For girls, getting laid is by choice; for guys, getting laid is by luck and chance right?

[Anonymous]

That is what someone told me when it comes to getting and having sex, getting laid, and I thought that person made a very good valid point, I could not agree with him more. For girls to get laid, it is by choice, for guys to get laid, it is by luck and chance. Do you think that is really true on how much easier it is for a girl to get laid compared to a guy?

[TimB -1-2-3]

Easier for women to get laid? Definitely.

Easier for women to find mature, fun, responsible, respecting, attractive, socially and emotionally savvy men who genuinely have "their act together perfectly", a.k.a. "Mister Right", to sleep with? Definately not.

And yet those people ARE the men they are looking for. Those people is who they want to have their baby from, with whom they want to raise the child and live on happily ever after. And THAT's why most of them are so picky, which may make it kind of hard for men who DON'T have their act together perfectly, to get laid. These people will rationalize their own flaws and mistakes away (because, let's face it, they ARE like that), and will simply attribute getting laid for a guy to "chance and luck".

That statement would've made psychologists cringe, really... Men are not chosen by "luck and chance", because that'd mean the process by which females select their mates would be completely random. Experience, observation and even the theory of evolution would oppose that very statement. And what actually IS the fact of the matter? Women DO have certain psychological wants and needs for in a sexual partner, which is why people who DO have these traits ACTUALLY GET LAID!

So it's basically a challenge for both of the sexes, really...

While it might be true that most guys have a more difficult time getting laid because they just aren't attractive, and because they don't have the "Mr. Right"-personality, it is also true that women have a more difficult time in actually finding this "Mr. Right" in stead of just some bum who wants to f*** them...

The score is 1-1. Case closed.

Have a great day! ^^

[rosieeebaby]

I couldn't put it any better.

[Asker]

It's still easier for a girl to even get a serious boyfriend, a committed relationship, girls have it easier overall, because us guys always have to make the first move and ask the girl out, initiate everything.

[TimB -1-2-3]

Yep. You're right... Girls have it soooo much easier... On the guy's terms, that is. God forbid we actually judge female psychology on the basis of female psychology... 'Cause then "overall" would look very different... Women want REAL men, not wussies. That's just how it is. Get over it. Have a nice day.

[Asker]

I know that, I'm not a wuss, it's just that I hate being rejected, that is why women have it easier becaue they don't get rejected.

[TimB -1-2-3]

Yes, they do get rejected. Just not by wusses. Real men know what they want, and what they don't want. They know when to say yes and when to say no. They DO reject, and accept, sure, but only on their own terms, and on their own thought-through wants. I get what you're saying, but do you see the problem here? How many of these real men, who genuinely have EVERYTHING together, who know what they want and act upon it, have YOU YOURSELF encountered? Now tell me how women have it easier... ;p

[Asker]

If a guy asks a girl to have sex, the guy will either get slapped or get called a pervert, overall rejected instantly. If it was reversed, the guy would say 'HELL YES" instantly.

[TimB -1-2-3]

I'm afraid that comment says more about you than about me, mate XD

[Asker]

It's way easier for a girl to hook up with a guy at a bar or at a party than it is for us guys, because for girls, it just happens, but us guys have to make it happen.

[l-hedoniste]

Luck and chance? He's just refusing to take responsibility for his situation. The guy who applies his brain, his will, and his effort to getting laid, gets laid. The rest call him lucky.

[buhran]

not true. girls are more likely to say no and it is easier for us to get a partner for sex, but it's not true that girls choose and guys depend on luck.

1) many girls, younger ones especially, had sex cos they were scared their boyfriend would leave them or to try to get a guy. this is not choice, it's fear.

2)the idea is degrading to men. many boys probably do have sex whenever it is offered, but men don't. a real man knows how good he is and sleeps only with the ones he wants. usually, the number will be larger then a woman's, but he does choose. in fact, since there are less men then woman, yet there are more woman who are more or less attractive by general terms then there are men, so those men who are attractive do choose for sure. but I think every self respecting man will not say yes to any girl.

