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How to ask a girl for sex?

I don't really know how to ask for sex to a hot girl, what do I say?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • If a guy just came right out and asked me for sex, I would be turned off, scared even. I'm a virgin so I'm actually petrified when guys want one night stands. I just wish they would like me enough to bother to get to know me first, form a relationship and then have sex later when we know each other and maybe even are starting to love each other. I'm not saying I would make the guy wait months or anything, I just need a little time to make sure I can trust him because I have been assaulted many times in the past, so I don't really trust that guys actually like me, I just tend to think they're only out for one thing and they don't really give a sh*t about me.

    I once was seeing a guy who would basically beg me to come stay at his house (asking this in front of all my friends so it was really embarassing), I really liked him but was too afraid of being found out a virgin. Then my friends (some friends they were!) laughed hysterically and told him to "not even bother with me".

    So in conclusion, my advice would be, to ask yourself this:

    1) Do you really LIKE the girl and maybe even feel that you will fall in love with her?

    2) Do you respect her and want to treat her with dignity? Will you care for her?

    3) Or are you just after sex, no strings attached kind of thing, because she is "hot"

    If it is a yes to no. 3 then you risk rejection in my books. Girls just want to be loved, respected and treated with dignity. Most girls I know do have one night stands, but afterward they are always depressed because they feel used and what they really wanted was a relationship and love from the man. That's why I won't do one night stands (at the moment anyway) because I just feel like I'm being treated like a piece of meat.

    If you want her, be patient. Start off by slowly kissing her, touch her hair, tell her how beautiful you think she is, find some feature about her (like her skin, hair, eyes, mouth) and tell her that you think it's gorgeous/amazing. If she seems comfortable, then start to touch her, but be careful not to be one of those sleazes in a nightclub that just feels girls up (not cool) - I would recommend doing this in private. Start with her neck, then if that's cool, move down. Then if everything goes smoothly, maybe just test the waters and say "i'd really love to spend the night with you tonight but if its too soon for you that's OK too. I'd really like to keep seeing you..." Then I guess, just wait and see what happens. She might be the kind of girl who has no qualms about one night stands. But in my view, its always best to take the gentleman's approach. Be a gentleman. A gentleman is a REAL man and THAT'S what girls adore and find incredibly sexy. It's a total turn on, trust me.

    Hope this helps!

    xxx

  • Let me tell you. Asking for sex won't work. It will make you seem desperate and give her all the control in your FWB relationship. Give her compliments and in little ways, show her you are interested. Talk to her just enough so that you don't come across overbearing. And make her see you as something other than just a friend. Then the sex will come. It just kinda will naturally happen. You just need to get out of the friend zone and stop putting the PU*** on a pedestal.

  • just say you like her and ask her do you whant to go thurther in your relationship and if she says yes then say well do you whant to sex and then you will get the awnswer but if you arnt in a relationship or you gust got together you don't whant to take things too fast unless you think that you are confedent or you think shell whant to have sex then its up to you what you dacide ! good luck !

  • Don't ask. I mean how would "Hey wanna have sex with me? " sound? Pretty lame, trust me.

    Just approach her and try to make her want you. If she refuses, she's not attracted to you.

    I love it when my boyfriend surprises me and just shows me who's the boss :P

Most Helpful Guys

  • Unless you're a model looking dude, asking for sex won't get you anywhere. The trick is to somehow when you talk to the girls, get into a sexual tone type of conversation, and from there you carry the conversation in a way that will lead you to sex, but you can't simply ask for it. Example. I worked with women that were older than me, by 10 years or so. Many of these women were incredibly hot. My line to get the ball going was first complimenting her on an outfit. From there I would say something like, 'geez, my female friends should be ashamed; they are even younger than me, but your body is in so much better shape than theirs. Heck, your body is so good, I'm even willing to worship it like it's meant to be. '

    As you can clearly see, not only am I approaching the woman from a safe angle---complimenting her on clothes, then appropriately moving to her body----but also, I'm introducing a sexual tone to the conversation, in what a lot of women consider a funny and crazy way.

