Why Are Guys Silent During Sex?

I've only been with 1 person,and that's my current bf.When we have sex, I'm pretty vocal but he's like silent.When he cums he does make a face,and he breaths hard and when I'm giving him oral I can feels his penis "throbbing" But he's silent.Maybe its only him.And I ask if he enjoys the sex and he said yes. Are most guys like this?Why?
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Most Helpful Girl

  • good question! =)

    i think theyre silent (just guessing) because women are designed to be more sensitive to the touch and senses...and emotional, weak too...and with emotion comes expression..so we can express our feelings and sensations more then men, its pretty much involuntary too and comes naturally...men in contrast were designed to be more energetic, tough skinned, strong, less emotional/expressive...

    it kinda makes sense because guys suck at displaying their emotions or letting a girl know he likes her...guys rarely cry too...they don't get worked up about things that girls do...they don't fuss or talk a lot...men don't like confrontation or talking, if you get the point they just are silent powerful creatures in general...so its acceptable if during sex they're quiet too...lol!

Most Helpful Guys

  • I'm always quieter than my girlfriend when we have sex, she's moaning and groaning all over whereas I'll sort of grunt and on the rare occasion moan but I'm in general a lot quieter, I think it's like this with every man. I have a pretty strong theory that sex is just better for women. A friend of mine explains it away as sort of being like "when you pick your nose, which feels better, the nose or the finger?" The nose, right? Yeah.

  • In any given activity, guys will be less vocal than women. Is anyone surprised?

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  • It depends on the guy really, girls are the same, some are more vocal than others.

    In general though I'd say most guys are quieter. Its not something to worry about!