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Would you ever put a guy in a chastity belt?

My Girlfriend has just emailed me a pic of a chastity belt. She says she wants one to make sure I stay faithful. She said she would love to be the only one with a key and for her to be in complete control of when I come. She is just playing around, I think, but made me wonder if girls would enjoy doing this to a guy? And guys would you wear one?
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I emailed her back and "asked why, you don't trust me?" Her words were Of course I trust you silly, but once you have this on you will BE MINE to do what I want with(her emphasis) I emailed her back and said good luck trying to get that thing on me.lol..
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She may sound controlling but has never been insecure with me or got jealous. So no worries there ppl. Thanks for the concern however.
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  • It's not necessarily controlling, although it is a bit kinkier than the vanilla crowd would like to delve into. I bought one last week and gave my girlfriend the keys - it keeps you from masturbating for sure. We are both virgins (we mess around, but no penetrative sex), so she has *absolutely* no issue with insecurity in that matter, in fact, she doesn't quite understand the pull (she is much more vanilla). She does like the fact that with no other sexual pleasure, she is much more erotic to me. The first lock was for three days, and she had me vocal in bed (hadn't happened before). She just sent me a teasing text, a first for her. I think it may bring her out of her closet as she doesn't feel pressured to mess around, or to "have to" reciprocate whenever I pleasure her.

    For me, its erotic to be locked for her pleasure only, and not my own. Which guy here will not admit they masturbate regularly? My girl can't bring herself to orgasm on her own, so she only has orgasms when I am around - this just levels the playing field.

    I would say its probably not for everyone, but the spirit in which your girl said it, she is not insecure, just interested in a good experiment. It can be fun with the right people, just remember how a good long sex session is...imagine having the anticipation build all week! Best of luck,

    Joseph

  • My girl wants to put me in one not so I stay faithful, but so I cannot touch myself while she pleasures herself in front of me. She says most do not let you get an erection, so she wants one custom made where I can get a full hard on but cannot touch it or cum. She says that would drive her crazy that I cannot do anything and have to pleasure her.

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  • never thiough to o fit to be honst..

    but in a way I could see the fun side of it...hm...why not

    as for using it to be faithful...that should not be necessary and in that respect I don't like the idea..

    as a kinky addition to bedroom activities I would say go for it..

    • If more womens would be like you, world would be better.

  • Heck no I would not enjoy this one bit. Call me crazy but I'm not this insecure and would never need to resort to this. If it's sheerly a kinky thing then to each their own but in my world no it does not fly.

  • I keep my husband locked in a chastity device most of the time. He loves it and he's very affectionate and as an added benefit I have an amazingly clean house.

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  • haha yes !

    lol joking of course.

    sounds like a good idea in theory

    but I would like to be able to trust my man.

    if I had to put him in those belts,

    then why be in that relationship ?

  • Sounds like an awkward euphemism for "I don't trust you that you won't f*** around so the balls go in the purse now kthx".

    • I don't think so. We have a good relationship and I know she trusts me. She is just a little on the wild side and has suggested all sorts of things. She did say it in a fun way. I just wondered if their were girls that liked the idea of having the control so the guy had to go to her for sex even to masturbate. Wild idea I know, that why I love my baby so much...Keeps me on my toes :)

  • Back in Victorian England chastity belts were put on little boys so they couldn't masturbate since back then sex was almost illegal.

    These days it's more used as a kinky play toy. While it may be a sign of distrust since she mention being faithful, it may also be a hint that she wants to try more kinky things in the bedroom.

  • A girl that enjoys doing this to a man is called a Dominatrix. Look it up and start reading up on the BDSM lifestyle. You might be entering yourself into uncharted territory. Unless you'd enjoy being an owned little boy... get out now.

  • im waiting till marriage and if my girlfriend asked me to wear it. I would probably say don't you trust me as well and see what she says. but would do anything to not wear it

  • Of course. YOU !

  • Get it

  • whatever the reason don't do it! if its for faithfulness then maybe she should too have a chastity belt too...and if its for kinky side I'm afraid that she may like (turn her on or something)the chastity thing and deny you release and carry on for as long as she likes leaving you in that devilish thing which will make you putty in her hands..i've heard many stories that began like ur story and ended badly (leading to cheating from the females part too since now you are not "man" enough) so I advise you not to do this..sorry if my words are offensive or something but I just wanted to open ur eyes to this...good luck

  • It can be a fun addition to foreplay especially if release is really uncertain. Getting a woman off with oral and then having her roll over and fall asleep while you're still locked up can be pretty erotic; frustrating but erotic.

  • To all women please, lock your boyfriend in chastity more often! :D and lock me too

  • Sorry I don't speak in engliss very well.

    So I'm 17 years old an my girlfriend is 16. She bought a chastity belt for me.
    We are virgin. I hasn't seen my girlfriend nude, and she hasn't seen me nude, yet.
    But when i get this thing, she said: Go to the bathroom, put on, and bring back the key. I said, I never used chastity belt, so I'm not sure how can i put on, but I'll try.
    I had an idea. I undress, and she will put chastity belt on. She asked me: Are you sure? I replied: Yes, I am. I thankful I have a girlfriend.
    I undressed, and she locked me. I said thank you for this.
    This is a good thing, because, I can't masturbate, so I have a lot of sperm. And my girlfriend allow me, to lick her pussy. My girlfriend loves me, so I cum a lot.
    My girlfriend wants to be hers, and she can give me pleasures, not myself. But she want to give time o my penis to regenerations.

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