I have to face the facts and admit I'm far from good looking, have no game, don't make a lot of money, not good at flirting, am introverted, and basically just a loser. So getting women obviously doesn't really happen for me and not having a sex life anymore has really started to make me feel...
I have to face the facts and admit I'm far from good looking, have no game, don't make a lot of money, not good at flirting, am introverted, and basically just a loser. So getting women obviously doesn't really happen for me and not having a sex life anymore has really started to make me feel worthless and depressed, so I'm debating paying a prostitute.
I wish it was legal so I could go someplace nice and know everything is safe and I won't get arrested, but unfortunately that's not the case. so say I went on craigslist or something and tried to get a prostitute, and it ended up being a police sting operation, what would happen to me? is it a felony, misdemeanor, or even worse would I get put on the sex offenders list?
I really can't afford to ruin my life with a felony or the sex offenders list, but this depression and feeling of worthlessness has to go.
I think that the prostitution question aside you are bringing up some very important parts of your psychological makeup and personality. Without judging you on the prostitution question, I can answer only this; which is that having propositioning one - which says nothing of actually having sex with one - is generally considered illegal. If the prostitute was a minor - whether or not you knew it - you could be required to register as a sex offender, depending on what state you were convicted in.
More importantly, in describing yourself, you seem to project a mostly negative assessment of your life, using terms like loser. I say this in all honesty, no one is in reality a loser and to describe yourself as such really says a lot about the condition of your mental health. Perhaps it is time you use some of the money you might consider spending on a woman of the night on a licensed counselor who may help you do understand and accept some of these negative feelings. A lack of a sex life does not make someone a loser. In fact, nothing externally can do that. What's most important is that you recognize your value as a human being and deal with the underlying psychological and emotional issues you are describing. You may find that when you even begin to address these issues, you will feel better about yourself, more attractive and perhaps even able to attract someone for a meaningful and healthy relationship. Good luck.
I agree with jbone79,you have the capacity to change your life if you want to,but sitting around mewing about it isn't going to get that done.
Thats a choice you have,sit there and wallow and remain feeling as you do,or pull your socks up and decide to change it.
You don't have to have money to have a girlfriend,and looks are not everything-you would get further with having a good persona and a great personality-looks fade.
As for using a prostitute do you think that will make you feel better about yourself? will it make you feel like you are worth more or less?
Many people all over the world go without a sex life for a time,for various reasons,and they don't resort to using prostitutes-you have a right hand,get to using it and have some self control and dignity.
Yes I wouldn't do it because if you get caught it is a felony but punishment will very under state law there is only one place in the united states that it is legal and that's Las Vegas so if you want to bad enough then take a trip there or they are a lot more lenient in places like the Philippines and third world countries. Many times now a days cops are cracking down on in so much that many man are getting caught in the stings. Just to let you know if your young it shouldn't be hard finding a girl to have sex with because so many girls are easy these days, I'm in college trust me!
You know this feeling of depression, being introverted etc.? Well there are MANY women out there who feel the exact same why as you do! So you're not alone on this. You might miss that person who is right for you by wasting your time purchasing a relationship. Anyways, you said you don't have that much money so why waste it? If you really believe those things you said, other people are gonna think it's true and believe those lies. So you need to change your attitude. I used to feel the same way. But whenever I got out of my depression more people liked me. Anyways, getting a prostitute might feel good in the moment, but you are gonna feel stressed out that you'll get caught and regret it later. Try going to places you can meet different kinds of women. I know my uncle meet a nice woman when he joined a bowling league lol. You just need to get active, no find the temporary, costly, risky, maybe even ineffective way out.
You shouldn't do a crime if you fear the penalty, so this would be a VERY BAD IDEA for you.
Also, realize that prostitutes are not therapists. They will not address, and should not be asked to address, your feelings of depression and worthlessness. It's unfair.
They're not trained for it, and most won't want to. They don't want to solve your problems. They don't want to HEAR your problems. They want to be well-paid for sex with a nice, clean, harmless guy who tips well.
A good shrink would be a cheaper and more direct solution, better for you, considering you're cost-conscious.
Your going to stay a loser as long as you believe the negative bullsh*t coming out of your mouth. Stop with the self pity party and change the things you don't like about yourself. You probably have a lot more to offer the world and others if you take a better look.
whatever problems your having, work your way out of it. Stop making bullsh*t excuses for yourself and make it happen. Your life didn't go to sh*t overnight, and it won't be fixed overnight.
I'd pass on the hooker idea. There is too much danger to you (jail time, and diseases) Besides, why support the sex trade? That industry is destructive to women's health and morality.
"You have to be the change you wish to see in the world" - Ghandi
Good news! If you're not good looking, have no game or social skills, don't make a lot of money, are not good at flirting, introverted and just basically a loser... YOU'RE JUST LIKE EVERY OTHER GUY BANGIN' HOOKERS! The only difference is, they're getting laid and you're not.
Number one, stay away from Craigslist. No, not because you're likely to get arrested (although the chances are higher there than elsewhere) but because you're more likely to get ripped off and have an unsatisfying experience.
Check out your local escort review boards. Stay away from escort agencies, you're just gonna pay a premium for the middleman. Find independent escorts. Look for escorts who offer GFE (GirlFriend Experience) services. That term means different things to different people, but generally it means you're not just gonna get a disinterested, slam-bam, in n' out kinda session.
If you ARE arrested (unlikely, hookers are arrested much more often than johns) it's not a felony. In most places it's just having to pay a fine.
And, if you really don't want to get caught, check this out: