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Should I send my boyfriend naked pictures?

Help my boyfriend sent me xxx pic now he wants me to send him some. We've been together 10 mo. His b-day is almost here and he's like-I sent you one of me! He said I don't have to put my face in the pic. I don't understand why he wants this so bad when he can see it in 3D lol. I feel kinda pressured since his b-day is al most here (he wants that for a present) and he already sent one to me. What should I do. I realize I don't have to put my face but I still feel weird about it. I've never done something like this before.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • i send my boyfriend them and he sens me them as we're apart but I trust him with them because he's very very protective of them, password on his phone, software which means if he lost his phone all the data would be deleted. he doesn't even like me wearing low cut tops in front of his close friends. the thought of anyone seeing me in my underwear would drive him crazy and I like that about him. if we broke up he wouldn't do anything with the pics as we were broken up before for a few weeks and said to me if I didn't feel comfortable with him having the pics I could delete them myself off his phone. it all depends on how well you know your guy. BUT I was comfortable enough to take pics like that if you have any doubts DON'T do it. once you do you run out of excuses to not send him anymore so don't send him the first one. explain your reasons. if you want to tease him send him pics of naughty lingerie or pics of yourself that are slightly teasing, short dress, low cut top. things that wouldn't ruin your life if he did turn out to be a jerk.

    • How long have you and your boyfriend been together?

    • Coming up to two years now

    • Lol wow. I wish every women saw it ur way about liking ur boyfriend being that protective.

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  • DO NOT TAKE ANY PICTURES! I know he's sent you some and you are feeling pressure esp since it's his birthday but just think about the amount of girls who have been ruined by it! it doesn't matter that your face won't be in them it's still you. I'm not trying to be a bitch or anything or make you doubt your relationship but just because ye have been together for 10 months but it doesn't mean ye will always be together but he will always have those photos. even the fact your questioning it should show you that its not for you. at the end of the day its your decision but please don't end up being a statistic! and don't let him force you into anything! IT'S YOUR CHOICE! GOOD LUCK!

    • Thanks, yea I guess I don't want an ex beating off to me if we ever broke up lol

    • Hahaha well I didn't actually think of that! but it really is a big decision I am really sorry if it sounded like I was trying to be a bitch about it I didn't mean to! just be careful!

  • Don't do it. No one should be pressured into doing something they are uncomfortable with and if he is a boyfriend worth keeping, you shouldn't have to justify yourself either.

    The reason he wants it when he can have 3D is that it is just a different way of enjoying sexuality and adding fun to your sex life, but you have to be up for the fun too and find pleasure in it and he should respect that.

    • You're the only person that answered the 3D part of the question lol. good advice

Most Helpful Guys

  • if you trust him then sure why not. but if ur not sure or there is a chance he would do something if you guys ever broke up then don't. also if he is pressuring you to do something. you don't have to do it and if he continues then he is not worth being around and being with. his loss not urs.

  • The best thing you can probably do is put on your pouty face tell him you love him but you really don't want to do it, and then give him the real thing. That would def work on me...

    • Yea...I just don't want to disappoint him on his b-day, part of the problem is I'll be at a family reunion on his b-day so I can't give him the real thing that day, I guess that's part of the realson I feel pressured...plus he already gave he some xxx pics and I don't want him to feel embarassed I have some of him and he doesn't have any of me.

    • Write him out a cute little I.O.U. or something haha. I think the pouty look alone should be good enough anyways. Oh and also delete his pic in front of him just so he knows he didn't give something for nothing.

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  • Just do it, girls do that with friends, his is your boyfriend for 10 months. Who cares he shows it to someone, girls in playboy get nude and I want them more, plus he probably just want to have you. He took his, so if he shows it, show his, it's not big deal, and put your face on it, show him you like him.

    • Girls do that with friends? My friends have never done that so far lol

    • Wow, that is the best worst advice I have read so far lol. "Girls do that with friends". Friends? If it wasn't a big deal then it wouldn't be a big deal to not do it. I mean, he does get to see her live and in the flesh, so why does he need a pic that could accidentally be seen by others. In fact, it is a big deal and I have no doubt you would love to see as many naked pics as you can and I get that, but for the girl it can have consequences that are a problem.

    • No consequences, it's all in her head, that's why you need to be relentless to succeed in life

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  • He probably wants to show his mates and brag to them about it if he is so desperate for them. I don't think you should, you might regret it if you break up with him. Once your picture is out there it pretty much won't go away. These things always come back to haunt you later in life.

  • I wouldn't. You'd be surprised by how many females and males show their friends these pictures and it's possible that if you break up it could get around the web. I'm assuming the worst here though, if you seriously trust him (100%) then sure why not.

  • i would do it, I don't think he would show anyone,and even if he would that's the same as him telling them stuff about you

    • It is not the same as him telling them stuff, this is definitely a step above that.

  • I would not do it cause he will show his friends cause many of my friends show me espicially in th locker room

    • Exactly.

  • If I were you I wouldn't do anything I was "pressured" into doing. Some guys get a huge kick outta XXX pics but unless YOU'RE 100% that YOU want to do it, then don't. From my experience, once you start doing things like that, they'll just keep wanting more! So if you're going to give him some for his birthday, but don't want it as a regular thing, be SURE to make that clear. Do you guys see each other often?

    • Good point about he'll want more. We see each other often now, but he is getting out of the military in a month and will live/go to school an hour and a half away.

    • If he's moving an hour and a half away then I could pretty much guarantee that if you started, he wouldn't want you to stop lol here's a thought for a gift get a pillow made of you with a nice, but intriguing picture of you on it...that way he get's a picture and gets to be with you every night even when you aren't there, but your not putting all of your goodies out there! Just and idea...I've done it before and it worked for me!

    • Good idea

  • just do it, he's your boyfriend

  • Yea see I wouldn't do it unless if I had complete confidence in ur partner to not show his buddies or something. I don't know I just think 10 months is still a little learning bout each other.

    • He said "why would I show anyone if you have pics of me ____?" I don't want you to show mine either." I don't think he would show anyone, but I'm still paranoid someone could hack into his iphone or something

    • U know what, if he really loved you and you didn't feel comfortable doing it, he should understand. And so what if he gave you some, ur not him.

    • Thanks, you're so right I should realize that. I guess I just wanted to make him happy, but I know I need to think of myself first. Maybe he doesn't love me, he's never said it but we act like it? Do you know of any good alternative gifts guys like?

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  • Don't do it. They are just a bad idea. You will regret it later.

    • Plus there are a lot of "revenge" sites where after the couple breaks up, the pics get posted on the internet.

    • Exactly.

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