My boyfriend makes fun of my small boobs?

[Anonymous]

I wear a 34B,i'm 5'2 and 120 lbs,so I guess I do have small boobs,but I always sort of liked them,cause idk,to be honest,i just liked them.But my boyfriend always makes fun of them.I've asked him not to cause I think it's kind of rude,even if he is "joking" or so he says he is.He's even makes comments about them in front of his friends and they all just laugh and keep the jokes going.I try not to act insecure about it and have talked to him about it millions of times,but it hurts my feelings,and sometimes he goes to far.What should I do?

[NorthlandSierra]

Sweetie, my first thought was the same as some others here about a payback crack (in front of his friends) that if he had a bigger penis, he could probably get a larger breasted woman to let him touch hers. But then, calmer heads prevailed. You said that this has been brought to his attention "millions of times." That, frankly, changes the deal. He is rude, thoughtless, and most importantly, cruel. There's no point in getting involved in a p*ssing contest with a big D**K. He's more equipped to win. Dump the chump. If you decide that you really want to give him one more chance, make it clear that another crack will be his last. Perhaps he'll be more attracted to your butt as he watches it walking out of his life.

[Anonymous]

I was in the same boat as you. Same weight, height, and bra size. Then I asked my boyfriend honestly if he found me attractive or if I needed to gain more weight so my breasts and ass would be bigger. Well, he suggested I try to eat more. It broke my heart, but I can say I suppose I feel better about myself now that I am curvier. But.. he never made fun of me. So if I were you, I would get rid of whoever you are with. You don't deserve that kind of treatment, even if he is "joking." There are better men out there and you deserve one.

[truejbig]

first of all, I'm nearly the same body type! (34B, 5'4", and 123lbs) and I love my boobs, I honestly think their proportional to my size(and not THAT small), and yours too! anyways, I would tell him to quit it because it hurts your feelings as well as its immature and he sounds like an asshole, and if he doesn't like them and is going to insult them he can't touch them or see them anymore! good luck, and we have great body shapes! no worries!

[John-Bee]

That's a terrible thing to say. Not even jokingly.

He is being rude & if doesn't have enough respect for you or your feelings then I would seriously reconsider this relationship.

If you have not told him to stop then I suggest that you do so & tell him then no more for him go find a girl with the size that he likes.

It's good that you like them and personally I think that they are a great size.

When he makes fun of you in front of friends say something like I don't think so I think they are spectacular who wants to have a feel to see. Then go on to say something about how small he is and see how he likes it!

[AcEMasTeR]

god you sound perfect

your too good for someone who talks to you like that at all.

[Tamikaze]

That is awful and that is B.S. There is no way around it, you need to talk to him in private and tell him it isn't funny, it hurts your feelings and you would like him to stop. If he continues to do it, you should stop hanging out with him and answering his calls/texts for a bit. This isn't about the size of your breasts, its about respect and sensitivity How would he like you making fun of his body or his penis?

[dave216]

You sound quite nicely built too me. If anything, your boobs are a bit large for my taste, but tastes vary. If you have explained your feelings too him and asked him to stop behaving this way but he continues, then it is an indication that you are not too important too him. I suggest you get rid of him and make yourself available too the other few billion males on earth. You will be much happier with a guy that accepts you as you are and cares about your feelings.

[scnbabe89]

your boyfriend is stupid, I work at Victoria secret and that's the size that most woman are he should not be saying things like this to you that are going to hurt you. I actually think you should dump him because its not worth being with a guy that makes you feel bad about yourself he should love your body and you for who you are! You are too good for him!

[kairon156]

I hope I don't get blocked for this but I like Bcup boobs. personally large A cup to small C cup are very beautiful in my eyes. your measurements sound perfect for "my type of girl" than again I'm 5'1 so girls around my height who aren't under age are kinda hard to find lol.

[jasper]

He doesn't sound like a very generous boyfriend. That's just mean and definitely not right. I'm pretty sure he wouldn't like it if you cracked small penis jokes about him in front of his friends.

And 34B isn't really small. I'm just now starting to fit into a 34A.

[here4you]

drop ur boyfriend and ur friend

if they don't respect you for who you are then they aren't worth ur time

[AcEMasTeR]

well if you really like him be straight up with him and tell him it hurts you and to stop

hope I helped

[kyleph]

Think about this. Do you want a guy in your life that doesn't care about your feelings? It might be your boobs now, but it could be something else down the road. If you can't get him to stop and listen to you, then he really might not care about your feelings that much.

[taylorswiftrulz]

that is really really terrible! so you told him that it was mean and he didn't stop? I obviously don't know what type of guy he is, but some of them just tease you and don't get what it does to u. If that's the case, I would just try to ignore it... if he's not, and he hasn't been listening to you, well... how much do you like/luv him? because if he hurts your feelings and you don't care that much, then he's so not worth it! good luck!

[Anonymous]

do the same but joke about his penis say it is small in front of friends and see how he likes it

[Anonymous]

If you talked to him "millions of times" about it, he obviously doesn't care so you should probably get rid of him. Find someone who will appreciate you.