How to tell him he might be too small?

Question

My bf is below average in length and girth. I'm trying positions and not stressing about it but it's starting to bother him. He is asking me if he is too small for me? SOS!!!

kheserthorpe · Accepted Answer

When you say trying positions, like what's happening, are you unable to keep him in, or it just doesn't feel good, or what?

Generally any position where your knees are together will be tighter. And any position where your knees are nearer your chest will allow more depth. So probably missionary with your feet over his shoulders (or held in the air, together) or doggy with your upper body lying on the bed are your best bets.

Try to have him thrust on an angle such that he's rubbing against your g-spot. That's the main physical advantage to shorter ones. He's not going to hit some of the 'deep spots'.

Finally anal sex might make you both feel like he's big and you're being filled up. Combined with clit stimulation obviously.

stevie123 · Accepted Answer

Try cock rings and ticklers. Just tell him you are difficult to cum, and need extra attention. Vibrators work too. If you tell him he is too small, he will be dismayed.

BlacklightShade · Accepted Answer

Tell him if:
- You never want to have intercourse with him again
- Never want him to have an erection in front of any woman
- You don't want him to ever have sexual self confidence
- You only want oral sex from him

Is it too small for you? I guess so and that's why you're asking here?

Orion1084 · Answer

How small is "small"? There is a big (pardon the pun) difference between, say, 4 inches, and 1 inch.

Also, what is the nature of the problem? Is he not able to pleasure you, on account of his size, or is it more of a self confidence issue on his part?

isaynononono · Answer

can he make you cum?

CommieDearest · Answer

LIE. Do not tell him he's too small.

MaxVolume · Answer

How small is too small for you? Another question is what is your size? He can have a normal size and you be super fat and he can only get 2 inches in there cause everything's in the way, lol. I think you need to look into new positions

GoldCobra · Answer

Just tell him. He won't like it but i don't think he's going to break up with you over it. Would you rather fake it and pretend to have an orgasm or would you rather just be realistic with him? You would be living a lie if you don't tell him what you think.

Anonymous · Answer

I’m I little below average myself so believe me he already knows that is too small. Just be honest with him about it and both of you work together to find a position that works best for you. Maybe teach him to give you oral really good.

Anonymous · Answer

As a man with a below average length and girth myself, I would say just end it with him. You're going to stray eventually if you don't. I'm afraid I can't help you with positions, since I've never had sex due to my size.