Women, what is your view on erections on nude beaches?

I think it is unfair for a guy that he can't have an erection on the beach, because you do not see if the woman is excited or not! To me, it is just unfair for a guy getting the third degree for having an erection on a nude beach. Of course, as long as he is not flaunting it or masturbating, what is the big deal? I think it is how a person reacts to the erection. They all assume the guy is a pervert! It would be really nice to kick a woman off the beach if we were to see that she was turned on! Does any woman agree with me? Now of course, you can say well maybe you feel he is on you, a pervert, but if every guy was to have an erection on the beach, I don't think women would think that way! I have not gone on a nude beach, so I don't know and I can't say that I would have an erection, just asking because I don't see the harm in it. Then I hear that well the kids should not see that! If you have kids there, you should understand that at some point, they may see an erection there anyway sometime somewhere. It is ok to have your kids see a naked guy on a beach, but not an erection? That doesn't make sense to me. I don't believe kids should be on a nude beach period or them even being nude on the beach! They don't belong there! Women and guys agree welcome to reply!

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This discussion is about how woman especially and men feel about an erection on the beach. If you saw a guy with one, would it cross your mind that he might also be a first time nudist? Do you then cut the guy some slack for that?

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Most Helpful Girl

  • Well I thought nudist beaches,and the concept of being a nudist,is for people who thought being naked was natural (well,it is,but you know what I mean) and were all about being more comfortable with no clothes on,quite matter-of-fact about it.I mean familys do it and such.

    So I guess if your going there and looking at it sexually and getting an erection you might offend people who don't think they are doing it to be sexual,you know what I mean?

    I have never been on a nudist beach,cant say it appeals in the slightest and it wouldn't turn me on,but the whole concept is odd to me anyway because you are blatently going to get guys getting erections...

    I have no logical response to this because I am not a nudist...generally lol,but with the kids you have the whole arguement that kids are inncocent and nakedness is only natural and we shouldnt make a big thing of it or ruin their innocence by taking making a thing out of it...but I wouldn't feel comfortable with my child going to one,because there is such a thing as too much exposure,it is not an everyday thing to see a lot of people all in one place naked...so...

    <shrugs

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-tgARNMBh2U

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    • You don’t understand the concept of the ‘Clothing Optional’ or what the media calls ‘NUDE BEACHES’ like there was something wrong with it!!
      It isn’t about going to see naked people, and naked children (pedophiles don’t go there!!! There are too many parents, and other watching for that!!)
      Nude beaches, and Nudism, is a way that someone feels, and lives. It isn’t like you go to the grocery store with your, uh, parts, showing!!! It’s just a comfort level with being naturally naked, like we were born!
      I went to some of those beaches, in California, accidentally going to a mostly ‘gay’ one, without knowing!! Nobody tried to do anything, and there weren’t erections, anywhere!! I met some really cool, ‘NORMAL’ guys, that just happened to like boys, but not me, and my friend that came with me.
      They seemed to know we got the wrong beach, and laughed, and we talked, and drank a few good micro-brew beers, but nobody ever tried to do anything, or act inappropriately.

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    • Vyking's last comment is right on target. These places are for those who are comfortable with themselves and it is a very rare occasion that you would see some guy with his dinky doo pointing out or up!

What Girls Said 12

  • If it was one of my liking, I would walk over get down and suck it for him

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  • I wouldn't mind at all. I'd be flattered as long as you weren't shoving it in my face or trying to satisfy yourself like you said. It's a nude beach and anyone who goes there should be open minded and have certain expectations of what may occur.

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    • ITS TRUE ERECTIONS HAPPEN AT NUDE BEACHES,SO WHEN I GET ONE I JERK OFF THEN ITS GONE, IF IT COMES BACK I GO IN THE WATER IF IT STAYS ERECT I JERK IT OFF AGAIN.

    • I regularly go onto nudist beaches and always get an erection, but it's natural, not sexual. I've never had a problem with it , in fact most women quite like to see it and usually come over for a better look and a chat. Stef

  • The type of person who is gonna get offended by a hard d*** on a nudist beach...probably shouldn't be there in the first damn place

    - not me! I'd think its nice to see that everything is in working order ;) Kinda like 'try before you buy' in the super market

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    • can't help, but to laugh at your comment! Pretty funny!

