Is there a such thing as being,"too tight"?

[Anonymous]

I'm Seventeen and I'm a virgin. I've been doing kegel exercises before I even knew what its for. When I found out that it tightens your vagina, I started doing it even more. I do not wear tampons. And one finger doesn't fit in comfortably. Im not sexually active or haven't been in any way ever. I don't ever masturbate penetrativly (I know.. not a word.) I don't finger myself. But later on when I do get a boyfriend, would all sexual activities be hard because I'm that tight? Is it possible to be too tight?

[UnusualWoman]

Well as another woman I can say I don't think you'll have a problem. Once I became sexually active I learned that I was way tighter than most girls. So it was a bit hard for my friends to relate to the experience I had when It came to losing my virginity. If your ever getting intimate with a man (or woman, if you're into that) just make sure he knows you're a virgin. As long as you have lots of foreplay, so you get really wet, then it should be just fine. Now it may hurt you a lot though, it depends through, cause everyone's body is different. The only way you could be overly tight, to the point where it would hurt a guy, is if you were really dry down there, in which case he shouldn't be trying anything anyways lol.

[Asker]

It's nice that you can relate to my situation. Thank you. Did it hurt like horribly your first time. Like did he have to try couple of times to finally get in?

[UnusualWoman]

It's not possible for a penis to get stuck inside of you dear lol, that I can promise you. And as long as you have lube, no matter the size it should slide in pretty easily. But I don't want to scare you or anything, cause I was a bit of an odd case, as I had more than one hymen. But honestly I was in a lot of pain, and actually cried my first time. I cried the first time I used a tampon as well. But don't think it will be the same way for you ! Everyone is different, and all of my girlfriends have told me they didn't have any pain in losing their virginity. The worst thing you could do is to tense up as that would make things even tighter, you'd just need to take a deep breath and relax, and I'm sure you'll be fine dear! I'm glad I could help :)

[bakegyllenhaal]

Well... as long as you're sufficiently lubricated, naturally or otherwise, it should be okay. It would be a good idea to go slow and make sure that he uses his fingers first. You mentioned that it feels uncomfortable when you've attempted to finger yourself, and that is quite common for virgins. It takes practice, and you need to be comfortable doing that to yourself. Also, it will feel different when a guy fingers you because his fingers will be on a different angle. It's much easier for a partner to penetrate a girl with their fingers because of the angle involved. Many of my friends who I have spoken to have the same problem as you, but they always say that guys are able to do it differently and it works better.

[Asker]

Thanks. Your advice helps a lot.

[loba96]

The vagina is a muscle that will obviously stretch when the time comes. You can't be too tight but if you ask any guy they would say the tighter the better. It just feels nicer lol

[NobleKos]

I myself am a virgin too, but the more worrying problem might be if you want to have kids later on. the likely of having a C-section would probably be higher in your case. as for the sex, I would say lay off the exercises because it may loosen a bit if you do, and there maybe a possibility of being too tight unless you find a smaller than average penis. I may not be so sure on this but if you tear your hymen (popping your cherry), it may widen your vaginal cavity slightly.

[Dragan]

You do not need to be afraid. The vagina is elastic.

[rthomas43]

Too tight?
No such thing.

[Anonymous]

never encountered that before, there is always room