How to give a girl an orgasm without penetrating her vagina with the penis?

I love to pleasure my gf and I want to make her cum without actually putting my cock in her pussy. We want to get married first and do it then, fingering, licking and stuff like that is all fine. Any help?
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  • When you are down on her, start by slowly rubbing two fingers just up and down the whole area (not penetrating her). When she gets wetter, take your fingers to her clit which is at the top area and put the hood between your two fingers (or more) and circle it in your fingers. While still doing this, bring your mouth below this and start gently ( mean gently) nibbling her lids or the flesh around the vagina area. start sucking/ licking in the area and keep working yourself up and put your tongue in her actual vagina if you want and curl it upwards to hit her g-spot (you probably can feel it) and rub your tongue roughly on it (more stimulation).

    This will hopefully get you started at least :)

    • Thanks a lot :D

    • No problem, whatever makes her moan, just do more of that or go somewhere else then surprise her but doing the thing she particularly loves again lol.

    • OOOOOOOO thats witty haha thats a wonderful tip

  • Fingers and your tounge. Bang her pussy with 1, then 2 and maybe 3 fingers while you lick her clit. Its better than fucking sometimes.

    • Really !! thanks will do

    • Google this topic too... you can find some good tips.

    • thanks will do

  • Let your gf rub herself on your leg, she can control the pace and pressure

    • We do that and she loves it. She has never cum to that though

    • Are you clothed when you do it? I have problems coming through penetration and I can come by rubbing my clit on my partners leg, as I control the pressure and pace, and as my partners legs are really hairy I find that the hair adds to the stimulation. But, I suppose it's different strikes for different folks.

    • We aren't clothed while doing that and I am a little hairy not a lot. Maybe its because we don't do the rubbing thing long enough for her to cum.

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  • Get some 10 speed fingers and learn to play the trumpet

    • lol yeah that might work

  • Focus on the clit. you can use your finger or tongue.

    • Can you please be a little more descriptive

    • Focus on the whole genital area, not just the clit.

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  • Well you said it, using your fingers and mouth. Playing with her boobs, you can even rub your penis on her clit

    • I must be doing something wrong. I do all these things.

    • Ummmm ask her what she wants and what she likes. It's a little embarrassing, but every woman is different. They only way you will know for sure is to ask her. Or you could make it into a game. Blind fold yourself and tell her you can see, she has to tell you want to do. Give her a little power over what you do to her, that alone turns some women on

    • Sounds great Will definitely try blindfolding

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  • just go down on her , she can easily cum like that

    • Is there a specific way I should do it?

    • Ask her. No woman is the same.

  • Use your fingers and tongue

  • Clitoral stimulation

  • Play with her clit.

    • My ex could get me screaming into him shoulder by doing just that. We always joked about buttons during foreplay.

    • That sounds great :)

  • The clitoris. And stimulate the G-spot, if she likes that. Also, tongue.

    • How long does it take with that? Don't want to stop before she finishes

    • Unless she is faking it, you would probably know. Or have her tell you.

    • :) okay

  • You will need to learn oral, the tongue is a great tool and also use your fingers, I had my first orgasms when my bf gave me oral.

    • Can you help me with it? I mean if you can tell me how to learn it, maybe something I could read or a video

    • Honestly, one way to learn is watch p*rn and practice, it's definetly an art. There are also some good sexual blogs that will give you excellent pointers. Every girl is different you need to practice with her and ask her how she feels when you do it. She will guide you on how to pleasure her body, If anyone knows her anatomy it will be her :)

    • Thanks :) I was actually looking for a proper source of information if you know one

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  • Kiss her on the neck behind her ear, it is hot.

    • That's not enough bro What after that

    • then @Illusive_Man