    At this point the woman is thanking me for the compliment, and then, she is calling me crazy for my 'worshiping line'; somehow they are always amused by the worshiping line, and I have had women straight up tell me, 'so what type of worshiping you want to do', or, 'you're crazy. ' I don't care how they reply, but my next line is always something 'oh, I'm not joking. I'll make you my Venus for the night, but you'll have to play your role, and be naked blah blah blah. ' By then, the women go along with the plan, or they have no idea what to say, but they are so amused with the crazy lines I give them, that they keep on talking to me, and is just matter of minutes or even days till I seal the deal.

    So bottom line is be indirect, funny, and a bit aggressive about it, but you can't just simply go up to them and say, 'hey, can I have sex with you?

    • Are you fu***** stupid? just go up to that b**** rip her clothes off and put it in her a** lol jk everyone

  • After reading all the comments, I come to conclude that women are the most complex living thing under the sun. Men are straightforward and easy to understand. I am a male and if a girl says that she wants to make love with me, I won't go to the nitty gritty. I won't think whether I am being respected or degraded.

    I don't also believe that you have to enter into a long term relationship. While we may be thinking for a lasting relationship, the girl may be looking for a one night stand herself. So, furthering relationship is just a bullsh*t. Not everybody wants to end the relationship in marriages. Sex is a carnal desire. So, my recommendation is ask the girl straight 'what about some jiggy wiggy tonight?' I strongly recommend not to carry her on your shoulder for rest of the life or for many months just have a pound of meat. Off course, If you are looking for a long term relationship, starting with asking for a sex will just ruin everything. But if you find a girl hot and want to do some wallowing, a straight forward approach is better than those romantic bullsh*ts. Just imagine: you want to have sex with the girl and you do lot of partying, shopping for her, going to the movies just to find that she says 'no' at the end. Will you be amused? Definitely not. If you find a girl saying 'yes' or 'no' on the spot and in time, you are saved.

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  • I don't really like being "asked" I would rather my boyfriend just come on to me, it makes me feel more attractive and if he does it the right way has me every time!

  • From my life's experiences, you don't ask at all. If you feel she is comfortable with you, make the move until she tells you to stop. No means no. The only exception to asking a woman for sex is if she is an escort. If that is the case, then you better have your wallet out. Even allowing for escorts, not all of them will give you "full service" no matter how much you offer.

    Back to your question. I'd say just don't ask at all unless you are certain she will allow it. Perhaps I'm just an unlucky guy, but asking never worked for me

  • When you see her, make a circle with your index finger and thumb. Then with your other index finger, vigorously make it go in and out of the hole while smiling and nodding at her all the while you need to be grunting like a gorilla.

    • HAHAHAHAHA hilarious

    • Reminds me of grade school lol.

    • Sheer genius xD

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  • Just do it, don't ask

    If she says no, then you go(away - walk out the door)

    If she moans yes, you passed the test.



    Cheers

  • Don't its rude.

  • You don't want to ask, because that will turn her off .

    You would do better to put your arms around her and let her know you are really attracted to her and that you want to take her to bed with you .

    If she turns that down, then she surely doesn't want it anyway . . But don't "ask" . Asking just makes her not want to do it .

    • Hey how can I get a girl to have sex with me? I take her in my arms all the time and right away when she comes over we get in my bed and make out...but how will I be able to turn her on to have sex she sleeps in my bed all the time and she is coming over in 5days so we can do it...but I want to know how to make her have sex with me in the future

  • Just ask her do she like you an then ask her do she have any lust for you then you would know

  • Just as every single person has answered her you just don't ask for sex it seems weird and sounds like you're completely desperate to get laid. Just take your time making her want you more than you want her.

  • give her first romantic party and than say you are the most sexy ,hot, beautyfull girl in the world .without you I'm nothing tthan she gonne kiss you tthan boy its gonne work trust me .this neger style my boy...

  • I'll give you $50.

  • Start massaging her on the bed then kissing her and then start feeling her up and start taking off her cloths

  • Don't ask for sex, ask her out, and then ask her out for a second date. If she agrees to the second date then she is probably into u. Ask her what she wants to do after the date, if she says I don't know, offer to chill at your place...

  • yeh dude. just say. Hey, I think ur really hot and I was thinking if you wanted to have sex. its ok if you don't want to,. than if she's says yes. ur in. if she says no you horny bastard say. HAHA you wish you ugly bitch!.

    pretty smart ay bro.

    peace out.

  • Feeling likely

  • Plzz let me know that which girls want to chat me and have sex

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