    • Try before you buy? Lol i like this girl

  • I have been going to nude beaches for about two years now. I truly love the attention from all the nude men. I love watching them walk the beach. But the best has to be when a guy comes over to talk to me and starts to get hard! It has happened a few times. I just act like its no big deal. I had one guy who's penis got huge and was standing straight out from his body! It was really big. I couldn't help but check him out as he stood facing me as we talked. At one point his penis was even bouncing a little. He was really turned on. He kept a full erection the whole time we were talking. It was very flattering!

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    • Is that awkward for you?

    • Not at all!

    • I wish more women were like you sallyS, not in a "sexual way" but just if a guy gets hard and its clearly obvious you dont give a damn and find it intriguing

  • I would be surprised if a man didn't have an erection on a nude beach.

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  • i wouldn't care. its just natural its not like a guy did it on purpose...its a nude beach...lol its kinda a possibility and people who don't think itll happen are silly :)

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    • I am glad you are understanding, although I can not say I would get an erection because I haven't been to a nude beach.

    • Well I think some girls need to get it that its possible for a guy to get turned on...

    • Exactly, it's involuntary!

  • I wouldn't want to see one. It's just awkward for everyone involved.

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  • I agree, it['s not his fault, he didn't do it on purpose, and he's not showing off or doing anything wrong. So what's the problem? If it's a nudist beach it's bound to happen at some point.

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    • Thank you for your comment! All the nudists think, including guys that if a guy has an erection, he is doing it on purpose and needs to leave. Yet, a women can be sexually aroused and no one would know! Double standard!

    • I hate double standards if I see one or hear of one I try to make it fair. I hate when people give me a double standard and I figure others must feel the same.

  • I like it , it's nice to see different cocks.

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    • I LOVE WALKING ALONG THE BEACH WITH A RAGING HARD ON, ITS FUNNY THE REACTION RECIEVED.MOST PEOPLE JUST STARE AT IT.

    • Which ones are your favorite?

  • That is right. If parents do not want the possibility of their kids seeing an erection, then they should not take their kids to a nudist beach.

    I like a guy to get abit of an erection when he looks at me and my only worry, when I see a guy looking more or less in my direction and developing an erection, is that that erection might be due to some other girl in his field of vision.

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  • I'd jump on it and start to ride it!

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What Guys Said 11

  • Yep, some girls think of men as perverts for actions we can't control, I wonder how they would feel being called as such, for having their periods? You may as well call us a pervert for going to the toilet, eating food or sleeping.

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  • Women are allowed to dictate the rules wether nudist beach or wherever women that see men with an erection call us perverts, but if a woman is horny she is just that arroused..

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    • I guess for me it is the all or nothing rule. If you are not going to allow erections, there should be no nudity! I am not saying I believe in erections because I am sexually and want to be sexually turned on, but if we as guys can't see if I woman is aroused, then it is no fair!Would it bother a guy if a woman says to him that she is turned on? Then maybe it does and he gets the police. Then it become he said she said thing.

  • Honestly you don't sound like a nudist. You're just going to the beach to see nude girls, so honestly you should get the third degree, because you R a pervert.

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    • OK, then call a kid of lets say age 10 that has an erection on the beach a pervert. I beleive that the nudist mind exists. You can not tell me that if you find and you will find some hot looking woman that you would not get an erection! I would say that there is something wrong with you! Now, I belleive, my personal opinion, that men don't get them because it is taboo for a guy to get an erection, so he may control it. I stated I never have been to a nude beach before.

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    • The Christian shame? Id say its common decency, something that separates us from the animals. Or do you libs not want anything to separate us? Honestly curious.

    • HI THERE ,

      I AM A NUDIST AS IS MY WIFE AND WE JUST FIND IT IS SO HEALTHY FOR ARE SEX LIFE.WHEN MY WIFE AND I F*** AT THE NUDE BEACH THE SEX IS SO MUCH BETTER AS MY LOADS ARE ALSO MUCH STRONGER AND BIGGER IT MUST BE THE SUN AND ALL THE NUDE PEOPLE AROUND US WATCHING US F***.

  • I have been to several nude beaches and to be honest there have been a fair amount of attractive women there. Although I love women, I have never gotten a boner on a nude beach. It just isn't a sexual place. And it does feel weird when you see a guy with a boner. I don't want to see that and I am sure women don't either.

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    • I am only asking the question and never been to a nude beach and do not intent to, but how can you not get a stiffy if you see beautiful women? I know, that it isn't a sexual place, but I can never understand that. You could meet your wife to be there, so what would you say? " I like her and find her physically attractive, so I am going to ask her out."

