My boyfriend's mom walked in on me and my boyfriend.

[xcheerleaderxax]

My boyfriend's mom walked in on me and my boyfriend having sex and now she's a little mad how do I deal with this situation,and how do I make it right with my bf.

[kspytz]

I was 13 when my mom walked in on me with a girl in my bed room, we were making out. After that my mom started knocking on my door when ever she wanted to come in. If you were in your bf's room, then I'd say its her fault for waking in on you guys. How old is your bf? Still living at home? I'm sure you were embarrassed getting caught with your pants down. Talk to your boyfriend find out what he thinks should be done to "make it right" he is involved, too. Maybe the two of you should talk with her. Why is she mad? She should be glad that he is home and hopefully practicing safe sex.

[Littletad]

Well your engaged. Your both adults, and that's what adults do. Your future mother-in-law has to understand that. Don't be rude about it. Respect her wishes and avoid having sex in her own house. That's just disrespectful.

Apologize to her. The both of you would be a good step. Your not apologizing for having sex, but rather WHERE you had it. Be smart, and before you know it, this will all be behind you.

[xcheerleaderxax]

No I'm sorry me and my sister share this she's the one getting married I'm 15...

[mcloo7]

I think its up to him mainly to make it right, its his mom.

[xcheerleaderxax]

Yea true but I feel its my fault so I should probably try to do something to help.i was the one who said lets just do it,his mom wasn't even home she came home unexpectedly.

[mcloo7]

Yeah but its not really your fault if she came home unexpectedly. If she was home and you were being irresponsible that would be a different story. Fifteen's a young age to get caught having sex and that can be really embarassing and hard to deal with with somebody's parents. I'd just try to let it blow over. Communicate with your boyfriend a lot and see how he wants to handle it. If you think he might be mad at you then just wait a little bit and let it blow over. He'll probably get over it. Are you sur

[mcloo7]

She knows you were having sex and not just making out?

[xcheerleaderxax]

Hahah no she knows he was movie went she walked in we didn't notice till she said something so she knows.but thanks for your help its was really helpful =)

[xcheerleaderxax]

Moving* when*

[mcloo7]

Haha, ok. good luck with the whole thing

[xcheerleaderxax]

Thank you

[markscott]

I think she meant moving, as is intercourse type movements, when she walked in, so his mother knew for sure what was going on.

[adiobabe999]

I think you should apologize 2 her. for one ur a minor. and under age 2 be having sex. but I think she will eventually. but you have 2 see it from a mothers point of view. I'm sure she doesn't want 2 be a grandmother anytime soon. so yeah. just be like I'm sorry. it won't happen again.

[Aleera]

She should KNOCK!!! God if I wanted to have everyone coming in I would not have the freaking door closed!!

[Smurfguy]

Assure her you were using a condom and you have chosen to be celibate til later and you love him that works

[xcheerleaderxax]

And why would I do that I wanna marry the kid I just had sex to lol

[Smurfguy]

I know that but hey let her think that and then next time go to a hotel haha works for both of you guys

[mcloo7]

Theyre too young to even get a hotel room

[Smurfguy]

Friends gah making it difficult haha

[xcheerleaderxax]

Wow w.e be an ass hole

[mcloo7]

Me?

[Smurfguy]

Asshole? damn I'm for serious I did it too

[xcheerleaderxax]

No.

[xcheerleaderxax]

Did what?

[Smurfguy]

Ok fell for this girl and I thought I was gonna marry her too just like you are got caught by her mom and got kicked out and still liked each other we fell apart though not right but you two won't fall apart go somewhere else to be intimate though preferably not parents house haha

[mcloo7]

I think she meant to say that she "doesn't want to marry the kid", they're only 15

[Smurfguy]

Haha Wait I thought she did

[enlightenment]

damn...that is a rough one. Good luck