really frustrated by it, but I just thought it was cute and after lots of trying, we did have sex. He didn't come the first time and it was really painful for me, but it was still really precious to me and I have never regret it :)

    I don't think first times are ever "good" in the sense that they feel good, but it was the first time for both of us and I was really happy to experience this first with him.

  • I do regret mine, yes.
    I won't go into details, but it wasn't good, neither of us "finished"... then he dumped me the next day with a text message saying I was too easy.
    Who wouldn't regret that?
    Live and learn, I suppose.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Dude, if you think that was bad, I got used by a crazy girl. Went to my usual Friday's karaoke at the bar, this time my co-worker came and she doesn't ever stop bothering me. I told her to stop touching me or hugging me because she's just awkward and I don't like her, but when I got a little bit wasted, she put her hands on my inner groin which is annoying.

    Well, I don't know how the hell I ended up getting so horny to do her, but she came to my place and started kissing my neck. After the lame foreplay, I ended up doing all the work, she couldn't do SHIT. I had to lift her up even though she was on top, I had to tell her how to fuck. Worst of all, at the end where I don't even have an orgasm (but she did after 2 minutes), she tells me "I love you" and I'm thinking (why can't her boyfriend just get rid of her for me).

    Long story short, she fell in love with me after terrible sex and I quit my job so that she could stop harassing me.

    • Damn. Usually men don't last long enough their first time, but you had the stamina. It just sucks you had an awful partner. I just went home feeling down, but you had to quit your job. We have to watch out for those crazy girls.

    • Tell me about it brother.

    • Woohoo!

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  • Mine was worse than you but Im an adventurous guy and it doesn't bother me so much. I have to say one thing... frenulum torn off and it was Christmas! Immedietly to the emergencies of the nearest hospital with my underpants full of blood.

    • I just googled the frenulum. Damn, that must have hurt lol. I had read something of similar pain level to this. Some male p*rnstar was laying down on the couch and his dick missed her pussy as she was coming down to ride. So her large booty cheeks brought the dick down, curving it real bad until something snapped. He had to have surgery performed to get his dick rebuilt.

    • You can imagine something similar about me. It was dark and we were at cow girl. Then I heard and felt a snap and realised what happened ''Get off me quick!'' I said. No matter how much it hurt me I could only laugh seeing her, following me, with the one hand holding her hair and the other one spraying the blood on the carpet. ''Im so sorry sweetheart! I didn't want to hurt!'' Best Christmas of my life.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • My first time was bland. Not horrible and not amazing, just bland.

  • Who DOES like their first time? ... no one... that's who... O. o

  • Yes in most aspects I regret it but it's in the past and I have moved on from it as it was a very long time ago

  • Horrible first time. :( regret it and a lot of the things it led to.

  • Yours was worse than mine. You like to say shit a lot.

    • I even conjugated it lol. I guess I got caught up in the feels; I don't usually use vulgar language much.

  • No, it wasn't as great as I expected, but it sure felt good to get the monkey off my back.

  • Ha I don't know I thought this was so funny. But I feel bad for you.

  • No, it wasn't that good, but I don't regret it.

  • No regrets. It was about as good as a girl's first time could be.

  • My first time was pretty fantastic!

  • LOL that sucks dude. thats really funny though. my first time was pretty good

  • i regret it big time !!!

  • Well that wasn't sex it was just a blow job.. I haven't done it yet, my ex wanted it but I wasn't ready, futhest we got was a handjob

    • Guess we both were just jobs being performed. She, um, actually denied me her pussy because according to her its wrong to consummate if we're not in a relationship. May have been just a blowjob, some people still consider it a sexual event, some don't; but I can't just ignore it like it ever happened.

    • Of course you can't ignore it, I just mean that your first time of having sex could/can still be good.. I agree with her, I don't want intercourse with someone if we're not in a relationship, especially for my first time

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