Ladies, how long does it take you to cum during intercourse?

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I feel like for me it'll take forever so I just don't bother trying :(

BuchitaBuchys · Accepted Answer

You should try clit or g-spot. Maybe even nipple orgasms. I have small boobs, but very sensitive nipples that I can cum and orgasm just from nipple play.

I like being teased a lot too. I know how to ride it so I can cum within a few minutes when I'm on top. Don't be afraid to go on top of him and just focus on your g-spot from there. He will still have fun watching or playing with your breasts (which helps me cum faster and another reason why girl on top is my favorite), and it feels good for his penis too. Another reason why you on top is because he isn't doing much of the work, so he won't cum or finish before you.
So during foreplay, I cum in about 5-10mins. During intercourse, I'll cum (if I go on top) in about 2-5mins, that's with my g-spot being stimulated and him licking and sucking my nipples at the same time. Not only will I cum, but I'll squirt in this position all over his stomach.

But even before sex, I find that if I masturbate before, along with dirty texting (I LOVE to be teased), I will be in the mood and cum faster.
With masturbation, I can make myself cum in 3-5mins, but I prefer to take my time and explore myself and try to find new things that excite me.

I suggest you masturbate, because before I was a regular masturbator (like 2-3x/week), I had a hard time orgasming. I had I guess a mental block because when my bf would give me oral, it felt too good and I'd stop him. I was afraid of my climaxing. But after I masturbated, I knew what to expect from my orgasms. I also didn't really know my body all too well so I didn't know what felt good to it, what I liked, what it responded to. I suppose you can do this with your partner, but he or you can get frustrated because most guys goal is to make her cum, and when you don't, he can feel "incomplete" or "inadequate." Also, most guys cum faster, guys are more in tuned with their bodies.

Female orgasms take quite some time, so have fun ;)

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Doesn't take me long if the person im with knows what he's doing. My bf and I try different positions and when he finds the spot he says so. I can't pry him off of me until I get my big O! Look up the CAT position... its where he's on top and your hands are on the wall behind you pushing against his thrusts. Let him come closer and closer till he can't go in any further... he can do circles or small, thrusts... you'll be there in no time!

Aly007 · Accepted Answer

I have never orgasmed, it's different fit everyone. Ask u know is you don't try to orgasm it usually won't happen.

stevie123 · Accepted Answer

That's a bad attitude to have.
you should go for it.
Have him eat you either to get you going or to finish you.
I usually always eat my girl first, that way she is satisfied, and I get a nice wet pussy.

That0neGuy · Accepted Answer

there are two kinds of female orgasms clit and g-spot, experiment with yourself for a bit you'll figure it out :)

CuteRedhead · Answer

I usually do orgasm from sex.
Depending on how turned on I am, maybe 10 minutes until last night.
I had my first well endowed guy and I came within two minutes of him being inside me.

Do you make him use a condom?

johnmsk · Answer

From my experiences varies from 7 mins to sometimes 45mins. Depends on techniques n variations the couple uses. For example, a hot quickes may take just 7 mins