Hairy pussy = more pain?

I have only had two sexual experiences so far, with two completely different guys and of different width and shape. I'm in my 20s. The first time hurt a lot and I bled. The second time didn't hurt as much but he seemed to be struggling to enter me and I think by the end he wasn't able to. I have a hairy vagina. Someone told me that having an unshaven vagina actually makes it more painful. I find it ludicrous. Lemme know what you all think. Thanks.
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  • actually i think its not depending whether ur hairy or shaved. ur feeling pain just cuz its first time for u , by time and the more u have sex the more u will get adapted and ur vaginal muscles relax. i personally had this problem at first , but i get used to it and my vagina got wider in time. also the same thing for anal. nowadays i can get three dicks at same time at the two holes without problems. about the hair , i am shaved and i absolutely like shaved more than hairy ones cuz shaved will allow him for more visual , and maybe rubbing or licking or any other things and it also looks more sexy. by the way i am an escort so i am expert in sex

    • I call bullshit on your entire profile and this whole "escort" crap you are preaching. You are using a picture of Juelz Ventura while claiming to be an "escort" and expressing sexual relations in terms of the "career" which any escort would know is the absolute worst thing to do (and their only rule to boot).

  • Not true. It's going to hurt the first time (or first few) until you stretch and get used to it. Ask your partners to be more gentle until your body becomes accustomed to the new experience. I suppose if it's a shave that leaves shave burn then yes, but I've always been shaved during and it's never been a problem.

  • nonsense, public hair protects skin during intercourse from scratches on labia

Most Helpful Guys

  • I don't see how there could possibly be any correlation between those two things. I had a girlfriend who claimed that she experienced more pain after sex when she shaved because the hair seemed to act as something of a buffer for the friction, but there's no reason that having hair should cause more pain during insertion itself. You're probably just going to need to take things very slowly and use a lot of lube until your body gets used to it.

  • "Someone told me that having an unshaven vagina actually makes it more painful. I find it ludicrous."

    That's completely ridiculous. Whoever told you that should have their mouth sewn shut.

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  • Personally, I don't believe that. The first time is always going to be painful but over time your vagina should begin to adapt slightly making the same penis easier to fit in. Same as nngirlygirl, if it's a problem, I recommend lube xx

  • I wax my goods and still experience pain so i would say hair doesn't matter. however i've learned that at first it can be painful for someone as sex is something new for the body. use lube and it will help as well as taking it slow at first.

  • That is 100% untrue.

  • i have found that hairless is better because foreplay is easier thanks to increased visibility and the rubbing of
    the greater clit area feels so. much. nicer.

  • Probably because it makes it harder for him to find it, and he's sticking it in random holes. lol

  • The only way I can see that applying is if the hair was being pulled which would hurt but other than that I really can't see that making a difference.