[Anonymous]

The irony is that girls are not running around trying to get laid. It isn't what we want, in general. Girls want relationships, not to get laid. Unfortunately a lot of girls are confused into believing that they will get to a relationship after they have sex and they don't understand that men can have sex without any desire to go further.

So, guys are trying to get laid and envy girls for being able to if they want.

Girls are trying to get a boyfriend and are frustrated that the guy they had sex with isn't down for that.

[Anonymous]

yeah pretty much. if I wanted some d*** I could go out and have my pick. I could call almost any non-relative male in my phone and he'd probably have sex with me. but the thing is I don't want to have meaningless sex with a guy who doesn't care about me so that is pretty much null and void. getting a relationship is hard!

[tex151]

Not necessarily easier for a chick to get laid than a guy, I say it's about the same, sure some chick can call up a guy and say lets f***, but a guy can also call up a girl and very easily persuade her to have sex. Most girls aren't that slutty though, and they think of sex as this great emotional attachment and blah blah blah, but as for a guy we just think of it as something fun to do, and the less strings attached the better it is.

Try it go have sex with a chick more than once, and you will see exactly what I mean, she will become more and more attached to you, unless she is just a slut. And soon before you know it you'll be in a relationship or at least dating the girl.

[Littletad]

I think it is a little easier for women. But gosh, luck and chance? That sounds like it's a game. And ironically for a lot of men, it is a game of luck. And it's a game women and men have been playing for years, isn't it?

Anyhow I still think the other holds true. Treat a girl right, and you'll have fun too. It's not always luck and chance, or a game.

[Asker]

Women have it easier because almost no straight heterosexual Man will turn down an opportunity to get laid.

[MoonFight]

Oh yeah? why do I get turned down all the time then? lol it's ok though.

[kussmaulk]

Id go for you lol

[quicksilver43]

I'll agree that its much easier for a girl, but I don't think that it is a board game based solely on luck.

[6blueshoes]

"Women need a reason for having sex, men just need a place".- Billy Crystal

[Virtuales]

well ye it's true

and they still think we can be equal lol

[jacquesvol]

Girls ARE equal. Got the message?

[Virtuales]

Haha take it easy dude i thought I'll get comments from girls not you

[rosieeebaby]

Jacquesvol. your the one suggesting that our education is solely directed towards finding the right guy to carry on our genes. but I apprecaite the back up. women and men are equal. we have equal potential in all aspects of life. though I do admit often times women just have higher expectations for what they want out of a partner, thus making it harder for men to get laid.

[Asker]

It's easier for a girl to get a boyfriend overall, period.

[jacquesvol]

Normal: girls are more demanding/intelligent when it comes to choosing/accepting someone they might have a baby from. Their whole education prepares them for choosing the "right" partner. (even if they're unaware of it) Not by nature, by gender or by accident.

Their dads don't trust boys, because they know all too well what they thought/did themselves and communicate that to their daughters in all possible ways, directly or through the mums.

If YOU had a daughter you'd do the same (I don't have one but I understand what happens-I've seen too many friends educating their daughters)

It's been happening that way for thousands of years and you would expect it not to have influenced gender roles in partner choice? You've got other ideas coming. Just wait.

[soursop090]

oh yeah. I can get laid whenever I want.

[Littletad]

Lol

[BlackHawk44]

think of it this way. A average male stands naked in the street and screams f*** me he gets looks from people like he is a serial killer. A female does the same thing but she will get every swinging dick for a 100 miles coming her way.

[jacquesvol]

Yep and which normal girl wants a gang bang?

[katiegal]

Hahaha I kinda agree.But imagining that girl who would do this(or even guy),the person must be crazy :D lol. Normal girls do not sleep with every man they meet on the street as they are horny.!!!

[MoonFight]

Nope. not true. people will think both are crazy.

[Anonymous]

Feminist, rude, arrogant, egoistic, short tempered and bitter women will never get laid. They go to sperm banks and child adoption center when they are grow old. When they are single, lonely and frustrated, they buy sex toys.😂🤣😅😆