How to apologize to a girl for accidentally looking at her boobs to much?

[Anonymous]

I work in a kitchen and there are bartenders and waitresses. This girl has huge boobs and I accidentally and I know myself how stupid but it was automatic without thinking about it, she looked turned off and just quicken the conversation and left the area. This is of course a co worker and I better watch what I say. I am not that type of guy who stares at boobs and butts but I REALLY HATE it when I do.

[LezPlayground]

You sound like a reasonable guy who wouldn't do it again. You probably shouldn't apologize because that will make her even more self conscious (and girls can be very self conscious, especially if they're pretty). I say the best thing to do is to look her in the eye from now on and remain professional. Over time if she seems more relaxed you can probably get to know her better. Most men are usually scared to approach these women because they don't want to do/say the wrong thing. This puts you at an advantage because if you do get to know her she might start to like you and who knows. But I would just take it one step at a time. Hope this helps!

[NorthlandSierra]

You could always just tell her that you sensed that you might have made her uncomfortable the other day, and if that was the case, you want to apologize. Don't be specific about what you might have said or done but you feel badly if you had made her feel that way. Then, LOOK INTO HER EYES FROM NOW ON! You've already gotten your eyeful so don't cross that line again.

[ivarei]

is she wearing a low-cut shirt? because if she is, then she's asking for it.

if she's not wearing a low-cut top, then you just need to stop looking at her chest. don't apologize because that would make it more awkward. just change your behavior.

[Asker]

Yes, it is low cut

[ivarei]

Someone with a large chest can't expect that people won't look down, it's inevitable. but if you're having a conversation and you're gawking at her boobs, then yeah, she might get annoyed.

[Littletad]

Tell her your sorry, and be apologetic. Make it sincere. And from them on, stop doing it.

[Anonymous]

don't apologize, just stop doing it