Why Does Doggy Style Hurt So Much?

So, whenever I try doggy style with my partner I end up feeling really uncomfortable, and what I mean by uncomfortable is that it hurts. We've tried all sorts of variations of doggy, but nothing seems to alleviate the discomfort I'm feeling. I'm not a tiny woman and he's got an average sized penis, but it feels like my pelvis is too narrow for him to fit comfortably. He can't even slide all the way in because it hurts so much. Has anyone ever experienced this? Any idea what could be the problem? Any tips?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Sounds like you coudl be either not wet enough, or the way you're holding your legs make you a little too tight for that angle.

    Next time you guys do doggy style, try spending more time on foreplay, with extra attention to you. Best if he gets you to orgasm at least once before sex, which usually releases some tension in your muscles. You can try that, or try moving your knees further apart, which also reduces the tightness a bit.

  • He's hitting your cervix. I Have the same problem, it can be pretty painful. You can try adjusting the angle in which he enters you like curve your back more or less or put your face down and your ass up and vice versa.

  • I felt like this when I started having sex. I hated doggy style. As time went by, and we did it more and more, it started feeling better. Now its my favorite position. Try rubbing your clit while you're doing it.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Best thing I can tell you is to try another position. If it hurts, don't do it.

    If you insist on it then try to take things slow. Start with slow thrusting and rocking and gently ramp it up. If you still feel pain then stop. The last thing you want to do is hurt yourself during an experience that should be pleasurable.

  • Is it hurt inside your vagina or around the door of vagina?
    Doggy position makes your vagina really tight. Its a lot tighter than missionary position. It could hurt but this is rare. I never heard yet any girl complaints that doggy style hurts her.

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  • Yes, it fucking kills.

    But it's a really unemotional position anyway, so we don't miss it.

  • maybee coz you might have some kind of cuts on the wall of your vagina or it could be just coz you'r new at it
    ... visit an urologist

  • I’m average size but my woman loves lube included! Maybe you’re not having enough foreplay or wet enough? I don’t know? Give lubes a try!

  • He may be impacting your cervix.

  • Doggy style lets the man penetrate deeper and harder, if this is too much for you, you should really try a different position.

  • It's a stupid position anyway, I don't like it.