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Does it turn you on when a girl dry humps you?

Ok so here is the question. So I keep on dating girls who try to have foreplay by rubbing there clit on my pelvic bone like they have worms or some sh*t it really doesn't turn me on to the point that I will loose my erection. I like pretty much all types of foreplay but not this. I try to take the lead by doing masculine versions of the types of things I like. gently touching, kissing, biting, licking etc. and showing them how to do the same but they always go back to the same sh*t. The stereo type that guys will have sex with anything that moves but I am finding I will bring girls home and wind up talking and sleeping with them but not having sex because I can't actually keep a erection through this. I don't really mind I prefer the feeling of having a girl on each arm to sex anyway but I was wondering if other people have encountered this. For girls does this actually turn you on or are these girls doing this because they think I like it and/or it will make me want to f***.
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I guess I have a very rare mental block. Wow I so thought I wasn't going to be the only one... At least I know what I like lol. man I hope I get over this cause I have turned down 2 very attractive women in the last month over this.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • REALLY!? I can't believe you don't enjoy having a woman grind up all over you. It gets me super arroused and ready. It is such an intimate thing to rub your bodies against each other, and not jump right into sex. Just a suggestion for you...maybe if you really try to get into the moment of what she is doing to you and with you. While she grinds against you, have her start stroking your equipment and make sure that you are both getting into it.

    I understand that we all have hang ups, but at the same time...sometime in order to have a great sex life, you have to find a way past all the hang ups to enjoy things.

    Good luck.

    • Thanks for the advice I know this is a hang up and I totally enjoy foreplay I never just jump right in unless the situation calls for it. Like I said having her stroke my equipment or even my chest stomach neck is a turn on for me its just the grinding. I'm working with it.

  • this is like my ultimate turn-on... seriously I can't believe you don't like that either

    • I wonder if it's cause it is like a girl showing that she is really into you and I'm moving to fast taking girls to bed on my first and second dates.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Personally.. I don't know what the hell they're doing lol

    For me, if I'm making out with a guy I like to get on top of him

    you know, like straddling and grind on top of him while we're making out .. or hell be on top of me and I'll wrap my legs around him .. I guess like missionary .. and well grind or w.e you call it .. it just makes making out more interesting and I get to feel him .. plus it turns me on and I've never had a guy complain about it .. they usually likes it .. Nd after all this it leads into the 'better' stuff lol

  • So wait, what if a girl was straddling you and rubbing her p**** (this could be done clothed or nude) against your c*** so she could get warmed up? Would that not turn you on? ...This one way should could turn herself on and use you like a scratching post.

    • That what t feels like to me right now though like she's using me like a scratching post. I know it's cause she wants me inside. It seems so needy.

  • lol every guy I have EVER been with either does this to me or makes me do it to them...and ya know..it turns me on, but at the same time it can hurt. but its nice to feel the guy get hard.

    • I can do it to a girl without loosing its only when there on me I don't know

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  • the weird thing is that this isn't an uncommon sexual act at all, its fairly popular... Although for me, I don't just do that, I also kiss, bite lick. We also can't do it for more than like a minute or two because we are too horny by that time...

  • wow havin a girl grind on you is hot as hell lol I'd be turned on instantly I can't believe you lose an erection from that

  • i kind of like to grind against there dick making out ahah feel them get hard and whatnott

  • It is awesome!

  • I'm mean I'm not a guy but to guys when. A girl dry humps then it gives them a massive Bonner so yes it dose turn them on

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