I'm long but also thick so i can understand but he needs to be a bit more understanding. It sounds like you just naturally gave a small pussy. It sort of turns me on knowing that it's incapable of fitting all the dick in but one needs to be understanding and take it easy. He sounds quite selfish and inconsiderate.
He'll keep hurting you and have less respect for you though if you just keep agreeing to anything he says like a mule. Also if you have anal a lot of people lack sex education. Your rectal muscles aren't the same as other muscles. They'renot quite designed for that type of activity. Colon cancer risk increases for one. The rectsl sphincter unlike other muscles can't really be tightened up the same way. They'll naturally weaken over time but anal will speed up this processand pink sock will soon become familiar to you and leakage. Besides if your pussy is tight and wet. Why anal?
Lke dicks, pussies come in different sizes. If you take it really slow and gentle, you might be able to take more, but you're only as deep as your anatomy. He needs to be considerate of your feelings and of your pleasure, bu not bruising your cervix.
Some dudes see that as proof that they're big, so they get off on pounding the bottom out of it. If you're not up for that tell him so and he should accept it. He should actually feel bad for causing you pain. If he doesn't, look for a better BF with a bigger heart and a more moderate dick.
Anal is another option if he stays really really gentle. Your rectum is probably deeper, but it can't take the pounding if it isn't deep enough.
His penis is really thick I'm not gonna lie, so I'm so scared it will tear my butthole! I said in the question he's not thick just because I don't want people to think I'm bragging, and won't focus on answering the question :( Besides, I never stick anything in my butthole so it must be really tight...
Sometimes I'm glad to be medium sized. I'd hate to cause pain making love to a woman. It's not impressive to look at, but function > appearance.
Okay, first of all, realize that p*rn is NOT an accurate representation of real sex. Second, there's nothing you can do except ask him to not thrust as deeply. He can't change his size and you can't change your vagina so all you can do is try positions that don't allow for deep penetration and he will just have to control himself more on how far he enters. You can try the cowgirl position also because that position, among others, allows you to control the depth and speed. I don't think he has to enter you ALL the way in order for the sex to be good.
I had that with my ex, it always hurt to have sex because he was so big so I was never able to enjoy it. But one day I just took it like a champ and changed my mindset, instead of thinking about the pain, I thought about the pleasure and ever since that he was able to go deep in. Lol I don't know if it would work for you but it worked for me :p
Thanks girl. I will try to stop thinking about the pain.
I'm in the same boat. My guy is huge and although enjoyable for him the sex is not enjoyable for me because it's soo painful. I wouldn't dare do anal with him since I've never done it before, I know it will be brutal. I dealt with it for a long time but got tired of the painful unenjoyable sex
My bf wants to try anal too. OMG I'm dead scared.
You have control not him... Don't do anything your not ready for. However, If you do try it get lots of lube, or start with a small dildo until you're ready. Take your time and talk to him about it tell him you're not ready yet.
I'm so scared of the idea of sticking anything in my butt, even my little finger! I don't want to turn him off that's why I said yes we can try, but now I'm dead scared. Will my butthole stay big forever after his penis is in? Will it ripe?
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Well they are p*rn stars so obviously having room down there helps their career. What I mean is that might partly be why they are doing p*rn. Lots (I think most) cannot take a guy that's really 8 inches (a lot of guys lie I guess). Nothing's wrong with you.
The first time he can't get all the way in we measure it together, and it's really 8 inches. I thought AT LEAST 6 or 7 inches should be in, but it's only about half way in :( How do I solve this problem? :(
Is he your first partner?
yes...
Take it slower, the more time you give it the more the vaginal canal will expand mayne he needs to give you oral sex for longer periods and keep testing the waters
The vagina does elongate during sex, but every woman is different and some just won't ever be able to take a big cock all the way.
Funny you should mention the butt, because that will take any length of dong...
He wants to try anal but it hurts so bad I don't want to do it.
if you keep doing it when you get old you won't be able to control you shits happens to p*rn stars
He may be impacting your cervix. Be sure he goes in south of it.
The average woman's vaginal canal is only about six inches deep. If your guy is longer than your vaginal canal, he's not going to get balls deep in you, ever.
Which sucks, because going balls deep feels great.
It's actually 4 inches
Elongates during sexual arousal.
... Mine is not even 6 inches deep, his penis only goes half in...
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Look into something like this, that way he doesn't have to limit intensity and you are both still getting satisfied.
You just need some more training.
so it will get deeper? I don't think so...
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