I caught him cheating and he didn't even stop.

[Anonymous]

Friday is me and my husband's night out with friends and last weekend I went to the movies with some of my girlfriends. He went to the same bar with his friends like he has been doing for 5 years now since he turned 21. Well halfway through the movie my stomach was feeling upset and I decided to just come home. Now this is like a classic scenario that you always here I just never thought it would happen to me. I walked in the house and my husband was f***ing our babysitter. I am not even going to say her age because its disgusting. I was screaming and didn't know what to do and he never stopped. He looked at me and asked what I was doing home so early and then said just leave. He had my son in his room locked up and I went and grabbed him and some stuff and walked out still screaming at him because he was sill f***ing this girl in the living room and never f***ing stopped. I went to my aunts to stay where I have been since then. This girls mother called me a few days ago and asked if I have seen her because she has been missing school and comng home late. I know she has been over there f***ing around. It is disgusting and this has probably been going on for a few years which makes her age even more disgusting. I have no idea what to do now. Why would he do this I just don't get it he is 10 years older then this girl. I never thought he would do something like this and to not even stop when I caught him?

[azpunch23]

First of all you need to pick yourself up for your child and your future emotional sanity. Then you need to go before the girls parents and let them know what you have seen. At which point they need to sit their daughter down in front of you and them, and she needs to confess to her parents. Then her parents need to go to the police department and report him all while you are filing divorce papers. You need that paper trail woman. Once he is in jail you file for full custody of your son, and possession of your estate (house, cars, bank accounts) and you carry yourself like a strong woman and you heal. He is a sick sick man! And now that this has happened to you, you cannot sit there and tell yourself you didn't see the signs. But what's done is done. If you take this man back or give him the opportunity to file against you, you would be a damn fool! The first to file in any divorce gets their side heard first. And you need that. So wipe your f***in tears and do what you KNOW YOU NEED TO DO! I wish you luck.

[itzzxhypnotik]

Blunt and true. and don't say you don't want him to go to jail because he's sick and he needs to suffer the consequences

[englove369]

Divorce the bastard! Not only is he horrible for cheating on you to begin with, but on top of that he's cheating on you with a FVCKING 16 YEAR OLD and as if that's not bad enough when you catch him he doesn't even have the respect for you or the decency to stop. He's a prick with some serious issues. Don't waste your time on someone like that. You're still young, divorce this piece of sh*t and get a man who respects you.

All I can say is if I had been in your situation, he wouldn't have had a choice, but to stop because he'd have been too busy trying to block the punches I would've been throwing... lol

[Anonymous]

If he valued you or your life together at all he would of stopped. He should of stopped and tried to come after you...then maybe you two could of worked it out. Have you talked to him since? Has he even tried to explain himself? Or is he too busy screwing the babysitter? That's complete bull****. You should tell the girls mother where she has been too. I find it horrible that he locked your son in his room so that he could do this as well. You should not have to put up with that. Take your son and leave him. You both deserve better and he does not deserve either of you for that s***

[germanotaku]

Oh girl, I'm so sorry for you.

There is but one thing you can do now - leave this jerk!

Honestly, not to mention that he cheated on you, but he didn't even have a problem with it. Jumping around immediately after discovery - then realizing what he has done wrong - trying to explain himself. That would be THE ONLY "reasonable" reaction to be.

But f***ing her to the end? That's just gross. Both by behavior and age differences as you've mentioned. I don't know how old he is and you put up 18-24 - is this true?

So if he still need younger girls, I don't know what your babysitters age was, but I'd seriously consider going to the police if she is still underage - just give him the full tour...

[x0xMelina]

He obviously didn't stop because he doesn't give a sh*t about you. Honey, he was CAUGHT FUCKING ANOTHER GIRL RIGHT IN FRONT OF YOU AND DIDN'T STOP. That says it all. He didn't care enough to stop and doesn't give a rats ass about you. Sorry to be harsh, but it's the damn true. Divorce him.

[dave216]

I agree with you entirely, but why would he stop? He wasn't going to get any more caught. I think life as he has known it just ended. He is looking at divorce, loss of family, and maybe jail. He might just as well give her a few more strokes and finish.

[x0xMelina]

Hoeny, you're trying to make excuses for him now. Look at yourself. You seriously just asked me WHY WOULD HE STOP? Out of respect and embarrassment if nothing else. It's sad that you feel the need to defend a man who doesn't love you and runs around with teenagers.

[dave216]

Did you miss the part about agree with you, divorce, family loss, and jail. From that you extract I am defending him? I don't think so. He has no respect for her, that isn't a reason, and who is too say what embarrasses some people. You were describing normal reactions. I don't see much in his behavior to indicate normalcy.

[x0xMelina]

No, I didn't miss that part nor did I think it was of any importance to the question at hand. You keep your opinions and I'll keep mine.

[dave216]

Um, excuse me, we were discussing your spurious accusation of me being supportive too this guy. You neglected to justify or in any way explain why you would accuse me of being in support of him even though I copied the pertinent phrases from my post to refresh your memory. Certainly if you are prepared to cast disbursions, you are prepared to explain.

[x0xMelina]

Lmao. You take this way too seriously. And in fact, I thought you were the girl who had posted the question, when you replied to my comment. When I looked at your screen name after a few comments, I realized you weren't the question asker.

[peace-love-couture]

Divorce him.Plain and simple.If he had been caught and STOPPED,maybe I would have suggested serious counseling and therapy,but the fact that he didn't stop,shows he had 0 respect for you,your marriage,your emotions,your family and more importantly,your CHILD.Divorce plain and simple.I'm sorry you married an idiot.

[charizzle]

i'm sorry this happened to you. leave him. at least you're still young and you have a whole life ahead of you and you have plenty of men to date. dump his ass out on the streets!

[itzzxhypnotik]

he's been going to the bar for 5 years since 21 (making him 26) the girl is 10 years younger (16). I think you need to tell that girls mother because she needs to get her daughter some help. and you need to leave your husband and take your son. ew.

[tiger94]

Leave him!

[Anonymous]

Men like this are not worth your pain, tears, or even acknowledgment. Simply dump this mofo and try to move on with your life. There are many great men out there. Don't let one dirty apple ruin it for you.

[Anonymous]

i salute this man

[-smilewhore]

Ok why the hell ?!

[Opinion Owner]

He has done nothing wrong he was f***ing the babysitter when his kid is locked in the other room HAHA I salute this man again

[itzzxhypnotik]

Didn't do anything wrong? he is married and was having sex with a 16 year old when he's 26 (give or take a year--do the math in her story). I'd say that's wrong.

[Opinion Owner]

He saw a chance and took it nothing wrong with that

[charizzle]

You're messed up dude. I hope you get erectile dysfunction and never be able to screw a woman, ever again.

[annacanskate]

Lmao , that's so screwed up, ahahah the comment above mine is hilarious (: