I am so insecure of my "outie" pussy.

Question

My inner lips are visible. When I stand then you can see the pink inner lips from outside! And when I open the lips it looks like a huge, pink butterfly (sounds better than it looks) and they are just flappy. I am still a virgin and this is one of the main reasons why i haven't found the courage to open up to a guy. Anfd I am so afraid of him judging me because i heard guys say things about outies like beef and stuff like that

CKtravel · Accepted Answer

I'm really sorry to hear that you're not only so insecure about your intimate parts, but seem to outright hate the way it looks like. Obviously no matter how many men here tell you that it's lovely, you still aren't gonna believe them. So how about you see it for yourself? Why don't you just search for p*rn where p*rn actors are playing with the p*rn actresses' lips (e. g. using his tongue)? It might also prove you that there's nothing "abnormal" about your lips and that some men are great fans of it.

If a guy ever judges you because of your pussy (i. e. because of the way nature made you and something you have no control over), just feel free to throw him out of your life immediately, period. Sure, you might feel like crap afterward (especially if it was a long-time crush of yours), but guys who say something intentionally mean about your female parts will never respect you or treat you right.

I don't think that comments such as "beef" are intentionally malicious though. If it was said with malice, then maybe, but I'd say that many times it's just a kinky reference to such lips ;)

Oh and just to reiterate: you are completely normal. There's absolutely nothing wrong with you and your intimate parts, especially your "huge, pink butterfly" down there (I really like the way you worded it ;), are perfectly normal.

P. S. You wanna hear another reason why is your butterfly awesome? Because using a pussy pump it pumps up really well and is able to inflate to really great dimensions. You might wanna try it once ;)

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Didn't you already asked this question? If you didn't ask this question then there is a search feature on this website and you can type in your question and I'm pretty sure whoever asked the same question has an answer for you and you will get answers quicker that way since people have already answered the question

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Girl, same here and I also was afraid how guys will perceive it. So far, no complaints ;)

sdmaverickg · Answer

Quite frankly, it doesn't really matter.. You shouldn't be self conscious about it because it's your body and you can't change that part of you. Every woman looks different and every woman has different shapes to their vagina's so why should it matter. You should just embrace it. A guy who has the opportunity to even see if won't care what it looks like, he should only care about how to pleasure you the best and trust me, he's worried the entire time making sure he is doing everything right the whole time. If he isn't, well then he's an asshole and doesn't realize that if you make a woman feel amazing, she'll usually return the favor 2-fold..

sexyasianboi26 · Answer

So it looks like the predator from alien vs predator? Listen girl, in my opinion i don't pay attention to how it looks. There ARE some guys that like everything to look perfect, but these guys are a waste of time.

Ever seen a handsome man-ugly woman relationship? Main reason why he's with her is because she's not insecure and she knows what she's doing.

kheserthorpe · Answer

Most women I've been with have outties. They seem normal to me.

wowzer · Answer

Guys were just being stupid, that;s what they do with each other and joke about things. Most men like the idea of visible parts, just google cameltoe.

Dionysos · Answer

Depends on how far they protrude past your outer lips. Are we talking millimeters, centimeters, or inches? Up to about an inch isn't significant to most dudes.

mikemx55 · Answer

Well... you just have to think that there is more to play with ;)
There is no need to overthink something like that. It's not like you're deformed or anything, and it probably looks better than you think it does.

Don't let that be the reason you refrain from boys. Let another reason be the limiting factor, but not that.

UnknownXYZ · Answer

So what the fuck do you want from us then? To hold you hand and say 'Aww... don't worry, guys totally love outies so you shouldn't be insecure?' Look, just get other it. There's nothing anyone else can say that would rid of your insecurity. In fact you are one of those people for thinking outies are bad, "Of course they will never tell you in your face but talk about it behind your back..." Wtf? So all men who have had seen an outie in person are gossiping pigs? Geez, sort it out...

yaddayaddayadda02 · Answer

"I heard guys say things about outies like beef" You're forgetting how much we love roast beef. Find something else to be insecure about. Guys will not care.

countrydude · Answer

The way you described it. Sounds sexxy. I would really enjoy performing orally on you. I would love to lick those lips and suck on em.

Alex5 · Answer

what's your age? but my advice is, forget, don't be concentrat with this, some time i talk to girls, they even know what is horny or what is lips or their vagin

NotTheType · Answer

It's not about how it looks, it's about how it feels. Never slammed a p*ssy that didn't feel good.

TheStupidBlondie · Answer

You open lips? D:: "huge, pink butterfly?"  You are doomed

Blueeyes81 · Answer

Nothing wrong with an outtie. I prefer them. But to be perfectly honest, a man really won't care. He'll just be happy to see it.

rickytheguy · Answer

I have seen same kind of questions today. so if you are the person who put all those questions you must be extremely worrying about this. drop me a message if you want help on this case

IsoUser · Answer

To be perfectly honest I love when a girls inner lips protrude it enables me to suck harder and harder as she begins to cum twice inside my hot wet mouth.

LUVhugelabiaminora · Answer

That is soooooooooo HOT. butterfly wings on virgin pussy? I would die. I LOVE HUGE labia. I absolutlely think they were made for men to truly adore and most guys have ZERO idea where to begin with huge pussy lips. I love them i know EXACTLY what to do. Contact me. jglace8@yahoo. com my name is Jay.

Anonymous · Answer

Lots of dudes on this site are just beta male white knights. I've mostly been with Innies which are choice. I'll still go into an outie, but will not put my mouth near it and will generally assume it is not so clean. You can choose to be happy with the way you are, or if not, labiaplasty is a thing that is increasingly popular.