Why is he WAY too horny around me lately?

[Anonymous]

He's my boyfriend so he obviously is meant to be, we've been together for 3 months and we used to be really close friends before. Now it's just like were always horny around each other and like I feel its getting to much, because I don't want sex before marriage and he knows that. But it's honestly far to horny! I'm not going to lie, because he does make me REALLY horny but I feel like we've lost all that sense of talking normally, like when we were friends before and we'd talk about anything and everything, and I miss that now he's just far to horny. what can I do? I don't want sex. I should obviously be flattered that I can make him feel that horny, but its to much and I don't want our relationship to be lusting after each other about 99% of the time.

[Panamanian_11550]

Um I think you answered your own your own question.! It's not love, it's lust. A lot of young couples usually seem to mistake love and lust.

Love is when the other person is constantly on your mind, a feeling you can't explain, you get weak and you don't know why. Those are some common reasons you you know that is love. Everyone doesn't have it that way. But if your boyfriend doesn't talk anything but sex, and things related, then it's definitly lust.!

And I don't think that you should be so quick to say it's meant to be, if it's only been 3 months.

You kno the saying,: Guys will tell you ANYTHING to get in your panties.!

I think {{Personally}} You should move on to someone more patient, and caring.

If he cared about how you felt about sex before marriage, then he wouldn't be breathing down your back every time you talk.

I don't mean to seem harsh, and I'm sorry if I do. That isn't my intention, but most good girls fall victim to guys like him because they think it's love. SO...use your common sense and move on.! I hope this helps you.!

[whalesthatwalk]

I'm in the same boat. Exactly.

What I want to advise you not to do, if you haven't already is touching or doing anything that may lead to sex. I know that's really broad, but like, hand jobs and the like, try to avoid because once you do that, you're going to want it constantly. And it becomes even harder to control yourself. Try to spend time around other people. When you plan to hang out, have something to do, so you're not sitting around tempted to do stuff. Make sure you plan things out. Not just watching a movie, because that leaves you sitting together doing nothing. Make sure you're busy. And just really try to avoid being alone together.

I hope this helps! I know it's hard! No pun intended..haha.

[l-hedoniste]

If you want a puppy to do something, you teach him so he understands, then you give him a treat for getting it right.

Men are the same way. If you show him that quality time gets him a treat, he'll spend a lot more quality time with you.

[billbooo59]

Too horny... sounds like you need to learn to appreciate what u got when he's old and fat he ain't gunma fuck u at all.

[JessForAdvice]

Make the most of it you lucky girl!!