Would my penis be too large for a virgin?

[Anonymous]

I’m 7” inches max when real hard and around 5.5 inches in circumference. I get worried my penis will hurt a virgin and get discouraged to have sex. I know most people lose their virginity to someone in high school so lets me be honest here, most kids in school aren’t as developed as the adults out there (I know I wasn’t up until senior year) so it most likely won’t be as painful having sex for the first time with a 4 to 5 inch dick. Would I have to take it slow on the girl or can I jump right into action? If any of you have advice for this id really appreciate it. Thank you.

[CKtravel]

Yes, it will be, if she's unprepared. In fact almost ANY penis size is too big for a girl that's unprepared. So you might as well go down really slow on her, but only after fingering her a bit (gently too, to get her relaxed and stretched to accommodate you). In fact you might connect this with a bit of teasing too: enter into her painfully slow (like at a speed of a 10th of an inch per second) and continue this until she starts pleading you to go faster (but not sooner than that - resist thrusts of her pelvis and requests made in normal voice too). The instant she starts pleading/begging you you'll know that she's dripping, after which you can start moving in really fast in an instant. She might not have enough time to complain before exploding ;)

[Asker]

wow man i dont know how good of advice this is but ill take it. Thanks bro!

[devius84]

My wife took it well when we first had sex, she was a virgin. I couldn't go all the way in but she fit a little more then half when we were done that time. I am 10 1/4 inches. It still hurts for her and weve been together for 5 years.

[Anonymous]

Of course, take it slow with the girl if she's a virgin or not used to large penises. But also, penises were made to fit into girls. Think about it- a baby can come out of there, your 7" 5.5" dick can get in there. It's like magic! But just be gentle, respectful, slow, listen to her, it may take awhile, but be patient.

[Asker]

I know my size is considered average so I know it can fit, just thinking maybe not at first. Since virgins never been penetrated (assuming no history use of sex toys or deep fingering) they’re going to have very small vaginas. Im also a little concerned she might get scared cuz it won’t fit. I don’t know, I’m a bit paranoid. Thanks for your comment.

[Opinion Owner]

As long as you listen to her, you're good. Let her worry about 'accommodating' you, just don't stab her with it lol

[Asker]

"stab her with it" i lol'd XD

[Encolpius]

@QA... Dude... 7 inches is NOT average by any stretch of the imagination. It's above average.

[Encolpius]

@QA If you saw me, you'd spend the rest of your life being thankful for what you have.

[Asker]

a little above, not like crazy you know.

[Encolpius]

It's 1.5 to 2 inches bigger than average. That's not just a little.

[Asker]

I’m sorry dude and i am thankful at times. I’d say anything over 7 IS above average. You also have to take in part that length isn’t everything. 5.5 in circumference isn’t that big, its actually pretty average for a dude. If you would take a look at me you wouldn’t think im big by any means.

[Encolpius]

You're a hell of a lot bigger than me, I'll say that. I would kill to be just average in both measurements.

[Asker]

if you're really above avarage you would be able to grasp your hard on with both hands and still have a bit left to cover. I dont have anything left to cover dude.

[Encolpius]

I never said I was above average haha. I'm only 4" in both measurements... sad, I know.

[Encolpius]

Oh, you mean you. It's still big, dude.

[Encolpius]

But you should just relax and give her at least one or more orgasm before you try sex. IMO.

[Asker]

Gotta work with what you got bro. If girls are true to their word then you shouldn't have to worry you have a size like that.

[Encolpius]

My girlfriend is a virgin (like me), but I still worry sometimes.

[Asker]

I don’t blame you. Dont judge me for this but i worry for myself as well. Im a virgin and very self-conscious about my equipment.

[Encolpius]

I won't judge you. Our culture is what does it to all of us.

[Asker]

I believe so and it sucks. This site also doesn't help with that.

[Encolpius]

Yeah haha. For every 20 women who say it doesn't matter, there's that one girl who wants a big one, and the insecurities come back in force.

[Asker]

All it takes is one person to say something about it and boom, you start to feel underappreciated as a man.

[MsViolet]

Go in about halfway and after she's used to it ask if you can go deeper.

[Asker]

Thats what im thinking ill have to do. thanks

[Anonymous]

MMMMM, what a great length!

[Asker]

That's not really what it's about. More like if I'll hurt if I don't do it right. Obviously she won't know either cuz she's new to the experience.