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My boyfriend took my shirt off, it was very awkward for me, what if he does it again?

We were making out on his bed and I was getting horny, he had his hand on my arm and I moved it over my breast. After that he got really excited and tried to take off my top. I said no but he insisted and he just took it off before I realized it. I felt very guilty about it later on. That may be it was my mistake. But he enjoyed it and he's definitely going to do it again. What do I do/say next time when he tries to take off my shirt?
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But I am afraid that if I tell him straight away, he's going to be hurt because he really enjoyed it. I don't want to offend him and make him think I am a selfish prude.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • The best way to avoid this is to talk about it _before_ you're making out. Not immediately before, but a few days before. Tell him that you like being physical, but you're only comfortable with A, B and C.

    Springing it on him in the middle of a make-out session is counterproductive. He'll be hot & bothered. Talk to him about it when he's in a different state of mind.

  • It wouldn't be selfish!

    If you don't want it to happen, then make it clear. A lot of guys just want what they want when they want it. The thing is it takes a special guy to respect their GF.

    If I was dating and they acted like they didn't like it, I'd stop by all means. its just curtesy.

Most Helpful Girls

  • you told him no and he did it anyway ? don't let him do that he needs to respect you. you need to tell him your not ready to do that or whatever yet its not being selfish its standing up for yourself and you have your boundaries let him know what your boundaries are and don't feel guilty about doing so if he really cares about you he'll understand that.

  • I would sit him down,and tell him your boundaries.Say "I like making out and being physical,but I am not comfortable with yaddayadda"

    • First off,he is your boyfriend.He should respect your boundaries,and if he loves you or cares about you,he will take you into consideration.If he is hurt,that is his problem,not yours.You have to put yourself first in this case.Selfish prude?Why because you aren't being submissive or easy?Uh no,how about a girl with self respect who isn't a push over,yea that's better.Tell him you enjoy being physical and close,but YOU ARE NOT ready for it to go further.

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  • Well, I would say if you don't want him to do it again then tell him NO! but don't stop at saying no. Explain why you don't want him to do it. If he can't respect that then he's got a problem. I'd suggest talking about it though, communication in a relationship is a must have.

  • Okay, don't say what you want or speak up for yourself.

    Instead, stuff your feelings, then feel resentful towards him and take it out passive aggressively so he's completely confused by your sour moods.

    Much better plan.

  • Why don't you want him touching you there? Why does it matter?

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