  • I regularly get an erection during a massage, it's perfectly normal when a young masseuse is giving a treatment for this to happen, they generally just ignor it as perfectly normal. I did actually ejaculate onec during a massage with no additinla stimulus, buit this was also ignored and the problem went away.

    Don't worry about it, it happens to us all.

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    • are these women masseuses?

  • When a man gets an erection he is not necessarily sexually aroused. An erection is a natural rhythm for a man's body much like natural lubrication of the vagina for a woman's body.

    Not all erections are planned and desire by the man having the erection.

    I see nothing wrong with a man having an erection on a nude beach as long as he is not flauting it or masturbating.

    I spent my years in high school and college being very conscious/fearful of having an erection; my had spent more time inside my pocket than outside my pocket to reduce the embarrassment of someone noticing. It would be nice if our society (women in particular) would not be embarrassed by a public erection and understand that an erection is not necessarily sexual.

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    • Thank you for your comment! You hit it right on!

  • I would like to go to a nude beach so I can experience the feeling of being nude with nature, but the thing that has stopped me is getting an erection, as some people have posted this is just a male thing, it just happens, it has happened to me before on a bus and out in a club, at the beach sun bathing relaxing, Mr Woody just wants to make an appearance and away he goes, I am very respectful of peoples thoughts and would not want to alarm other Nudists or embarrass myself. I am very open minded sexually and not shy but I realize there are protocol you have to follow, it has been interesting reading the comments, cheers

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  • I am a life long nudist and yes even after 65 years i still get erections.
    As for kids i can remember seeing erection going back to about 5 or 6.
    I knew that men got them and it was normal.
    I can also remember around age 11 i had many erections at nude beaches and at home that my sisters saw.
    my sisters enjoyed watching them as did other girls and some boys.
    I can remember a group of us boys hanging out and one boy getting a erection nd the next thing most of us had erections.
    I am Bi and i even like to watch other guys with erections.

    As a teen i had other problems then erections like bedwetting and having to wear diapers at night. so were my sisters
    I almost always had morning wood when i took off the diaper and at home i would take it off in the laundry room and put it in the wash then walk to the bathroom on the other side of the house nude with a erection to wash up.
    when you have two sister its hard to take maters in hand without getting caught.

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  • This kind of policing of what is, and isn't, allowable is a bit much! Women need to keep in mind that the male erection is an involuntary response... we're not doing it on purpose, and I'm definitely not doing it to embarass you! There are so many times I would get an erection, but you wouldn't know it because I'm under my pants!

    To those who think being naked is natural, I'd like to say, sexual arousal too is.

    It strikes me as if women are facing some conflict here. On the one hand there's this age-old traditional women fear of what is seen as a (sexually) aggressive male. The fear that he might impregnate you (it came up in someone's question), and the like. But today women too want to have a right to their sexual feelings, their right to initiate sex, and all that. So should the 10th century BC thoughts go with the 21st century AD?

    Also, there's no limit to policing others... One time, a couple of women on the beach were frolicking around with only their panties on, topless. Since they were tourists from another country, I guess they didn't know, or didn't care, what the effect was on the local male. They went through some elaborate seduction ritual -- realising it or not -- of luring some men after them, quite deep into the sea. The men were obviously aroused by their state of clothing, and made this obvious.

    Watching all this on the beach made me quite turned on! You might see it as wrong, but as a male this was how I did respond. A few minutes, I found myself masturbating in the bathroom... You may say this is perverted behaviour, but sorry, as a male that's how my body works...

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  • If you ask me its unfair to get upset about them.
    This is for the simple reason that men can't always help it and it doesn't always mean we are turned on.

    Men on average have 11 erections a day (look it up). So most of the time its nothing to do with being aroused at all, except under certain circumstances.

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  • Ever since my first experience on a nude beach having that first woman pass by and smile my way, I was hooked. Having been to a few beaches, I recall several erections, but they were all while being in the water since I did not want the embarrassment of offending woman or making them feel threatened. It's nice to read that most woman enjoy looking at an erect penis (and probably why a lot of full bikini-clad woman go there when there is ample non-nude beaches around). So the next time I feel a little rush when I see a woman standing with her legs apart while leaning back squeezing the water from her hair, I'll be sure to let nature take its course and let her know how much I appreciate what she is doing, and maybe the smile on her face will make her enjoy the nude beach experience as mush as I do.

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