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Why is my girlfriend so horny all the time?

I started dating my girl about a year ago and I was her first real boyfriend and vice versa. We both liked and still do like each other a ridiculous amount (I wouldn't be surprised if I marry this girl) but she's really shy and told me she wanted our first time making love to be special and didn't want to jump into it right away. I agreed to this because I am madly in love with her and I respect her wishes, and in the end, I'm really not in it for the sex. A few months ago we were both finally comfortable enough (seeing as we both we virgins then) to finally do it and now ****'s been flipped right 'round. She wants to have sex all the time when we are alone. For example, I'll be watching TV at home on the couch and she'll get back from work and just drop her purse and get on top of me and just take my pants off and we'll start having sex. If I say I don't want to, she laughs in a cute kinda way and says I don't have a choice. And I am way too soft-spoken of a man to try otherwise. She'll always want sex in the morning, every single day. And if I'm taking a shower, she'll just walk in naked and grab my penis. I don't want to say or to do anything to hurt her feelings. I'm getting very, very tired and she seems to have way too much energy and isn't showing any signs of slowing down. I am totally her little ***** right now. Ladies, please help! Also: The biggest problem is that she loves the fact that I can last longer if we do it consecutively. I don't think there's been a day gone by without us having sex at least 3 times. I want to tell her I want less sex, but I don't want her to think I love her any less and I don't want her thinking she's not attractive to me =( Bottom line, I just don't want her to get the wrong idea. I go to work tired every day and my whole life is basically a big sport.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • H. I am like your girlfriend. I live for sex! I used to have multiple sex partners, guys and girls coz I am always horny.

    I met the man of my dreams a few months ago and I love him and he loves me. I am gonna be 21 yo in Aug 2015 and he is 41 yo. He teases me that I have "demonic sex needs". I have always been with older men coz guys my age are just too immature for me.

    He knows I have a really high sex drive and he knows I used to have multiple partners coz I am always wanting sex. To keep me satisfied, he started taking vitamins to increase his semen production and even if he is tired and can't have sex, he still makes sure I am "satisfied" (he bought a vibrator and a dildo, plus does oral and manual stimulation).

    We normally have sex in bed when we wake up, when he gets home from work, and then when we go to bed, we do it again so I can sleep. He was getting really tired doing it 2 or 3 times a day and was happy when I got my period so he could rest. He dint tell me this until this month when my bff told me I might give him a heart attack or stroke or he might hurt himself doing it too much.

    He told me the dr told him he is in good shape and in fact, since we have been together, the dr said his heart is stronger, his blood pressure is lower, his weight is down 10 pounds, and the dr teased him that his "workout" routine is unique, but it is working well! His abs and tummy are firmer/tighter now and having sex all the time I have noticed he can do it more often now w/o wearing out. I don't know if a penis can get stronger from frequent sex, but he has more energy when we do it more than 1 time a day.

    Anyway, we talked and he is cutting down on everyday sex coz I don't want him dying on me. We have made some changes to be more romantic, yet I get the "satisfaction" I need.

    Things we changed: He randomly will wake me up in the middle of the night like at 2:30am having sex with me. We found that in middle of the night or first thing in the morning, he has more sex energy and a fast, quick romp gives me more satisfaction than a planned out time.

    He bought me a vib and a huge dildo and uses them on me when he is just too tired to have actual sex.

    Mostly though, he does a lot of romantic gestures, surprises, random unplanned sex, and makes most of our 2nd or 3rd times take a long time b4 he is done. These are the best for me coz I get multiple orgasms and as long as he is giving them to me, intercourse or not, I am totally happy.

  • Hehe I'm like her I want a lot all the time-3 days aday like meals lol.

    But the bottom line is it can't always work like for the reasons as you say.

    What you could do is tell her she is giving you such great sex that she is wearing you out,in a half jokeing/half serious way.Say you need to recharge your batteries every so often and as much as you want her,shes eating you alive.

    Say something like that because imo it is still positive,and she can't really get offended,if anything she will be reassured that she is meeting your needs,you know?



    As an alternative you can get sex toys that are basically a mold of your er...manhood,you make a plastercast of it or something and make a dildo that's a replica,you could do that and give it to her and tell her you still want her to think of you-im saying this because it still keeps it positive.

    In fact you could get yourself a little kitkat break by asking to use sex toys on her every now and then and then you get to have a rest lol.

    Sensitive issue,you need to keep it positive but defineately speak up!

    • I think the former part of this piece of advice is genius! I will definitely tell her that tonight :)

    • Glad I could help.Its not what you say its how you say it.Good luck ;o)

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  • I'm in the same boat. I just started dating my first real boyfriend, and like everything he does turns me on! I always wanna have sex! With him. After we have sex like ten minutes later I'm recharged ready for it again! And he's all worn out. He's gottah eat and take a nap! I'm like come on now were young! I'm 23 and he's 26! Come on now. The best thing you can do is give her oral sex for a while and finger her to she cums. Then give her to dick. But have her ride you. Because riding is exhausting. If that dont do it try doggy style in the a** I bet you she'll have several seats after. Because I can't take that. It wears me out. She's just excited to have excess to you. Its a turn on. Make it fun, wear her out be aggressive! Good luck 😊

  • OMG, I can't believe you're complaining! (Joking) But seriously, I'd talk to her about it- obviously the excitement of havign her first boyfriend is getting to her a bit, but its probably just a faze and if you mention that its bothering you a little bit- try not to sound like you're rejecting her sexually though, that would REALLY upset her, but just mention it when you're both in an O.K mood that once a night is enough for you etc. and that you prefer cuddling, or just talking etc. to having sex all the time...if she starts being manipulative though and doesn't take no for an answer, you may have to re-evaluate the relationship a little... Either way, though, you sound like a really stand up guy so she's very very lucky xxxxxxxxxx

Most Helpful Guys

  • Dude... I think it's awesome you have a girl like that because I do too... Well I DID... All you have to do is make her tired... Do several and I mean SEVERAL positions... Make her be on top it's more tiring for her to do most of the work because when girls orgasm hard enough they get real exhausted...

  • Uh is no one else gonna talk about the part that whenever he says no that she says he "doesn't have a choice?" At that point it's rape!

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  • Just tell her what you told us. That you still love her just as much, that she's still attractive, and that you like sex... but that having sex this much is starting to effect your work and your health. You need a break sometime, you know? As long as you guys still spend time together and don't cut sex out out of the picture completely, she shouldn't be too put off. (Or at least I'd hope not.)

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  • I'm the same; my sex drive in through the roof yet my bf is.. not so much. He feels guilty like he's not a real man ect. Basically, buy her a vibrator and dildo and let her have at it lol. Or suggest escorting lol

  • I can't believe your complaining...

    But I feel for you.

  • I think I can relate. I'm a virgin but I feel like once I have sex, it's going to be crazy. It's just after years and years of waiting and you finally get to experience how awesome it is, you let all of those pent up lustiness just come out and it can end up like this. I would just tell her about it and you sound sweet so just do it the way you wrote in your post, telling her nicely that you can't keep up with all her energy. I don't think she'll feel offended at all if you say everything you said in your post.

    • She probably won't be offended if I say it like that, but I'm just afraid of denting what seems to be prefect relationship so far.

    • I don't think it would. You sound very considerate of her. Maybe she thinks she is expected to have sex all the time because for awhile, I thought guys wanted to have sex ALL THE TIME, never thought about the whole being tired thing. So I would just let her know gently that you are too tired to be having sex at this rate. You're her first boyfriend so it must be exciting and maybe she doesn't want to lose you and feels she needs to do it often.

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