To older experienced guys, does having sex with a virgin bother you?

I would just imagine that if you're used to having sex you'd want a sexual partner that has some experience and knows what she is doing. Would the blood gross you out afterwards? You'd have to be attracted to this girl, would it gross you out more if she were younger? Would you be ok with it if she were your age?
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  • First off, let me just say I'd never have sex with someone under 18 in any circumstances. I've had opportunities to, and I know people who have, but for legal reasons I would not have sex with a minor, ever. So it would bother me (not gross me out, but bother me) if I was into a girl and later found out she wasn't 18 yet because it would have to be over for us.

    Anyway, a couple things. One is that a friend of mine's girlfriend was a virgin before she met him and she lost it to him, and it's pretty much a consensus among our friends that the situation is pretty awesome for him. He got the opportunity to teach her and she was open and willing, so it worked out great.

    I think the biggest "fear" about having sex with a virgin is that we don't know how you'll react. We know it can be painful, and that it's a new experience for you. We don't want it to be bad for you the first time because you'll remember your first forever. So there's some pressure to perform there, particularly because we know you don't have any experience and that it's going to be up to us to make it a good time.

    As far as wanting a virgin vs. Wanting someone experienced, it's my opinion that as long as she's into it, it isn't a problem. There are girls who sleep with a lot of guys who are terrible in bed, and then there's girls like my aforementioned friend's girlfriend who were virgins but ended up being fantastic lovers. If you're asking because you're a virgin and insecure about it, don't worry. Let him know your situation, and if he's right for you he'll want to please you. If he gets sketched out, well he wasn't the right guy for you.

  • Yea, I wouldn't have sex with a girl below the age of consent, which is 18 in California. Although most of my encounters are with girls older than I am or the same age, I wouldn't mind doing it with someone younger. I think 16 is a bit too young, although nothing would gross me out.

    About the blood, really I have no problem seeing blood in any situation. With a virgin, the guy has to be gentle and know how to f*** well. Also, it's different from girl to girl, some girls don't bleed. The guy also has to interact with the girl, she has to be telling him what is going on. I've so far only seen small bleeding, noting serious. Some girls already have thy hymen break without ever having sex.



    My current girlfriend was a virgin before we made love, she's 18, and I would just teach her stuff. Besides, in most sexual encounters, I care more about giving the woman the time of her life, although she better gives me a good one, too! ^ ^

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  • Younger girls are SO hot, because you all have these crazy, tight asses and healthy figures. To answer your question, I would not be "grossed out" by blood, but then again, I would only have sex with a girl that I knew was over 21. I believe girls that are under that age range should hunt within their flock, if you know what I mean. Still, I've seen some chicks at 19 or 20, that had what I call "red hot asses". Huh, would I love to spank them.

  • well I wouldn't break the law. But I have no problem having sex and teaching a younger girl the tricks . Blood is fine . I will just have to be careful so she enjoys it. Experience will come with time.

  • Hmm being experienced it wouldn't bother me either way. Plus not all virgins bleed its all according. But Blood doesn't bother me. I wouldn't mind dating a virgin at all just that I would have to be patient if she wants that type of relationship but not many virgins are around it seems. But a experienced girl may keep up with my desires but it is fun to teach a girl to please a guy.