Insecure about my penis (curve). Please help?

[Anonymous]

This is the first website I`ve seen where most people are honest about their answers and want to help others in need of help or have questions. I`ve been wondering time and time again about how my sex life would be if the moment is there that my gf (still single atm) would want to have sex. I`m having trouble/doubts with the shape of my penis. My penis is 8Inches when erected which I should be happy about when reading other people answers in similar Questions, but my problem doesn`t lie within the size of it but more in the shape. My penis is curved downwards (not extremely), a bit like a banana but then a bit more straightened out. I keep thinking that my gf would be disgusted by it or having second thoughts about us then because of this. One thing I`m also concerned about which I`m not sure has anything to do with the curve is that my penis isn`t as sensitive as others I think and that I can`t climax. I have no idea if I should go to a doctor for these things and having to ask the same questions which makes me very uncomfortable telling that to a stranger in person. Does anyone have similar problems like I have or has anyone experienced it themselves in a relationship with your loved one? Please help.

[oh_baby_please]

I doubt that it would really be an issue. Any woman that would have an issue with you because of this, isn't someone that's worth your time! If you are in a relationship with someone that you care about and vice versa, it's about pleasing each other and accepting each other (flaws and all!). In my early 20s, I dated a guy with a curve (different than what you described), but it was not an issue in the least!! Just the opposite! Btw, not being overly sensitive could make you a superstar, lol! If it takes you longer to climax, that gives you more time to make sure that she does... and if you can make sure she does several times... superstar!!!

[Asker]

Thank you very much for helping me. I was worried if a curve could be troubling when having sex and maybe hurt one of us while doing it, but it does take away a lot of doubts that having a curve shouldn`t be an issue during sex and that it`s the opposite of being a problem for my sexlife makes me kind of confused, but I guess I would need to look that up then :) I didn`t think that being less sensitive would be a win, I was only thinking that some nerves in my penis were damaged while I was growing because of the curve and that it might become a problem later on,. I`m very gratefull for your answer and telling me that the -points can be +points, I`ll just have to wait and see if the sensitivity thing doesn`t get worse but right now I`m relieved and happy :) ty so much!

[oh_baby_please]

I can almost guarantee that the curve won't hurt her... pretty sure not you either. My current "whatever we are" isn't overly sensitive either. Trust me... he has turned that into a positive. We have NEVER gone less than an hour and most times longer than that! He never fails to deliver at least 3 orgasms for me. I don't have to worry about moving a certain way 2 or 3 times and having him be all done :-). Once you have someone that you connect with on that level, just relax and focus on her and her reactions... you'll be surprised at how they just might affect you! I know mine gets off by knowing what he does to me!! We actually feed off each other... me watching him watching me is a huge turn on! Don't stress over this!!

[Niallsmyfave]

Don't be insecure about that! They won't focus on that if your 8 inches. I personally wouldn't mind a guy with a curved penis. You might probably feel better than a straight penis :) so don't sweat. If she doesn't like it she's missing out!

[jpinka]

Its normal n its no big deal. I can c it may be awkward for but dont worry about it.

[3gmoney3]

The curve is probably not going to be an issue if it's how you described it. In fact, as you get more experience, you'll probably notice that certain positions work well with it if it can stimulate the G spot.

As for your sensitivity, don't worry too much about it now. If it comes up when you do have a girlfriend, you can figure out ways to deal with it then, but honestly, the more you worry, the more likely you are to have issues. When you do have sex, just relax and enjoy yourself.

[Asker]

@3gmoney3 , @Niallsmyfave , @truthbeknown & @oh_baby_please. Thank you so much for your help, this is my first day that I joined this site which has so many people helping others out with their questions and problems. I`ve been worrying for so long with this and you really helped me out, everyone who are helping others here are awesome :D

[truthbeknown]

That curve will probably give you biological advantage to hit her g-spot and be the best lover she ever had! BTW, it have a slight curve to the left. Not a problem.

[Anonymous]

From experiences guys that have had any sort of curve to their penis has been the best for me in bed. They can hit just the right spots.