What makes a lady horny?

What are the main things that a guy can do to make a lady get horny?

Most Helpful Opinion

  • Most (but not necessarily all) women get horny when you take charge. Not arrogantly, but confidently, strongly, decisively.

    It's kind of hard to explain, and equally hard to pull off in real life without pissing the woman off. But almost all women, regardless of their sincere desired to be your "equal" get horny when you make them feel feminine, protected, and a little bit "along for the ride. "

    But make the plan, give her the call, tell her when you'll pick her up. (Make sure the agenda is compatible with her likes but DON'T ask her what she wants to do. ) Get the door for her, take her hand to help her out of the car.

    When you're conversing, listen to her, but don't pander to her. Don't kiss up; she'll sense that, just be actively, considerately concerned about whatever she's interested in. DON'T criticize anything she says and more importantly DON'T ask for her approval of anything you say. Own your opinions and just know you have a right to them. Don't force them on her. Just lay them out there and move on. They love a guy that knows what he likes, but doesn't force her to like the same things. They hate a guy that doesn't know what he likes, or tries to get her to like the same things.

    The whole time make sure she knows you're not desperate, but that if you we're in the mood, you only have eyes for her. Meaning, don't act turned on by ANYONE other than her, but don't act like you're there hoping to score with her. Instead, you're with her because of her, nobody else interests you. And if they sense that you KNOW you could get some action elsewhere but have chosen them, they respond.

    Then, back home, make the first move. Don't wait for her, but don't attack her. And certainly, pay attention so that if she isn't in the mood or saying No, back the f*** off or leave. But, the horniest girl is thinking about sex with you, but hoping you'll take the initiative.

    So, now, after your romantic evening and sparking conversation, she WANTS to be willingly ravished. She LIKES some kinky stuff but wants you to "instinctively" take her there, because she's too embarrassed to ask for it. Obviously, you have no idea where "there" is so you have to act like you do. Act like you KNOW she'll like it if you unbutton her blouse. But the whole time pay attention; if she acts like she doesn't, she doesn't. But if she's just sitting there panting, try it. Continue until she speaks up or you reach the promised land.

    Same deal with sex and variety. Start out with the kissing, foreplay, missionary. But, if you're still up for it, YOU be the one to turn her over on her tummy and take her from behind. YOU be the one to (gently) test and prod and discover her buttons; the more buttons you push, the more ravished she will feel and you've taken all that female guilt about sex off her mind because you're making all the moves, she's just "being taken. "

    If you do it right, they love it. But MAKE SURE not to push her into anything she dislikes.

    • Well said my friend, I would have said almost the same thing you know your stuff too, congrats