How long should a handjob usually last?

So last night I gave my first handjob to my bf (but not first for him). He looked really aroused but it took almost 10 minutes for him to come. Is it a long time? I mean, we weren't alone at home so we're supposed to do everything quietly and quite fast...
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Well, it depends on the guy and the situation. Do you both want it to be over quickly? Is the aim for him to come? Also, maybe you should have him teach you how he does it to himself. On average during sex, it takes a male around three to five minutes to orgasm. But hand jobs work a little differently.

  • That's totally normal. Don't be afraid to talk openly to him about it, especially if you are getting closer and doing things for the first time. Be safe!

Most Helpful Guys

  • No not that long. If he MB with p*rn a lot sometimes handjob can take a lot longer...20+ minutes. For a fresh, sensitive guy he may come if you just look at it or in a couple minutes. Just depends.

  • No, that sounds like an average time. If you wanted a quickie, you could easily do five minutes, but the best time is around ten

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  • not too long frankly. I personally have a very tough time climaxing from a handy alone, unless the person is really good at it

  • Probably should be a bit longer but you should be happy you can make him come in 10 minutes unless you're looking for a long session where you pleasures you too.

  • It depends. A super fast one should only be a few minutes, whereas I've had more passionate ones (with making out and groping) last over 20 minutes because it was just part of the experience.

  • Sounds about normal

  • My girl gives me a hand job daily takes 2 hours on average

  • Every guy is different, some guys take a long time to build up the tension whilst in others the jelly comes out in no time.

  • It depends how well u rub him and what techniques u know. One partner would try and try n seldom make me come. Another cud do it with her dirty talk alone